tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post699266476492214001..comments2024-03-28T22:56:01.787-04:00Comments on Cheryl's Frugal Corner: Being Frugal isn't always about NOT spendingCheryl Kimbleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-42736306314412961562021-01-28T11:31:45.960-05:002021-01-28T11:31:45.960-05:00That is a funny saying "common sense" - ...That is a funny saying "common sense" - it sure doesn't seem to be that it is common.<br />You preach it too!!! Priorities - my how they differ.<br />I got ripped yesterday on FB for telling a women who was whining about becoming retired. I told her to enjoy and embrace it (her choice to retire), as did lots of other people. One gal started chewing me out about not all retirements are NICE. How I knew nothing. Well - that is a story for another day!<br />Common sense - where have you gone?Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-7688513252377139872021-01-28T11:19:33.457-05:002021-01-28T11:19:33.457-05:00Preach it! So many trials in life to learn from...Preach it! So many trials in life to learn from if we just DO! You have given more great examples to all today. Thank you.<br />I stayed home as a care giver for several years - oh I went out, but not far. Then alone, that just became the norm again. The pandemic - alone no problem.<br />We can beat all the obstacles - we just need to try.<br />Thanks for being here.Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-25614693859603867692021-01-28T08:31:36.173-05:002021-01-28T08:31:36.173-05:00This is a fabulous post and the comments all add g...This is a fabulous post and the comments all add good information to the topic of being frugal. Finding better quality clothing in a thrift store is far better than buying made in China junk that falls apart in a short time. Back in the day when I worked at an elementary school, at lunchtime I would hear children talking about how daddy was put in jail for drinking too much and what they watched on cable TV and about the boat (or other big-boy toys) they had. I was the secretary and I knew who was on free lunch and free books. If folks can afford these "luxuries", they can afford to feed their kids and pay for their books. Same mindset as the other ladies have mentioned about the folks who are preppers but shop every single day. It's about common sense and priorities. <br /><br />It's really kind of funny to see people dash to the grocery at the first hint of snow. If they kept their pantries healthy, that wouldn't be necessary. Hmmm, I think this falls into the category of common sense. Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10328333345401673320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-75241326557281376452021-01-28T08:29:24.708-05:002021-01-28T08:29:24.708-05:00I remember living through the oil embargo during t...I remember living through the oil embargo during the 70's. We were only allowed so much gas a week and my husband had to get to work everyday. So when I went shopping, I learned to buy all I needed for at least a month and make sure to not go to the store everyday. Over the years I have continued to do this. So during this pandemic, being a senior citizen and staying home a little more has not bothered me because I have stocked in over the years and have never wanted for anything. I always told myself that it cost money to start that car everyday so I just didn't do it. Old habits are hard to break. Same with the storms. I never have to run out for tp, milk or bread. I stock up during the summer when the produce is plentiful and during other times I buy what is on sale and stock in the freezer or pantry. People just are too lazy to think ahead and that is to their disadvantage. That is why I have survived this pandemic and whatever else they may decide to throw at us. <br />There is only me now so things are a bit easier, but I raised a family of four with only one car and living in the country. So I had to think ahead. And since I still live in the country I still think ahead. I like to beat them at their own game. I buy what is on sale and buy extra if needed. Just love your blog and how far you have come. Keep us widows and others upbeat and enjoying life.LyndaTreenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02428090447842948193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-18417393488310671682021-01-28T08:18:20.387-05:002021-01-28T08:18:20.387-05:00Thanks for the explanationThanks for the explanationCheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-89866721350475730162021-01-28T06:48:48.564-05:002021-01-28T06:48:48.564-05:00Indeed. Prepping is for those days you don't ...Indeed. Prepping is for those days you don't have as much money or access as others. What are they waiting for? Just use it and replace another day.<br />It is like when they mention snow in my area - there is a run at the stores and people clear the shelves! We may only get a couple inches, but it is the same. CRAZY!!!! Like you aren't going to be stuck without help for more than a few hours.<br />Have a good one.<br />Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-77713746051626839682021-01-28T06:45:09.018-05:002021-01-28T06:45:09.018-05:00It is amazing isn't it? My friend and I were ...It is amazing isn't it? My friend and I were talking about that yesterday - it just makes no sense.<br />Common sense - hmmmmm - not sure if that would be a long post or a very short one!!!! LOL Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-2963710348776282312021-01-28T06:43:30.426-05:002021-01-28T06:43:30.426-05:00Thank you. I love all these examples. Yes it is ...Thank you. I love all these examples. Yes it is possible to be frugal and live well.<br />When you find a good fitting pair of shoes, you have found a goldmine!Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-71575814760281697912021-01-28T06:41:47.928-05:002021-01-28T06:41:47.928-05:00That was quite an under taking. They don't bu...That was quite an under taking. They don't build houses now like they used to. I have seen that done on TV as well. You loved your home and location - cheaper than a new house - why not?<br />I understood, but I think a couple others weren't quite sure. You did great. Thanks for another great example of living wisely!Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-43630217310480555392021-01-28T06:38:48.176-05:002021-01-28T06:38:48.176-05:00Yes indeed! The same here.Yes indeed! The same here.Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-53643158951102359702021-01-28T06:38:20.333-05:002021-01-28T06:38:20.333-05:00Thank you!Thank you!Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-41002218047202454082021-01-28T06:38:10.684-05:002021-01-28T06:38:10.684-05:00Thanks - it just makes so much sense!Thanks - it just makes so much sense!Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-20496447322475621572021-01-28T01:23:52.796-05:002021-01-28T01:23:52.796-05:00I definitely agree with you about quality over qua...I definitely agree with you about quality over quantity. It'll save you money in the long run. And as for the preppers, I couldn't agree more. There is no need to be spending money you don't have. Honestly most people have what they need for at least a month or two right there in their own pantry. No need to be buying unnecessary items just because. Have a good rest of your week. Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14705051302775964418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-67238805185784293042021-01-28T01:23:52.223-05:002021-01-28T01:23:52.223-05:00I have to giggle like you over some of the things ...I have to giggle like you over some of the things vloggers spend their mney on. IF you are broke and out of work, eat from that huge storage you are so proud of.... It makes no sense to me. How about a post on common sense?Out My windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456481267171643227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-25717105563489952812021-01-28T01:08:07.702-05:002021-01-28T01:08:07.702-05:00I like nice things--leather, silk, wool, sterling ...I like nice things--leather, silk, wool, sterling silver. But, I wait for a sale for the leather, silk, and wool. I went to Macy's and bought a $24 scarf for $3. Then, I bought more for Christmas gifts. Since I only buy leather shoes, they last a long time, much longer than manmade shoe stuff. I wear shoes for a long time and repair them. I am all about loss leaders and sometimes only buy those things along with milk and bananas. I am a frugal person and can have luxury for very little!Practical Parsimonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08419071209412207674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-38047584659125521212021-01-27T21:49:09.258-05:002021-01-27T21:49:09.258-05:00Years ago when we lifted our old farmhouse and put...Years ago when we lifted our old farmhouse and put a full basement under it, we had a neighbor ask why we didn't just sell it and build a new one in a different "better" spot (in his eyes). I couldn't believe he suggested that. Our house is old, but very strongly built and all we needed was a basement (replaced a small cellar & plumbing crawl space) and we added on a basement and main floor bathroom and main floor laundry room. We did not need a whole new house nor did we want to move our house from the shady space it already occupied. Not to mention the tremendous expense of building a new house and the waste of selling our home.<br /><br />PS I am so honored you mentioned my comment from last Sunday. I hope you saw my explination above. I was a bit confusing. I did get 2 value packs of cards, bday and get well, from Current with my 25% off coupon code. And I used my Kohl's cash to get new pillowcases for the living room. I don't anticipate any other spending for a while except dairy & produce grocery shopping.Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02633912756265339462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-7495016763276522322021-01-27T21:41:12.260-05:002021-01-27T21:41:12.260-05:00Let me explain (I was probably sleepy when I comme...Let me explain (I was probably sleepy when I commented and got it all confused.): I had a 25% off coupon to Current for the cards and I had Kohl's cash to use. 2 different stores and transactions. Hope that makes sense. :) See my comment below of what I got.Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02633912756265339462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-17144748021494216112021-01-27T20:34:47.883-05:002021-01-27T20:34:47.883-05:00Absolutely! I am frugal to the nth degree. And I...Absolutely! I am frugal to the nth degree. And I am very willing to write a check for a very expensive item I've given a great deal of thought to purchasing.<br /><br />Ellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06918153566288679035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-40192225781971330562021-01-27T19:39:18.381-05:002021-01-27T19:39:18.381-05:00VERY well said!VERY well said!Margie from Torontohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10103835021764804099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-21473268872134886002021-01-27T17:23:24.216-05:002021-01-27T17:23:24.216-05:00Good post ...exactly why we are frugal too. We sa...Good post ...exactly why we are frugal too. We save for home repairs or remodeling and vscations. No worries then. Vickie @Vickie's Kitchen and Gardenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03402367232977896594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-64198963889129783952021-01-27T16:51:26.401-05:002021-01-27T16:51:26.401-05:00There is soooooo much to say about being able to p...There is soooooo much to say about being able to pay cash. I WANT a newer vehicle - but keep waiting. Mine looks great and runs fine - so why? I will pay for it when the time comes.<br /><br />Like you said things happen and it is nice to be able to take care of the unexpected. When G passed - people kept saying "oh how will you pay for the funeral - don't you have to wait for insurance?" No - I paid it. The funeral director even seemed shocked. Sure the money was eventually replaced by insurance - but I didn't need to wait.<br /><br />So many things people don't think about. Those trips and 2 funerals could not have been cheap. I sure hope someone else helped.<br />Your daughter is smart - everything does on sale at some point!<br />ThanksCheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-40119567895604895862021-01-27T16:32:16.633-05:002021-01-27T16:32:16.633-05:00Great post Cheryl! I have neighbors who have scoff...Great post Cheryl! I have neighbors who have scoffed at us not buying new, luxury vehicles. They drive high end vehicles and live fancy lives, but are all up to their eyeballs in debt. We choose to be frugal, because it helps us splurge on other things. It's not that we can't afford a brand new car. We can pay cash for it. However, we know that saving that money instead, makes it easier for us when a real need arises. When my parents both died within 8 weeks of each other, years ago (my family live abroad), we were able to pay cash for both trips and pay for their funerals (it wasn't cheap). <br /><br />I'm not gonna lie. I like nice things, but I wait for that deep discount before I spend money on it. My dad taught me that everything eventually has to go on sale. <br /><br />When a large appliance breaks, we do the research then go to the store and pay cash for a new one. This is all thanks to frugality. Those who turn their noses up at us who choose to live frugally (not cheapskates) are the ones who have to charge new things and then worry about how they're going to pay it all off. <br />Ms Goosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10797339521461126415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-74476124022714412892021-01-27T14:24:56.649-05:002021-01-27T14:24:56.649-05:00Oh my gosh that is an expensive tool. Surprised i...Oh my gosh that is an expensive tool. Surprised it is still there. What a fool he is.<br />Hey, that is the same place I got most of my furnishings!!! LOL In 2002 we bought a new love seat and dining room set - that is truly the only new stuff we bought in all our years (other than the car). I still have those things - although I do want to replace the love seat!!<br />Most everything was gifted to us or we got at yard sales. We still had a lovely home and got lots of compliments.<br /><br />You know how it is done. Deals like you mentioned just make our $$ go further. That is what it is all about.<br />Good temp fix in the bath. Throw a sturdy throw rug down (with some 2 way tape - so no trip hazard) and call it a day for now.<br />I see people doing the same things. That agitates me that people that have the money to spend on frivolous stuff use the charities that are meant for those really in need.<br />You are a smart cookie!!!!!Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-67063022950580717702021-01-27T14:15:13.383-05:002021-01-27T14:15:13.383-05:00Holy cow! WIN WIN for you!!!!! Those are expensi...Holy cow! WIN WIN for you!!!!! Those are expensive fine stoves. What a deal. That is another good point - when something is high end - it is often much cheaper to repair than replace with new. I bet you will love it and it will last for years to come.<br />Great shopping!<br /><br />I know what you mean on the Vloggers. I see that a lot too. Then there are the ones talking about saving money and replenishing the pantry and it is all junk. I just shake my head.<br />I guess several of us think the same!Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341912661779864632.post-8827651697299205352021-01-27T14:11:18.300-05:002021-01-27T14:11:18.300-05:00Agree totally. Those are the times when we all sa...Agree totally. Those are the times when we all say "shop from home". Stay away from stores and don't be tempted when there is little money - you are way ahead of the game. Replenish when you CAN.<br />I knew BB&BW did that with their coupons. I have never been a Kohl's shopper - but I will tell my SIL about that. She goes there quite often. I learned about Bed Bath & Body Works coupons on here from some readers.<br />Those are always good things to know!<br /><br />Cool on the jeans! Great money maker for her. It always amazes what people will spend on things.Cheryl Kimbleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485771676254429681noreply@blogger.com