Thursday, May 25, 2023

The Weekend - Plans?

 Happy Thursday to you all.  Woke to cooler temps this morning (50*) and a sunny and breezy day.  It is just lovely.
This weekend is a long holiday weekend here in the U.S.  Many people make big plans.   Some folks have cookouts and parties, there will be many graduations this weekend, Many will be watching and listening to the 500 Mile race on Sunday.  Others will make visits to the cemeteries to pay respect to those that have gone on.  
Memorial Day is a lot of things to a lot of people - but it should always be solemnly remembered as a day to honor and respect those Veterans that have paid the ultimate sacrifice for our freedoms.


What have you got planned?  Is your family getting together?
I think my weekend will be pretty much like all the others!!!!!!  I am not a big race fan - despite that being the thing my city is famous for.  I don't plan on going to any cookouts. I will work around the house and yard and maybe catch up on some programs I have recorded.  I will continue to air the house - loving this weather for that.
Hmmmm - I may make myself a steak filet this weekend.  You guys keep mentioning steak, and for some reason that sounds good to me.  I will probably chop on this head of hair of mine - oh my, it has grown so much.  It is driving me nuts!
Maybe sit on a lawn chair and read a book.  Maybe porch sitting.  Who knows.  I just know I will be doing whatever here!!!

What are you all doing?  
I bet some will be gardening - either getting the first plants out or just finishing up.  
Tell what you have going on - it may give some of us some new ideas.

Whatever you do - be safe.  There will be even more crazies out than normal.  Stay healthy - always remember safe practices with your picnic foods.
Maybe take a moment to say a special 'thanks' for all those that have sacrificed for us and their families.
Remember and enjoy yourself as well.

Have a great extended weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!


This is a picture I took several years back at our largest cemetery in the city - Crown Hill.  This is just a very small segment of the military stones.  Think about how many there are in cemeteries all over the country/world.  It is pretty darn humbling.

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  1. We had our long weekend last weekend, in remembrance of Victoria Day. Our Remembrance Day is held in November - it would be nice to have it in May as the weather is often quite cold.
    The long weekend is May is the start of camping/cottage season. It is also when most people plant their flowers and gardens.
    Enjoy your weekend doing what you enjoy most.

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    1. There will be parades and such this weekend and ceremonies at different cemeteries - so yes, the nice weather does help.
      Camping generally starts this weekend here as well. When we camped this was our first big weekend when all showed up.
      Have a lovely weekend.

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  2. Good morning Cheryl!

    Here at my new home, it will be a long productive weekend. No plans at all other than unpacking the pile of boxes to be delivered tomorrow. A girlfriend is coming over Saturday to help me unpack critical kitchen items ;). It will be wonderful to sit in a chair again! Thank you for the reminder of the whole point of this weekend, and while my husband survived his time at war, I will go to the cemetery to have a visit with him. Hope your weather is good this weekend, hilogene in Az.

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    1. Glad you friend is coming to help. Things always go a little quicker when one has a helper!!! Hope you get all settled and get to set and rest a bit as well.
      Your hubs was a veteran - he should be remembered in many ways. Thankful for his service and for you and the family - who always sacrifice as well.
      Don't over do it this weekend!

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    2. Having moved last year, now in process of really finishing putting the house together in a more permanent way, I'll be praying for you Hilogene. What a wonderful friend to give you a hand!

      I'm so grateful for your husband's service and glad he had many years to enjoy afterwards. Sending my love as you visit him at the cemetery this weekend. --Elise

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  3. This weekend is the Boatnik festivities here. They have a carnival and Jet boat races on the Rogue River.The 2023 North American Jet Boat Championship. Hubby is a fan so we will be going to the river to watch. There is also a parade in downtown so we will go to that also. Other than that I think it will be a quiet weekend here.
    We have been working in the yard pulling those weeds! Lots of them. What a sad day it was yesterday in the passing of Tina Turner. It's just been weighing on my mind the passing of so many entertainers that I grew up with in my lifetime.
    I hope you have a pleasant weekend, Laurie

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    1. Those sound like very fun activities to go to. I bet the boat thing is neat. Went one year - years ago - to the races on the Ohio River. That was pretty neat.
      Those weeds thrive. Nothing else may - but they sure do!!!!
      That was so sad to hear about Tina. Yes, so many of the legends that we grew up listening to and loving are dying. Sure makes one feel old!!!
      Have a wonderful safe time!!!!

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  4. Tomorrow is my 46th anniversary. My husband and I are going away to a small town with lots of antique stores. Then on Saturday we will be attending my brother's memorial. He passed on April 17 and we are finally laying him to rest. I am his only living heir and he did not have a will so we have been dealing with a mess.
    Praying that June will be a calmer month as I celebrate my 70th birthday.

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    1. Happy Anniversary, Kathy! Sorry for your loss. I'll join you in praying June will be a calmer month for you. --Elise

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    2. So sorry for the loss of your brother and having so much to go through. The memorial will be a way of getting some closure. May it bring you peace.
      Happy anniversary to you and your hubby. That is wonderful - 46 years.
      Enjoy your trip to the antique stores. Many, many healthy years ahead for you!!!!!

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  5. Our Memorial Day weekend will be... probably more work in the house/yard and some grilling on Sunday and (maybe) Monday when son and BIL come over. It's been a busy, busy week. I did get some of the Basha's deals yesterday, including the ground round for $2.47 lb., plus Wonder burger and hot dog buns at 2/$5. Already had the hot dogs. Might make some pasta salad to go with. We forgot to get the seedless watermelon at 19 cents lb., so I might have son pick that up. BIL is still in an empty house; I'll have him bring his own soda and maybe some chips. Phoenix relatives should be here in a week... they'll be in an RV at his place, but might be eating here a lot. Thank goodness I have plenty of food! LOL!

    Wishing all a safe and enjoyable weekend. It's GOOD to remember that we wouldn't have the lives we live now if not for those who gave theirs so we could. --Elise

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    1. Sounds like a nice weekend in store for you! Glad you got the deals. That is a crazy price for watermelon. You better have him stop and get one!
      Well, with relatives in town and staying at his place, maybe he will have some help doing stuff!?
      Having you stocks put away, does make a person so confident about company or anything.
      Have a nice weekend.

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  6. We have two birthdays in our family today. Our granddaughter entered the teen years and her great aunt who has the same birthday is coming from out of town to celebrate. We will have a BBQ on Saturday. Having it Saturday means my SIL can head home on Sunday before the traffic starts on Monday. She is actually coming into town today to see another grandchild in a play today. It will be a very busy few days and I will need to rest on Monday! Nancy in Vancouver, WA

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    1. Oh that sounds like a nice time. I have a bunch of family who all have birthdays on the 27th!!!!! There is also a graduation that day - which I won't be getting to (too far).
      Have a wonderful celebration for the birthday gals!!!! Enjoy.

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  7. Picked out new glasses this morning. Plastic fronts in lilac & blue with pewter colored metal temples. I think with nose pads they will stay on my face. I like them much better than anything else I saw. The Dr. said the cataract surgery can wait until next year. My right eye isn't ready yet anyway.

    Will be cleaning up the front flower bed this afternoon. We are having a cool, windy day; good for working hard. After it gets down to 45F tonight, I will plant bell peppers and bush beans tomorrow along with the broccoli I started from a purchased head. Laundry and mowing Saturday. Sunday is always helping Husband take a shower. My ancestors are all buried in KS, so no graves to decorate, though we always did that when I was a kid.

    Supposed to get up into the mid-80s here for a few days next week. Saw in the paper that our electric rates are going up over 20% next month. Husband is always cold, so we will be using the A/C sparingly anyway. It will be good weather for scrubbing the house siding.

    Prayers for all who will be traveling and having guests this weekend. Hope everyone has a good time!
    --Frances in the Trailer Park

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    1. YAY - on the new frames! Those sound pretty. The ones I got were metal frames with nose pads - but the metal is kind of pink. Something different is always kind of fun.
      Your weather sounds exactly like ours - exactly. I did some yard work and it is quite breezy. Windows open and nice.
      Don't over do it in that flower bed! I bet you will be happy to get all the garden in.
      Have a lovely weekend.

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    2. We're hitting 80 now, Frances. Unfortunately, I'm the opposite of your husband and plump like a Ball Park Frank in the heat. Fortunately, mornings and evenings are cool and breezy so we can open windows then and use the a/c more sparingly, but with the solar system now, our bill is like $16.

      Your glasses sound pretty! --Elise

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  8. We will be staying home and doing the same old same old, which is just fine with me. Unless we get a last minute invitation somewhere. I hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend, Cheryl.

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    1. You sound like me. Once retired - those long weekends all kind of run together!!!! No getting excited about a 3 day weekend anymore.
      Enjoy!

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  9. So many folks have forgotten the significance of the holiday. Miss Elise is so right: "It's GOOD to remember that we wouldn't have the lives we live now if not for those who gave theirs so we could."
    We will be staying home, probably still working in the gardens. Today is an excellent day weather-wise to work outdoors. Got the rest of the mulch laid in the backyard and will do some in the front later on.

    Happy Anniversary and Happy Birthday to Miss Kathy K.!

    Enjoy your weekend, my friend.

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    1. Yes we all need that reminder. Nothing in this world is free - especially freedom!
      I was out working earlier - sure is lovely out there. No over heating today!
      Enjoy!!

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    2. Donna, your weekend sounds a lot like what ours will be, other than feeding BIL and son. But I may be putting them to work in the yard, too. LOL! --Elise

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  10. Happy Memorial Day...my hubby is a veteran of the Viet Nam war (USMC) but fortunately came home in one piece. I don't think any of our relatives died in wars, even though many generations served in them. We do feel grateful for those who served and gave their lives for our country. Very sobering. My husband lost many friends in that war, however.

    No special plans for the day. We'll travel the Wednesday after for a granddaughter's High school graduation in Fishers, IN! (close to you!)

    We have no special plands

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    1. Please thank your husband for his service. My older brother, who passed away last month, was also a Vietnam Vet.
      --Elise

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    2. A big thanks to your husband. I so appreciate all our service members. So many sacrifices of different sorts were made - not just life.
      That will be north of me - not all that far. Not an area I have been to much. Have a wonderful time!!!!!!!

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  11. Not sure where that last sentence came from! haha

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  12. Daylily Alert! My Stella de Oro's have their first blooms opening up and lots of buds. The Miss Kim (Korean) lilacs are also staring to bloom. Given several shrubs (Spirea) planted by the patio late last summer are limping along, we went to the garden center at Walmart. Guess what I found? A new shipment of big, beautiful Stellas in bloom and bud! It will be a gardening kind of weekend here. Did I mention I LOVE daylilies?

    Before that, we went to drop off a whole bunch of donations at Hopeful Treasures thrift shop. Inside was free Dominos Pizza, cheesy bread and wings for the taking. Dinner tonight! But more important, I found two more oil paintings. Total: $8. They're very well done and in linen lined, solid wood frames that retail for $100+. Feeling pretty darned good this afternoon. --Elise

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    1. Yay on the lilies. Mine haven't started blooming yet. The rose have started.
      Spirea brings back so many memories. At home - mom & dad's front yard was lined with them - and worked as a privacy/border. I used to love them.
      Free pizza for the win. You having good luck with the art!

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  13. We have two son's families coming into the lake house for the weekend. The forecast is for 90 percent chance of rain and chilly all weekend. Not what we had hoped for! But, it will still be a joy to squeeze our youngest three grandkids.

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    1. Hoping the skies clear for at least part of the weekend, Lana.

      Poppy says "Hi", by the way. :-)
      --Elise

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    2. You will have fun regardless. Yep, squeezing those young-ins will be worth it all. Hope it clears some and you get to enjoy the 'lake'!

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  14. Yes, a very special and touching day for our family. When our daughters were little I would take them to the courthouse and watch the ceremony and then our little girls would go up to the elderly vets with their homemade little construction paper booklets in red, white and blue with patriotic stickers and have the elderly vets sign their little booklets held in their little hands...Oh it was the sweetest thing ever. Our oldest daughter was able to assist with the Pearl Harbor 75th anniversary several years ago in Pearl Harbor, sooooo special. Oh my heart. We love our vets and I tell them so when I see them in their hats. My dad was a first class military guy, he and his big brother went to Gulfport Military academy in Mississippi where he was captain in highschool. (Oh the stories!) They are pretty funny too...My dad was a first class guy but quite a character I might say! lol

    We'll have a normal weekend, probably hepa vaccing our home and cleaning up a bit from the mold report. Youngest daughter is here and thriving and no drama it seems from that lad. So prayers answered thank God. Poor kid, (she's an adult) but the youngest never the less, she had to be rushed to a dentist two hours away with me in the car and her driving to get a tooth pulled. Very difficult situation. God bless'er. She's had a difficult year, I'm so glad she's here too at least for now, thank you for your prayers on that and the mold situation.

    Monday on Memorial Day our three married daughters and husbands with grandchildren will be here along with our single daughter here, so I definitely have my work cut out for me. I will be playing the old movie, 'Best Years of Our Lives' in the background Monday. I highly recommend that one, it's been said by a military higher up from the era that it's the most true to life movie on what the WWII soldiers felt when they came home. Beautiful music score too. I have lentil burger patties I made last week so will pull those out and we sha'll see. what we sha'll see.

    I have the movie on dvd but it's also on youtube in entirety with a few commercials and probably other stations such as pluto or tubi etc.

    Take care Cheryl, it sounds like you are going to be keeping busy like me. It's a special week indeed and it's so very good to hear you express those feelings. I hear an airplane above...And I think of my daddy. Life is tough sometimes.

    I appreciate you Cheryl, great to read what you're up to, I need to go pick a few white squash from our little garden too! : )

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    1. How neat on the little signature books. I have never heard of that. That is special.
      Very happy to hear your daughter is now thriving. She had to go through that mess - to grow in the right direction. God's work - we will never understand.
      Lovely that your children will be with you Monday. That will make for a nice day - work or not!
      Your daddy sounds like a good man. Glad you have such special memories!
      My favorite things about the festivities in our city this weekend - is before the 500 race starts, they do they fly over with the missing man formation. It ends up going right over my house. I stand outside and wait for that every year - so sobering.
      Enjoy your family time!

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    2. Oh my goodness...The fly over in missing man formation. Wow, that kind of thing gives me goose bumps. <3 And right over your house too...How neat is that?! I would wait on it too!

      Thank you Cheryl!

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    3. P.S. The little booklets were like little autograph books especially for our veterans. : ) Those are some dear-to-my-heart memories. I thought nothing of loading the children up and driving 40 minutes to the courthouse, I was sitting there by myself with my little girls, one was our baby on my lap and I was so tearing up using a kleenex during the guns going off, the salute? I saw an elderly vet look my way probably wondering what my story was as I was wondering what his story was...

      My dad was an amazing man, very sensitive and sweet most of the time but he could be a rascal, a very handsome rascal too. ; )

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    4. My love to your whole family, Amelia. --Elise

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    5. Thank you Elise! And same here to your family. : )

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  15. My husband is hubby is a Vietnam Veteran(Army) who went on to become a first responder and hazmat officer. I praise God everyday that He kept him safe. He also responded to the Pentagon on 9/11. He retired shortly thereafter. When we lived in the D.C. area we always took the children and went to the Mall for the Mall for the programs there and when the Wall was built we always went to the Wall. When he retired we moved from the D.C. area to a small town that pre-pandemic had a wonderful hometown parade with veterans from multiple wars marching in it The grade school children always marched in it and at the end went to the cemetary and laid flowers on all of the Veteran
    graves,
    We will be staying home this weekend finishing up the veggie planting ,enjoying the sunshine and counting our many blessings. Cookie

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    1. Thank you to your husband for his service. 9/11 responder - oh my goodness. That had to be terrifying as well.
      I have been to the 'moving' wall when it came to Indiana at Ft. Ben. That was a moving experience. A friend's husband is a V.N. Vet and he and his friends made a motorcycle ride from west coast to Wahington several years ago. I followed his journey across American on FB - pretty neat. (he is my friend too)!
      I hope you get your gardening done and enjoy your weekend. Freedom is wonderful!

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    2. Thank you, Cookie... to you and your husband. --Elise

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    3. You are so welcome Cheryl and Elise.

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  16. Our long weekend was the Victoria Day weekend and occurred last week. We planted the remainder of our gardens, Harvey and Kris went fishing, and we BBQ'ed our meal. This weekend we will finish up a few things provided the weather co-operates.

    God bless.

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    1. Sounds like you had a great weekend. Hope they caught some fish! Have a relaxing weekend.

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  17. My mother was a veteran of WWII. Someone once told me in a haughty tone that this was not a patriotic holiday. We will be home. Since I am ill, that is a given.

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    1. Considering that people had to die for us to have this holiday - I see it as patriotic. Nothing more so, than dying for your fellow man in my opinion.
      Hope you feel better. Rest.

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    2. PP, just imagine where we'd be today if not for your mother's service... and all who served in that war! I'm very grateful to her. --Elise

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  18. We had a good frost last night. Everything looks in the clear for gardening from here on out.

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    1. Frost?? Oh my!!!! We got upper 40's - but no frost. Happy planting!!!!!

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  19. This weekend we will fly our American flag that is out all year long and put up additional patriotic decorations. We have many past and present veterans in our family.
    On Sunday we are going to our oldest daughter's house for a cookout. Monday will be a restful day before going back to work on Tuesday. We are so very grateful.

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    1. Yes, always fly that flag!!! Thank you to all your family.
      Have a great cookout and get yourself all rested up!!!!!!

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    2. Much thanks to all of your family, Nana. There are many past veterans--and one nephew in the army now--in my family, too. Enjoy your cookout. --Elise

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  20. I am sure Memorial Day is a special day for a great many folks in your country. My husband served in the Royal Navy almost 31 years. Our eldest son was born while hubbie's ship was on its way to the Falklands in 1982. So fly your flags and remember with pride. Thank you for all your service.

    The 29 May is my birthday and our two eldest grandaughters (half sisters) both share 30 May as their birthday. We are all getting together on Sunday for a BBQ and our eldest son and family are here from Saturday-Monday. Thankfully it's due to be a fine and sunny few days.

    Enjoy your weekend everyone. x

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    1. Happy Birthday, Heather, to you and your granddaughters. Many thanks to your husband for his service. Enjoy family time! I'm sure you will. --Elise

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    2. Sounds like a wonderful time to be had - Happy birthday to you and the grand daughters.
      Memorial Day is actually for remembering those we have lost while serving our country. We have other days to celebrate living veterans. But I think we all appreciate every single vet that has every served or is serving.
      Enjoy your birthday!!!!

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    3. Thank you both. Yes, we have Remembrance Day on 11 November and Armed Forces Day in June to celebrate those still serving. Our local town has a young man on their War Memorial who died on a warship during the Falklands War and a friend of mine had a miscarriage when she heard her husband's ship had been hit. He was one of the lucky ones.

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  21. My dad was a WWII veteran. He came home and worked for years before going back to school and eventually earning his PHd. He married & started a family in his late 30s. Growing up it seemed WWII had just happened and we were little aware of the Vietnam War. I remember my father being adamant about respect for the flag. He thought using in any manner but flying it correctly was wrong (so no clothing with flags and I still can't do that!). On Memorial Day I think of those he served with and his friends who were drafted and didn't come home like dad did. He never ever talked about that. Not surprisingly he only shared the "funny" stories.
    ~margaret

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    1. I'm so grateful for your father's service, Margaret. Imagine where we'd be right now if WWII had gone differently!
      --Elise

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    2. Margaret, my dad was a WWII veteran as well. He enlisted in the Navy right after Pearl Harbor. My dad was extremely patriotic and active in veterans organization. And he was adamant about the flag, just like your dad. He never spoke of his experiences and if ever asked about them his stock answer was that he was the Admiral's food taster. He also only told funny stories. When doing some geneology I sent to St. Louis for his Navy records. Some of my siblings are named after his friends who didn't make it home. Cookie

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    3. So glad your father made it home Margaret & Cookie. I think it says so much about the 'greatest' generation that they did not speak of the bad stuff from war. I have known many like that. They love sharing the good and funny stories. It is kind of sad - because they have had to suffer with what they saw and didn't share. Can't imagine having to keep all that inside. We learn from history. I wish more would have shared - but totally understand it.
      Our veterans are all just priceless in my book. Wonderful men and women.

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  22. My husband and I went out for breakfast this morning, then we did a few errands and bought more flower seeds, t posts for the garden and new mini blinds for the bedroom. We came home, I had a good nap, then we made potato salad and deviled eggs for tomorrow evening. Some of our adult children will be joining us for dinner.
    Have a great weekend!
    Laura of Harvest Lane Cottage
    who will be baking fresh chocolate chip cookies for after dinner tomorrow!

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    1. Sounds like a lovely weekend. Naps are always nice! I haven't had homemade potato salad or a deviled egg in ages. YUM

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