Wednesday, September 3, 2025

The Changing of the Seasons - for People!

 Midweek already!  Hello to all and hoping this finds you well.  It is a lovely morning.  I am sleepy - didn't sleep well last night for some reason.  I had a couple walks, got yard work done, other things done and no nap yesterday - so should have slept well.  Nope.
It will get a little warmer today (85), so may need the AC late in the day.  It looks like we will get rain over night - very much needed.  Things are dry and it is dusty.

I think sometimes we all come into a new season of life, for various reasons.  It could be anything that causes it - sometimes we just get tired!  As the outside seasons change - we change as well.  I am ready for a bit of a change for me.
I really life a simple and calm life - but I hate having to hurry and stress about things.  I just like peace and quiet!

Come fall, yes there are many things to get done outside and things to finish up before it gets too cold.  Canning, gardening, raking, mowing, decluttering, etc.  I am not going to stress over it this year.  What gets done, gets done.  I find that I have slowed a lot over the years - maybe that is intentional or maybe it is just listening to my body.  What I did in a few hours many years ago, now I spread over a day or two.
You know what?  That is OK!!!!!!



I love this poem.  It is so true for me.  My quiet morning walks, seeing how things in nature are changing.  My porch sits.  The breeze coming in the window and watching my kitty enjoy it.  A snuggle from my kitty.  A good bite of food.  Flowers in a vase.  Looking at the room when you finished cleaning and smiling.  The smell of a yummy candle.  Reading a book that I enjoy.  Watching nature.  My wonderful garden and being able to go out and pick 'grow'ceries.  Great neighbors.  Good friends.  Family.
I could go on and on.  These all seem like simple things to many people, and they are - but they give me so much joy.
I have always enjoyed these things, but in the past there were other joys.  Just spending time with my hubby was a tremendous joy - we laughed and talked and shared so much.  Yes, I miss that so much - but things changed.  Now I have a different season in my life, and I need to make the most of it.  We all should as life changes.  It isn't easy - but it is life.  It took me quite a while, to find myself again.  I think I am still discovering ME.  

I hope you each try to discover new things.  Let yourself explore and learn, no matter your age.  It makes life interesting.  Enjoy every moment.  And please remember - it is perfectly FINE to go slower and just smell the flowers and feel the breeze and take the nap!
As you go into a new season of your life - make it good.
Make September a time of change for a lovely, slower life.

Have a super day and breathe in all the goodness!

Tuesday, September 2, 2025

New Month, New Week Chat

 Hello all and happy September!  It just doesn't seem possible.  No pumpkin spice month for me!  I am not a pumpkin spice kind of gal - unless it is a candle!!  I am messed up on days again - no surprise.  You would think being retired it would make no difference.  Yet, the neighbors being home from work, just messes me up!  LOL
It is a lovely morning again.  Cool and clear.  The past couple days the skies have been so blue and clear and the weather has been perfect.  Everything is still very green.
I have been out and fed the birds, squirrels and Licorice.  Walked out to the garden to look, and well, Chuck (groundhog) was in the garden, eating a tomato.  Grrrrr.  I guess it is trying to get all it needs for winter hibernation.  It still lives across the alley, but right now my best efforts aren't working on keeping it at bay.  The cat could care less if it sees it.  This morning, I finally ran it off, over the fence and back to the hidey hole!  They sure can climb!!!  I threw the tomato he was eating across the alley.  Generally, he eats clover and flowers and certain greenery - I suppose he is stocking up for winter too!
I guess I shouldn't complain, as I have plenty, but still!

This weekend, each day, after walks, I sat out on the porch for a while.  I did that a couple times each day.  I sat out there and read a lot yesterday.
It sure took me back about 60+ years.  It was so quiet, the breeze was nice, the sky blue and just so relaxing.  I thought about sitting on the porch swing at mom and daddies on Sundays.  I remember coming home from Sunday school or Church and setting out there until mid-day dinner was done.  Waiting for company to show up - there was always company on Sunday noon meal.  Watching for cars to go by, there were hardly any.  Listening to the birds and petting my kitty (who always got on the swing with me).  Just the lazy days of summer.  Lots of memories this weekend.
Yesterday on my walk, I talked with a gal down the street, and she was talking about how she wished life was simple again.  Mine kind of is.  Being retired, I can do what I want, when I want, or NOT if I want!  I like that kind of simple living.
I sure miss my long-ago home.

The hummingbirds are just so very, very active.  I bet it won't be long before they take off for the south.  They just drink and drink and come many, many times an hour.  Haven't seen them active all summer.
That makes me sad, I sure do appreciate those tiny little treasures.

I mentioned Sunday, about picking lots more tomatoes last week.  I forgot to tell you about the jumbo tomato I got!  Its weight - 1 lb. and 11 oz.!!!!!  Oh my gosh - I am just awestruck!  This has sure been a good year for tomatoes in my area.
                                              That is it on a dinner plate!  It is so huge.
I really have had a great year for tomatoes!  Blessed for sure.  I have given so many away, I have been canning and EATING every single day!!!!!!!  
I have 3 or 4 more out there (green) that are close to this size.  So many green tomatoes out there.

OK, guys, I saw my first Christmas commercial on Friday evening!  YEP!!!!
It was a holiday commercial for Disney World.  So, the onslaught has started - there will be more and more now that we are in September.
I haven't watched Hallmark in years, but I notice on the cable guide that just about all they show is holiday movies - all year long!  What is with that?  There is a time for that, and all year isn't it in my opinion. 
We just aren't allowed to enjoy the various holidays and seasons anymore.  It seems everything is rushed.  I like to celebrate the fall, with apples and pumpkins and mums.  Then I want to enjoy and celebrate Thanksgiving in all its glory - THEN Christmas.
Sure, I think about Christmas, and I know many of us are already working on gifts and ideas.  I even share ideas on here early in the seasons, as many make things ahead.  I know.  But as far as decorations and such, I just want each thing to have its time.  I guess I am out of it today!

OK, that is my morning chat.  I am going to go walk a bit and enjoy this morning, then I have much to do around here.
I hope you have a wonderful month ahead and get to enjoy September and all its beauty.

Have a super enjoyable day!


Sunday, August 31, 2025

Weekly Wrap Up 8/31

 Hello to all.  Good-bye to August!  Yes, here we are saying so long to another month.  Tomorrow is September and the unofficial beginning to fall for many.  Some will be starting their spring in the down under.  It may feel like fall this next week, but I am sure it will warm once again.  Goodness, time is just floating by.  Tomorrow is Labor Day and there will be a lot of picnics and end of summer fun.  Less than 4 months until Christmas and then the end of the year!!
Until then, I am going to enjoy as much lovely weather as can be.
Thursday, we had a little rain - a nice little shower and no watering was needed.  The live forever (sedum) have started blooming and they are feeding all the bees and butterflies!  Yesterday evening I saw 3 hummingbirds at one of my feeders at the same time.  I know many have that happen, but I have never seen it here.  Usually, they chase each other off!  What a treat.

My frugal week:
  • I cleaned and cleared a lot out of the front flower beds
  • Cut back my 3 climbing rose bushes
  • Did a lot of mending
  • Cut back more stuff from neighbor's yard - growing at my fence and through it (no mowing this week!)
  • Did a LOT of walks this week - sometimes at least 2X a day (or more)
  • Picked a bunch of produce again - about 35 lbs. of tomatoes and more peppers.  Shared a bunch.  Seems with cooler weather and cloudy days tomatoes have slowed a bit.  There are tons of green toms hanging out there.
  • Had an old friend from my workdays stop by.  We caught up and talked a lot.  His wife was one of my best friends for years until her passing several years back.
  • Cut a couple roses for inside
  • CANNING - did 2 big batches of salsa and canned, and also a quart of peppers
  • Did go out once to fill gas tank (needed 1/4 tank) for the month and get my discount (.40/gal)
  • NO grocery or other shopping
  • A neighbor brought me homemade zucchini bread - it was soooooo good
  • I had juice from tomatoes from canning (wanted salsa thicker) and I added a little salt and drank it
  • I had some older milk to use, so I made pudding
  • I was gifted more cukes
  • I made a big fresh salad using all kinds of veggies to eat for a few days
  • Got to air the house - NO AC for many days now!
  • I did put out my fall door wreaths - sunflowers and pretty leaves
one at each door
  • Moved some things around in the house - putting away and in different rooms - just clearing up space
  • Meals from home and using what I have
Meals this past week:
Cube steak, mashed potatoes (flavored w/ranch) and tom & cuke salad
Potato/corn cakes and cuke & tomatoes
Jalapeno/cheeseburger, fried corn & onion, sliced tomatoes
Tuna/broccoli mac & cheese, cukes & toms
Super veggie/shaved ham sandwich 
Pintos over rice, salad
Chicken sandwich, small potato into fries, and salad
SNACKS - fruit, lots of veggies, pudding and zucchini bread

Just a nice quiet week here.  I did get things accomplished and have plenty to do yet.  More canning is in store.  I have thoroughly enjoyed the cooler days and took advantage when I could.
It seems that there is much to do as fall approaches.  Cleaning, cooking, clearing and gardening.
How has your week been?  Did you get any fun things done?  Any deals?  What is the weather like in your area?

I hope you all have a pleasant week ahead and enjoy your holiday and stay safe.  Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
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...be at peace among yourselves. And we exhort you, brethren, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all.  See that none of you repays evil with evil but always seek to do good to one another and to all.
1Thessalonians 4:13-15

Lord, we come to you this week in thanks for all our blessings, and to ask you protections over all of us.  Help us each one to love, forgive and honor all others in some special way.  We ask for peace and love and health for everyone.  Amen


Thursday, August 28, 2025

Making the Subs

 Hello all.  Hope you are all well this Thursday.  It is another cool morning here, and pretty cloudy.  It looks and feels like fall - but summer will be back, so no worries.
I woke up on time this morning, and the bed felt so good that I fell back to sleep!  I got up about 20 minutes later than normal - I always feel rushed when I do that.  Like what schedule do I have to meet?  LOL

Today is a bit about doing the substitutions we keep talking about.  They are easy, use what you have, and keeps you from making a special trip to the store.  Hope you get an idea you can use.
BUTTERMILK (not for drinking)
This is for using in a recipe
1 C milk
1 Tbsp. lemon juice or white vinegar
Let it stand 5-10 minutes then use in your recipe
**You can also buy buttermilk powder in the baking aisle.  I always have this on hand - it lasts a long time.  It just mixes w/water.

HEAVY CREAM
2/3 C whole milk
1/3 C melted unsalted butter
Mix together and use as cream in baking (doesn't whip)

POWDERED SUGAR
1 C regular sugar
Place in a blender and pulse until powdered

1 Egg = 3 Tbsp. mayo

Use Applesauce for 1/2 of oil in a baking recipe

Unsweetened chocolate 1 oz. - 3 Tbsp. cocoa plus 1 Tbsp shortening or oil

Colored sugar for decorating = sugar and food coloring.  Use color you want and stir until thoroughly mixed with sugar.  Works perfectly - I do this all the time

CREAM CHEESE - use full fat cottage cheese and pulse in blender until smooth.  It won't taste like cottage cheese.  Great for recipes

BROWN SUGAR - 1 C sugar w/ 2 Tbsp. molasses added - stir until blended - (light)
add 4 Tbsp. to 1 C for (dark)

CHOCOLATE ICE CREAM SHELL

How fun!  This stuff is expensive for a very small bottle - make it yourself.  

EVAPORATED MILK
1/3 C nonfat dry milk
6 Tbsp. water

SELF RISING FLOUR
I always buy all-purpose flour - no worries about the leavening agent going bad over time
Easy way to make self-rising
1 C all-purpose flour
1 1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. salt
You can do the same with cake flour as well if you want it self-rising

LEMON ZEST
1 tsp. of zest = 1/2 tsp. lemon extract
1 tsp. zest = 2 Tbsp. lemon juice

Just a few ideas to save a little money and time.  In the middle of a recipe, you hate to see you are out of something - this saves you a trip out.  Hope you find an idea you can use!

It will be a long holiday weekend here in the states.  Labor Day.  As it is cooler in many places, I hope you get your projects done and your get togethers are fun.  Stay safe!!!
Hope you Arizona gals are OK - those dust storms looked horrible!  Hope all are safe from the fires as well.
Have a great weekend.
Blessings to all.

Wednesday, August 27, 2025

Intentional and Simple

 Hello all - I surely hope this finds you all well on this last Wednesday of August!  Amazing, isn't it?  This month has just flown by.  It is a cool morning in the 50's here.  I actually put on a long sleeve t-shirt this morning.  Still have the flip-flops on though!  LOL
It sure is nice to have the AC off and the windows open.  Bitsy is loving the window sitting!  He goes from window to window following birds and Licorice the outdoor cat.  His fur feels even softer the past couple days - the fresh air must be good for him (and me).

This is the truth!  At least it was when I was coming up in the world.  Nothing was just given to us - we worked for what we wanted and worked hard and saved.  It made getting 'whatever' a much bigger thrill.
I was raised with that mentality.  I think many of us of a certain generation were.

Living an intentional life has so much going for it.  What does that mean?  It means making a conscious choice about spending.  It means under consuming.  It means being a good steward of what you do have.  It means being a bit more frugal.  It means getting the biggest bang for your buck.  Buying quality not quantity.
It is a mindset!!

I know many think being frugal is for the poor.  Nope.  It is for all.  The rich and the poor and in between.  It is something everyone can do.

From finding new ways to use the leftovers, to fixing the things you have, to watching the sales and clearance, to turning off the lights and water, it includes it all.  
Simple living means being content and accepting and loving what you have.  Using things to the fullest, and not rushing out to buy the latest, shiniest and biggest new thing.  It truly means LESS stress and anxiety.

"Too many people spend money they haven't earned, to buy things they don't want, to impress people they don't like."  Will Rogers

Isn't that the truth?  I see it every single day.  
When you start spending what you don't have, you are always going to be a huge step or stairway behind!  Sure, a mortgage or financing a vehicle, are both ways of spending what we haven't earned yet.  A home is an investment, and a vehicle is often a necessity.  But just buying stuff on credit, is a huge red flag.  IF you use credit, make sure you use it wisely and that you can pay it off every month.

Remember - it isn't just about money.  It is about quality of life and having CONTROL of your life.  It is about feeling good about yourself.  It is about being more sustainable, being concerned for the environment, and keeping a happy and healthy home.
It is about beating the rising costs, unmoving wages, and inflation.
It is about peace of mind.

Do more with less.  Have more wisdom, joy and beauty in your life.
Peace of mind is priceless!!!!!

Have a beautiful day my friends.

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

Don't Stress - Eating on the Cheap! (it can be done)

 Hello all - hope you are all well and safe!  
It is a cool morning here!  Haven't said that in a while.  58*F right now.  I have had the AC off since Sunday and yesterday, the house never even got to the temp that the AC would have been!  Amazing, how a couple days can make such a difference.  Loving this.  Hope you are cooling a bit too.
Today just a few ideas for those times when you are broke, or just tired, or need to stretch the budget and the pantry a little further for whatever reason.  I know many of the regular that comment, are doing just fine, but there are many who read and don't comment and they may need some help or ideas.
We are here to help out.

Whether snacks, breakfast, lunches, or a quick and easy and inexpensive dinner - here are a few ideas.  Just remember (especially for yourself) you don't have to have a lot of things at one meal.  I eat simple, and most often have one good meal a day - and I am healthy, have energy and feel good.

If you have garden produce, you have several things that you make and eat.  It doesn't have to be traditional; you don't have to have 'breakfast' foods at breakfast anymore!
Core the insides of a tomato (saving the insides for salad) - and stuff with tuna salad or some other type of salad or cottage cheese.  Super healthy and tasty.  Can stuff peppers or banana peppers as well.  Scoop seeds from a cucumber and place some tune salad in that cored out spot.  YUM

Rice is a good meal idea - yes meal!  G used to love rice for breakfast or lunch served hot with butter and sugar on top - or a drizzle of honey.
Cottage cheese served with fruit or tomato - he loved that too.  You could add Jello to cottage cheese as well - super inexpensive and easy.

Melts are easy and cheap.  Add cheese, or meat or both and whatever else you want.  Fold over and grill on each side for a hot treat!  I have done this for dinner many times and add a little salad or a veggie on the side.
An open face sandwich with anything you have on top!  You toast the bread, then add some cream cheese (if you have) or peanut butter and top with any variety of goodies.  Hearty and healthy.

Of course there are the old standbys of oatmeal, or your basic beans and rice and potatoes.  Never overlook the old-time healthy eats!  All are inexpensive to make.  Top the oatmeal with whatever you like or have on hand.
GRAVY - white gravy or country gravy as many call it - is about as easy and cheap as you can get for a tasty meal!!!!  You can use it over biscuits, toast, bagels, whatever you got.  You can toast old buns or any kind of bread.  You can add chipped beef, sausage or even ground beef if desired.  Add whatever meat you have (leftover) - and you have a very cheap and hearty and filling meal!!!!!

Polenta or mush as many call it - is so easy.  I know the sound of 'mush' isn't appetizing to many.  I like it fried!!!  It is MUCH better that way.  This recipe is sooooooo easy and can easily be halved.  I make it up and place in a loaf pan and refrigerate until firm - then slice and fry in butter or bacon grease until golden on each side and it really is tasty!  Pretty darn cheap.

Here you go Mary.  You can have the taste of restaurant at home, make your own!!!!  So easy.

Fried eggs and potatoes together - add a side or toast if you choose.  This was dinner one day for me - very good and healthy!

Leftover mashed potatoes?  Make potato cakes the next day.  Super easy and very tasty.  I have them in a dinner, but they would be great for breakfast or lunch.  Add in other things if you desire.  No leftover mashed potatoes - you can even use made up instant potatoes (got a little packet laying around?).  Super easy and inexpensive and a use it up idea.
(click on recipe to enlarge for easy reading)
I made some yesterday and added about a half a can of drained corn to it - YUM!

Cowboy casserole is very easy and uses things you may have on hand.  You can use less meat if you choose or even sausage or venison.  This is a hearty meal.  Maybe add a side of garlic toast or a salad and you are set.  Great for a busy day.  I have made this many, many times.

Always think about soups!  Throw together any veggies you have and any meats (or not) in a pot or crockpot and make a great meal.  Add tomatoes or sauce or leftover gravies or bouillon to season and flavor the broth.  Soup is always an inexpensive dish to make.  There are absolutely NO limits to what you can make.  Veggie, potato, cream of anything soups, split peas, beans, etc.

SNACKS - we all need a snack now and again.  No bake cookies are easy and use up oatmeal you may have on hand.  Easy peanut butter cookies (posted recipe last week) are also easy and use what you have.
Come fall this is always around my house for a sweet bite.  I mix together salted peanuts and candy corn in a bowl - it tastes like a Pay Day candy bar.  I am not a fan of candy corn alone - but sure do love it this way!
Make a pie!  This is great - mock pecan pie!  No nuts needed - just oatmeal and let me tell you it is good!  I am a pecan pie nut, and this is very good!

No reason not to have good food to eat.  You can use many of the items you have in your own pantry (no shopping necessary) and make something new and tasty.  Meals need to be filling and you want to stretch things as far as you can when you are in need.  Not all meals have to have meat (I know, many don't agree) - but they really don't.  Use whatever protein you have on hand.  Don't stress - feed you family on the cheap.
I never recommend things that I have not done myself.  I have had rough days in the past when food needed to be stretched to the max - and here I am!  
YOU GOT THIS!!!

Have a wonderful day and enjoy all the blessings God has given!









Sunday, August 24, 2025

Weekly Wrap Up 8/24

 Hello and happy Sunday to all.  I am hoping you are all well and safe this fine Sunday.  One more week of this month and then it will be September.  I know that makes some happy - but I would just as well wait a while.  We will be experiencing a 'fake' fall this coming week - with highs in the 70's F, and lows in the 50's.  That will sure be a nice reprieve for a bit.  That is perfect weather in my book.  It has been much better the past few days - the humidity has come down and the temps as well.  I have sure enjoyed it.  It will get hot again, no doubt about that.

I saw a hummingbird moth again this week.  That doesn't happen often - they are just so neat.  Hummingbirds have been very active and drinking a lot, I hope that doesn't mean what I think.  The bright gold finches have been loving the echinacea seeds!
Got to walk a lot this week, porch sit and visit with many neighbors.  Nice.


My frugal week:
  • Picking lots and lots of produce!  Lot of peppers and a good 50-60 lbs. of tomatoes this week!!  I will be picking more today.  The zucchini is done now.  The cherry toms are pretty much done (although setting new blooms), but the regular tomatoes are just going nuts.  I have some that are a pound or over that I have picked - Beef Master.  Talk about a nice slice of tomato!
Here is the one that was just a tad over a pound - there are others close to that weight!  Fills the hand
  • Cleaned out the area between fence and drive again (neighbor's stuff coming through).  I sure wish they would keep things up - sigh.  He finally did his front fence yesterday - looks a little better
  • Cut wild trees and weeds coming up out back in flowers - seems a constant chore
  • Lots of laundry - I seem to change clothes a lot in the summer heat!
  • Made new hummingbird nectar and cleaned the feeders
  • Took the neighbor some tomatoes and peppers, came home with cukes and 2 patty pan squash.  She brought me cukes 2 more times this week - loving that!
  • "Pickled" peppers 3 ways this week.  All easy - some sliced and placed in the jalapeno jar, some sliced and placed in the jar of mild banana rings from store, and one jar of refrigerator dill peppers
  • Mowed and trimmed the entire yard over 2 days.  A neighbor brought over his blower, when I got done with the front, as I was getting ready to sweep walks and drive.  That was neat to use - I got get one of those!
  • Got to air the house and turn of AC a lot!!!
  • Didn't leave, so no grocery shopping
  • Had a sweet tooth one day, so got creative.  Heated a couple waffle pieces from freezer in toaster - let them cool - and then made an ice cream sandwich out of them.  That was good
  • Used zucchini, peppers and summer sausage in a baked spaghetti that I made in the air fryer
  • Grapes picked and in freezer to make jelly later on
  • Took lots of walks this week - it was so nice and the air refreshing - free exercise
  • Cooking from home and using what I have
Meals this past week:
Potato/egg/cheese skillet & sliced tomatoes
Chicken strips, fries and fresh veggies
Italian bread pizza (made air fryer) (bread from freezer)
Pizza piece and salad
Baked spaghetti & sliced toms - 2X
BLT and side salad
SNACKS - tomato sandwich, toms & cukes, fruit, ice cream sandwich

This week I will be doing canning, now that it is cooler.  Got to get those tomatoes put up into winter goodies and 'gifts'.   Have shared a lot of them.
Just the same stuff, nothing exciting going on here.  Life the way I like it.
How has your week been?  Give us a shout out and let us all know what you have been doing and how those gardens are doing.

I hope you all have fantastic week and please, stay healthy and safe.  Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
I leave you with a wonderful poem today!
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WIDEN MY VISION
God open my eyes
    so I may see
And feel Your presence
    close to me.
Give me strength
    for my stumbling feet
As I battle the crowd
    on life's busy street,
And widen the vision
    of my unseeing eyes
So in passing faces
    I'll recognize
Not just a stranger,
    unloved and unknown,
But a friend with a heart    
    that is much like my own.
Give me perception
     to make me aware
That scattered profusely
     on life's thoroughfare
Are the best gifts of God
    that we daily pass by
As we look at the world
    with an unseeing eye.
Helen Steiner Rice
                              AMEN

Lord, please keep each and every one in your loving, caring and healing arms.  May we all have a blessed week ahead and may we all be a friend to someone in need.  Thank you for our many blessings.  Amen




Thursday, August 21, 2025

Learning and Teaching

 Hello all.  Happy Thursday.  Hope you are all well and safe.  Really hoping none of you are experiencing any effects from the hurricane - I know it is causing a lot of flooding at the coast from the waves and water surges.
It is cool this morning, but still muggy.  We must have had some rain overnight - as the drive is wet this morning.  Sigh!  I am guessing I will not get to mow today - the front just stays wet all day after rain or heavy dew.  I guess there is always tomorrow!
                                                  Isn't that a pretty picture?  I love the colors.

You know we all think as we get older, maybe we aren't as 'useful' as we used to be.  That is so not true.  We all have something to offer and share - I think that is a huge part of our job on earth.
We all have things we can learn as well.
I recently came across this little article and just loved it.  We are valuable and essential in this world, no matter our age.  I know many think that as they age that no one cares any more, or that they have nothing to offer.  Goodness, nothing could be further from the truth.  Whether it is 50, 60, 70, 80, 90, years - you have that many decades of knowledge that can be passed on.  It may be hard lessons learned, it may be joyful experiences, it may be matters of finance, it may be matters of the heart, it may just be plain old common sense - but it is there and can help others.

I recently had a conversation with my nephew, and he was telling me a story about a conversation he had with his daughter.  I sat here smiling the whole time.  At the end, he said, I am sure glad you emphasized those things to me over the years!!! (His mom, is my sis that passed when he was younger).  I told him, I heard those stories from daddy so many times.  Mom was always an influence in my life, but daddy gave the wisdom and advice over the years.  Not sure if it was lessons he learned the hard way, or he had heard it too.  I really can't imagine grandma talking about some things.  He learned a lot of hard lessons over the years.
Anyway, this just shows how the words of one - passes down the lines over the years to many.  Someday, I imagine my great niece will be telling these things to her children!!
Isn't that amazing?  It is nice to actually see it happen over generations, nice to know while I am here.

That is kind of what this whole blog is about.  Passing on things I have learned over the years, many from my family and friends, other things from experience.  My dream as a young woman was to be a teacher, so I feel I get to do that on a small level here.
You come on and post your comments and your tips and ideas and journeys as well.  We are teaching and we are learning - no matter our ages!!!!
We are sharing and teaching even though we have never met - I think that is so neat.

Each an everyone one of us will leave a piece of ourselves in someone else.  I feel so proud, every time one of my nieces or nephews tell me that they appreciate the things we have told them over the years and that they use them in their lives.  Sometimes, they just call and ask - what would you advise.

Knowledge is a great, great gift to pass on.  I think it is more important than money or things.  It is the gift that keeps on giving!

So never feel you are insignificant as you age.  You are vital and so important.  Whether to a stranger, family, friend, neighbor, whoever - you have something to pass on.  Even if just a kind word, you have shown someone how to care.
I love that we all live and learn and teach!
Thank you all so much for contributing in your way to this blog and thank you all for being 'teachers'.

Be YOU and be POSITIVE, that is perfect.
Have a wonderful day and weekend.


Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Playing with Food!

 Howdy all.  Hope this finds you all doing good on this Wednesday!  
It feels cooler this morning in my neck of the woods.  The humidity is down just a bit, and that makes a world of difference.  Yesterday I had rain showers 3X from about 1PM - 5PM.  Nice soft showers.  We have had sun and clouds over the past few days, and I am grateful for the clouds - as the temps have stayed just at or below 90*.  None of that mid 90 stuff - thank goodness.
My garden is going nuts with tomatoes!  Picking and picking and now it is time to start processing some.

Just a few ideas dealing with food today.  You know I like playing with food!  I like to try different things and using up what I have in some new way.
Here is a picture of a side bowl of my chickpea salad.  I used a can of chickpeas (garbanzo).  I drained and rinsed - then I added whatever veggies I had in the fridge.  I had a good assortment - then added Italian dressing.  You could add any type of dressing and any type of veggies to the mix.  Protein and veggies all in one and it was quite TASTY as well.  I made a nice bowl of it (with one can) and ate on it all week.  
Garbanzo beans are very versatile.  Have you ever had crispy beans as a snack?  I have baked them in the oven until crispy before - and I have used the air fryer as well.  You can fry up in a bit of oil - but I don't think they get as crispy.  Crispy and habit forming (seriously), as a snack - and good for you as well!!!!

One day I had fried green tomatoes and fried peppers.  See the blue arrow and that little patty?  I always use the egg and the breading that is left and mix together and make a small fritter to fry up.  I tend to bread with a combo of breadcrumbs, cornmeal, and a touch of flour - it ends up tasting like a little fried cornbread!  I use it up, it tastes good and well, I don't waste a thing.  By the way, the peppers were very tasty too.

Have you ever had Yum Yum sauce?  I hadn't until I was out to lunch with friends at an Oriental restaurant.  They kept asking me to try it.  Oh my goodness, it was good.  You can buy it at the grocery in the condiment aisle - but it is pricey.  Here you go, make your own.  It is good with veggies, fries, chicken strips, fish, you name it.  A new favorite condiment for me!

Many people may not realize this - but it sure is true.  I have always sliced lengthwise (like pic on right) to make chicken tenders (strips).  I have mistakenly done it the other way, and the chicken is not anywhere as tender after cooking.  Cut lengthwise for tender chicken!

EASY PEASY PEANUT BUTTER COOKIES
It truly gets no easier!
(click on recipe to enlarge)
Super easy, super tasty and using what you have for a quick treats for the young-ins or yourself!

There you go - Wednesday adventures in playing with food!  LOL
It is always neat to learn new tricks and tips.  Use what you have and have fun - it can save money and be quite tasty as well.

Do you have any fun treat or snack or tip to share?  Look forward to learning something new!

Have a wonderful day and ENJOY the food!!!!!


Tuesday, August 19, 2025

Simplifying - What Does it Mean to You?

 Hello all.  Glad to be here this morning and hoping you are all doing well. 
It is a muggily morning!  Waiting for the cool down to hit!! We had a rain shower yesterday afternoon, that seemed to pop up from nowhere.  It may rain some today as well.  The cool front should be moving in after today, which will be refreshing.  I am tired of 90*+.

I want to talk a little about simplifying today.  I have watched some videos and been reading a little about people who have gone really drastic in their lives - going off grid, and kind of disconnecting with societal norms.  It has been interesting.
Simplifying your life does not mean EASY.  Not by any means.  Think back to the stories from our ancestors - and life was anything but easy - but it sure was a lot simpler than life today!  At least in my book.
Many have said they have been criticized, because of their lifestyle.  They are accused of not helping with the infrastructure of the area, by being off grid.  Not helping the economy.  Not being aware of what society 'expects'.
WOW!

In my view society has a LOT of things wrong.  I love the idea of kind of unplugging from the normal stuff and just living a basic life. 
You don't have to go completely off grid - but being wise with our utility is smart.  You don't have to heat with wood or pellets but turn down the thermostat a few degrees.
You don't have to have a huge garden, but growing a little and eating natural has a lot benefits.
It means using simple ingredients and cooking (even if basic) at home.
Unplugging from social media, would be huge!  It is called peace.
You don't have to have the newest and the greatest - look for different ways to use what you have.
It means recycle, reduce and re-imagine.

MY OPINION on a simple life is a smaller home, that I can more easily maintain.  Growing and eating a lot of my produce and buying other things as they are in season.  It means spending less money on stuff.  I mean wanting and needing are so different - and how much do we really need?
It means utilizing what I have in new ways.  It means thinking outside the box.  It means being wise with my usage of utilities. 
It means have a connection with others who think similarly.
I do not need the biggest, the shiniest, the fanciest new do-dad.  I just need enough.
To me, it kind of means living a life that my parents lived - a few decades ago.  Yeah, that is me.
Having less stuff in my home.  I want to have the things I love, but all the rest is so distracting.  I figure much of it may bless someone else.

I know everyone doesn't even remotely think this way.  I guess there has to be a balance.  But I will stay on the older ways route.
I truly do admire those that live off grid.  You have to have a lot of grit to do that.  It isn't easy at all - it is a lot of work.  Growing, hunting, chopping, building, gleaning, gathering, etc.  It isn't for sissies!
But living that way, is living with nature a lot more.  Utilizing all that this good earth has and puts out there for us.  Using our minds and figuring a way.  

Living is a simpler life is about basics.  It isn't fancy.  It is about being smart with what you have.  It is about letting go of some of the 'easy' ways.  It is about having peace.  It is about freedom from societal norms.
It isn't always easy at all!

What is simplifying to you?  What do you do to live a simpler lifestyle?
Does it mean peace to you?  It sure does to me.  It is just a calming way to live and THRIVE.  
Look forward to your ideas and opinions.

Have a wonderful day and stay safe.

Sunday, August 17, 2025

Weekly Wrap Up 8/17

 Happy Sunday to all.  Hope his finds you all well this morning.  I have been out to feed all the animals, and Bits and I have both had our morning 'meal'.  It is a damp feeling morning, but temp wise doesn't feel too bad.  It is rumbling and dark off to the NW.  We are supposed to have a few scattered storms this morning.  OOPS - it has started! (gentle rain right now)
Last night, I heard thunder about 10:30 - then dozed off.  Guess it got pretty windy, as there were sticks down this morning and a lot of tulip poplar leaves down.  Things were very wet, but I don't think we got a lot of rain.  Enough to give everything a drink and it seemed to clean out the gutter/downspouts!  Lots of gunk on the drive, in front of them this morning.
It seems the rain has cooled things a tiny bit (only going to be low 90's).  It has also been cloudy a lot over the past couple days, which has helped.  Looking for midweek and a little cooler temps.

I have grapes starting to get ripe!  This week I should be picking for jelly this year. YAY
It has been a quiet week.  I was supposed to go to a luncheon this week, I had something come up, plus I also just had a funny feeling about making the drive - so I didn't go.  I do believe in listening to that nudge that we get from time to time.

My frugal week:
  • I used birdbath water on plants each time I cleaned it this week
  • Did some deep cleaning, dusting this week - my LR shelves (oh my).  They sure get dusty, but I only clean them every few months (so much stuff).
  • I did move around a few items just for a little different look - can't move much
  • Made a big bowl of chickpea salad to last the week
  • Changed out furniture covers and laundered
  • Got in my car to remove some items, and then the driver door wouldn't shut.  The latch was stuck and I couldn't move.  I tried WD40 and it was still stuck.  I asked my neighbor to check it out and with a little effort he got it unstuck and really greased it up.  I have thought back and seem to remember that happening once before years ago - but it was still a pain.  (happy it wasn't raining) Glad he was around and knew what to do. 
  • I finally got to mow the yard.  Did the entire thing, but I did pace myself and worked on it in sessions.  I did not trim, however.  I did have to rake the front - as I didn't get to mow last week due to moisture.  It was hot!
  • I did probably the last trim of the bushes out back, for the season.
  • Paid bills over the phone
  • Picked lots of produce.  Squash, and lots of peppers and tomatoes!  I think I got about 2 dozen tomatoes this week!!!  I knew they would all start at one time!  They taste soooooo good.
  • Eating meals from home and keeping them simple
Meals this past week:
Green beans, corn on cob and sliced tomatoes
Chickpea salad and some fruit
Grilled burritos
Beans/rice/beef, chickpea salad side
BLT - fruit
Fried green tomatoes and sweet banana peppers, corn on cob
Combo nachos/taco salad (used l/o rice/beans/beef)
SNACKS - fruit, sliced cheese, tomatoes, salad

Nothing exciting at all.  Big bird (the hawk) has showed up a lot this week - I go out and off he goes, so the birds have been quieter this week.  
How has your week been?  Did you get any good deals?  How are those gardens doing?  Anyone done anything exciting this week?
Give us a shout out - love hearing from everyone!
I hope you all have a great week ahead and that you all stay safe and healthy.  Prayers for all, especially those needing God's healing touch.
Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
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Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that in due time he may exalt you.  Cast all your anxieties on him, for he cares about you.
1 Peter 5:6-7

Lord, we know You have us in Your loving arms, and that we need to place all our trust in You.  Your will be done.  That is so hard for us to understand, but our faith helps us each day.  Thank You for all the many blessings we received these past days, and may we recognize ever single one we get this week.  Please place your healing, loving, and protective hands upon us all.  AMEN

Thursday, August 14, 2025

Make the Choice!

 Hello all.  Here we are at Thursday again!  Dang, the time is flying by.  It is a sunny and cooler (a bit) this morning.  Last evening we had a brief rain shower, and maybe one later over night.  It sure is wet outside.  The grass is sopping wet - I don't know if I get to mow or not today.  Sigh!!!!  The humidity is down for the day, so that is good.  It looks like it is going to awfully hot this weekend - so I will be staying in much of the time.
Right now, I am airing the house a little, while I can.

Life is busy, and it slips away quickly.  Maybe, just maybe, if you do the best you can - your light will continue to shine well after you are gone.  Even if it is a brief thought by a stranger of the person who did or said something kind.

Yesterday our high school alumni group sent out yet another memo about another classmate who passed.  A brilliant man.  I remember his brilliance back into junior high.  He graduated early to go to college (I remember no one else doing that.)  He was tragically killed by someone running a red light - he was riding his bike to work (yes at 71).  He was a doctor, specializing in hematology and cancer care.  A biking enthusiast for decades.   A split second changed so may lives.
It seems like at least once a week we get a notice of someone leaving this earth from our class.
Just mentioning this to let it be a reminder that we all need to be our best every day.  


We can have some joy and make it a better day IF we choose to.  Remember the good things.  Do the good things others will remember.  Take time to smile and laugh, and yes, try to make someone else smile and laugh.
We all have the ability.
There is enough negativity in this big old world, without adding to it.  We can each make a difference - if only for one person.  It all makes a difference.
Trust me if you make someone else smile and experience joy - you will feel it too!!!!!

Stay cool in the upcoming summer days.  Eat the fresh yummies.  Tell the silly joke.  Stay well.
Have a wonderful weekend and SMILE and LAUGH a little!!!!

Wednesday, August 13, 2025

A Bit of This and That - and a Question

 Hello all.  Hope you are all well.  It turned into a pretty morning here.  I woke to the end of a little rain and a little haze this morning.  We had a nice little rain yesterday afternoon as well, and the plants all got a drink.  The skies were grumbling, but we got nothing bad here.  One of these days, I may be able to get out and mow!  Hoping for tomorrow - it looks to be the best day for a bit.  Too hot, too dewy and wet, too humid, it is always something.  Not taking any chances.  I know it is very hot many places, so please take care and stay in and stay hydrated.

I want to say I watched a show this week on Discovery on the 2024 hurricane of Helene and the Appalachia area.  It was films taken by survivors and all their personal videos.  It was so sad to watch.  I cried, and I found myself holding my breath most of the show.  I cannot imagine.  People filming their homes being hit by waves of water and huge debris, watching their neighbors homes being washed away.  One family filmed a neighbor be washed away in the water (an older lady), and their husband/dad jumped in to save her.  Both survived somehow.  Landslides happening right in front of people.  I know many places are still not even close to being back, almost a year later.  Such an unusual event for that area.  I mean who had heard of a hurricane hitting the mountains?  Just so much sadness.
It is now hurricane season again, and I pray for everyone out there, that no one has to go through any bad storms.  I know many of you from Florida and up the east coast have gone through these horrific storms (some many times).  I am so sorry for that.
There is so much flooding around right now, and fires, it is heart wrenching.  


On a positive note, I got a video of my gr.gr. nephew opening his t-shirt blanket after he got home from camping.  He loved it.  He said, "I now officially have the best blanket in the house".  Isn't that cute?  The littles have their blankets I have made, mom has hers from when she graduated high school and the one she had me make with the littles clothes.  He had one as a baby, but nothing as he grew.  He is in middle school this year, and the t-shirts were all memories from 'grade school'.
I got a bag of t-shirts from my niece (his grandma) to make a blanket for her MIL.  Oh my.  I had a gal ask me if I would think about making one for her daughter too. They are fun to do, but oh my back!!  I have no place big enough to spread things out, except the floor.  So up and down.  Guess we will see.

I have a QUESTION for you all.  What do I use fig jam for?  I have a jar I received as a gift, and not sure how to use it.  I am not a big fig eater, except Fig Newtons as a child!  Not sure what to do with it - I sure don't want to waste it.  Give me your best ideas!  Maybe a holiday thing I can make?  Thanks

I picked several tomatoes yesterday!!!  They aren't totally ripe - but I am not taking any chance of critters eating them.  I am so happy they are finally ripening.

I mentioned a week or so ago about the groundhog showing back up for a couple days.  I was really worried about the garden, and it was eating a lot of my flowers.  So I came in one morning (while he was here), and got my jug of ammonia.  It was under the deck/shed - so I started in front of the deck and poured going to the front of shed.  As I walked to the side of the shed - I met him head on!  He just stopped about a foot from me and froze.  I guess he thought I was a BIG predator!!  They usually don't get close to a person and always hide.  I stepped back and off he went too and I haven't seen it since.  The ammonia works!!!!!  My brother has had a problem with them for years and he tried ammonia this year (after my advice) and finally got rid of his as well.  Just an inexpensive tip if you have them.   They don't like the smell at all. (other animals - cats, squirrels weren't bothered).  They leave, I am happy, and nothing harmed.

OK, enough rambling for the today.  Any ideas for the jam would be appreciated!  
Hope you all have a safe and lovely day.
Be a blessing to someone!!!!!

Tuesday, August 12, 2025

Pantry Prep for the Struggles in Life

 Hello all.  Hope you are all doing well this Tuesday.  It is sunny at the moment, they say the day will be pretty cloudy.  We will see.  It is 74*F already, so it will be a warm and humid one again!  The tomatoes are FINALLY starting to come on and ripen.  They are so good.

Today just an idea or two for stocking up for whatever may come your way.
It could be a loss of a job.  It could be an illness.  It could be a family loss - trust me you don't want to shop for a while afterwards.  It could be rising prices.  It could be a weather event or just plain old winter!
There are a world of reasons to have your pantry in order.  Protect yourself and your family.

You need to remember that "pantry" does not just mean food!  It can be anything that you use on a regular basis.  There are also items that you use infrequently - many of those items are expensive, so slowly work on stocking up a little.

My main tip is to make a list or two.  A list of items you use a lot of  - every day, every week.  Things that you can go through fairly quickly.  Then make a list of things that you will need from time to time.
Keep that list with you at all times when out and shopping.

Everyday and frequently used items.
Canned or frozen foods.  Pasta, rice, dried beans, dish soap, laundry supplies, canned meats, H&B, TP, coffee, tea, there are just all sorts of things.  Pay attention when out in a store (any store).  If you find a great price on those items or a special, get some extra.  So many things last and last (well past 'best by' dates).

Think about things like furnace filters, allergy meds, sleep aids, baking goods, cleaning products (or make your own), vinegar, batteries, even yarn or craft supplies, etc.

You don't want to need something and not have it.  Of course, most of us know how to substitute other items, but not everyone does.  There are many times that you just don't want or need to go out to shop, especially if it is for one thing or for a more expensive item.

Don't limit yourself to grocery stores.  You may find a good deal anywhere.  There are dollar stores and places like Aldi and Ollies.  Now remember when buying goods at the dollar stores to look at the size of the item being purchased.  They often carry smaller sizes, and you really aren't getting a good deal, compared to the grocery.  So always check your sizes and unit prices.

I am personally good on so many items.  But things like filters and batteries are always on my list.  Over the counter vitamins, minerals, restless leg meds, allergy pills, OTC pain meds (Tylenol, Ibuprofen), cold meds or tummy aids (generally I use natural), etc..

Always be on the lookout for deals.  Having a prepped pantry can literally be a life saver.  You want to be able to provide for your family.  
You don't have to spend a lot of money at any one time.  Always keep $10 or $20 back for such reasons.  If you run into something that is a deal, and have no money - well, you have just lost an opportunity.  ALSO remember if you charge the items - PAY IF OFF at the end of the month.  Do NOT accrue interest - that is no deal!!!!!!!

Also remember that baby formula is basically the one thing that has an "expiration date".  The normal dates you find of items are NOT expiration dates!!!!  They are 'best if used by' dates.  The item doesn't magically go bad the day after that date!  Most items last and last, so PLEASE don't be wasteful.
So stock slowly and with purpose and intention.  Get the things you use and will need.  If it isn't used, it isn't a deal and it has no value.
Be wise and prepare!

Have a beautiful day and SMILE!

Sunday, August 10, 2025

Weekly Wrap Up 8/10

 Happy Sunday to all.  Hope this finds you all well and safe.
August - means hot days.  We have that - but I sure find it better than below freezing and snow!  I could do without that all together.
Each morning we get up to very heavy dew and it really doesn't dry out.  I went out one afternoon, thinking to cut at least the front, and it was 3:30PM and the grass was still wet!  Crazy.
It looks to be a hot one again all this coming week.  Hope you are all finding ways to stay cool.
I was talking to Laurie in OR and she said they are looking at triple digits this weekend - heck 90 doesn't sound so bad!  Last week Hilogene said she was having triple digits in AZ as well.  Oh gosh, so glad all that isn't here.  Stay safe.
Boy last night and early this morning the moon was sure bright and full.  I thought this was a pretty picture.
You can tell it is getting closer to fall, as there are spider webs everywhere!  No matter where you try to walk outside, it seems you run into a web, around here.

My frugal week:
  • I got to walk a couple mornings, early in the week.  Talked a while with the guy 2 doors down (chicken guy).  Probably the most we have talked ever.  Asked about him selling eggs, and he said he really never thought about being "egg man"!  He said maybe we could barter.  He gave me 4 - to just try.  I have tomatoes - so we may do that as a barter.  Regardless, I found a really nice young man (an old soul) to talk with!
  • I got to air the house a day or so, and most mornings I turn off AC and air the house
  • I had to change a lightbulb this week!!  I can't remember the last time I did that.  I hardly ever use the lights, and bulbs last forever now (I do have a nice stash of them)
  • I washed inside windows, doors and mirrors
  • I finally finished my gr.gr. nephew's t-shirt blanket - delivered it yesterday (he wasn't home).  Got orders for 2 more - yikes!
  • Made hummingbird nectar
  • Ran to Ollies to look for gift for my other gr.gr. nephew - he had a 3rd birthday party yesterday.  It was nice to see everyone.  Those kiddos sure had a good time!
  • Went to the feed store while out and used my $15 discount for August to stock up a little.  Between feed store and Ollies there is an old K-Mart building.  They are tearing it down, and word has it they are building a Wa-Wa.  I have heard about them - just surprised to see one coming to this area.
  • Also ran in Kroger - (all within the same block) - got 10 plums in clearance for $1.50.  Got a cantaloupe as well - 2.88 (tasty).  Needed some more fruit
  • Made a gallon of blackberry tea.  Used my rich assortment of flavored tea bags I have.  Nice to mix it up now and then.
  • Meals at home
  • Dusting and cleaning, and just doing all the usual
  • Have picked zucchini, a couple tomatoes, lots of cherry toms, and peppers.  The tomatoes are starting to really blush up - will have lots soon!
  • Laundry in cold, and used dehumidifier water - hung to dry
Meals this past week: (simple)
Stir fry veggies and a pork chop
Grilled cheese/smash burger combo and some fresh veggies
Salad and cheese/summer sausage and crackers
Cheesy rice with lots of veggies & meatballs added
Beef bologna/tomato sandwich (had to have my summer fav) and small salad
Egg/sausage sandwich and side salad
Dinner at nieces - grill night & fixins!

Seems like lots of little things got done, but the big thing that looked like I accomplished something was the blankie being done.  
Just trying to stay in and stay cool.  I do go out a few times a day - but not for long.  Just trying to use what I have and only supplement small things.
How has your week been?  How are those gardens doing?  I hope you are all enjoying some fresh goodies of the summer.  Did you find any deals this week?
Give us a shout out and say hello!

I hope you all have a lovely week ahead, and that all are safe and healthy.  Prayers for all in need of healing.  
Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
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Blessed be the name of the Lord from this time forth and for evermore!  From the rising of the sun to its setting the name of the Lord is to be praised!
Psalms 113:2-3

Amen - we sing praises for all the Lord gives us each and every day.  Every small and tiny thing to the largest, we are blessed.  Help us to pay attention to all things, and know they are gifts from You.  Thank You for all blessings great and small.  May we all continue to notice and be aware of all the treasures we are given to experience.  AMEN