Hello to all on this last Thursday of May. This month has sure flown by.
My thermometer says 62* right now, and it is a wee bit foggy around here. It must have rained a little over night, as there were some new puddles on the drive. Yesterday we had a nice soft rain for a few hours. I am sure the garden just loved it! Those are the kinds of rains I like. Staying cool again today - but things will surely change for next week!
What do you consider a successful life?
Some definitions are - favorable or desired outcome, positive results, the attainment of wealth, favor or eminence.
I guess everyone has a different idea. In MY opinion it has nothing to do with fame or fortune. Some people think it is about the paycheck, or the title or the stuff attained.
I think that being successful means being able to live a good life in your own way. Having decent health. Having family and friends to love. Having enough. Living in a good way and doing good and kindness to help others. Peace of mind. Quality of family life. Being happy!
That is a success to me.
Failure - defined as lack of success, the action or state of not functioning, deficiency, inability to perform normal functions well enough.
Well, I guess I can agree somewhat - but MY biggest thought is that failure is never having tried!!!
If you never try again after something goes wrong, that could be a failure. Always try again and do your best!
I really don't like the word failure. It is just so negative.
People think that because a situation turns out in a certain way - you failed.
Example: I have a divorce in my life. Was I a failure at that? Some say yes, I don't think so. I tried really hard, I did the work, I loved, and it just wasn't meant to be. I LEARNED a lot! I don't see that as failure.
I took that learning and those lessons and used them to make life better.
Some people think you will never know success if you never know failure. Interesting thought.
I know we all have down-falls in life. We all have had disappointments. We have all had to start over at times. Life doesn't always turn out as planned!!!!! Boy is that a fact.
The meme above is so very true. No matter what we are in life, no matter what our age or our opportunities - we can change things. Get up each day with the attitude that life today is going to be great. Make it happen.
It may be totally different that you had planned for your life (stuff happens), but it can still be good. It can still be successful.
Irish playwright Samuel Beckett once said, "Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better." I like that!
If you aren't 'successful at something' then 'fail' with a lot of grace, style and class - and be successful at being a better person! Hold your head high, try and try again, think positive, look at yourself in the mirror and know you are really somebody important, go after what you want with gusto! You know what? That makes you successful in my eyes!
Never give up!
What are your thoughts?
I look forward to reading.
Be happy and have a great day. Make yourself and someone else smile today!