Weekly Wrap Up 3/15

 Hello and happy Sunday to all.  Hope you are all well and safe.

It has been a crazy weather week all around.  Friday, we had winds that didn't seem to cease!  I was out actually 'catching' trash as it blew! Powerful winds.

They are coming back again today, with thunderstorms coming late tonight.  Some areas north of here are predicted to have blizzards!!  Winter isn't done yet!

Trees are budding all over, and flowers and bushes are popping out and being pretty.  The magnolias are just starting to bloom, but will be DONE within the next 24-48 hours, as we are to get in the teens once more.  We will have the coldest St. Patrick's Day in nearly a century!!!!  Crazy stuff.  I hope all getting winds, storms and lots of snow stay safe.

My Licorice cat has been MIA for 2 weeks now.  Within 2 days of him not coming to eat his usual treats - I was out scouring the roads.  I walked our entire street, the street behind us, the cross streets, and the alley - no signs of a hit kitty.  I looked at all the yards as well - no Licorice.  I have not given up total hope yet, I sure miss that feller.  He has been a mainstay around my house for a couple years now - and lived across the street before that.  There are many black cats around, so I may have seen him and not known it, but he hasn't been 'begging' at the door as usual.  He has a funky ear, which is how I can pick him out - but at a distance I can't tell.  I sure hope he returns at some point, I just hate not knowing.

My frugal week:

• Lots and lots of walks - free exercise
• Spent some time doing yard clean-up, raking, bagging, cutting and pulling - and moving some things around
• Picked a big bouquet of daffodils - since they will be gone after tomorrow.  Probably need to pick more today (70* today)
• Aired the house out and had furnace off for a good bit of the week
• Used the air fryer and the crockpot this week to avoid the oven
• Lots of laundry in cold and hung to dry
• Fixed a spot on the awning out front that had a loose piece of metal that banged like crazy Friday in the wind - that was fun being on a step ladder in the wind!
• Refilled all the feeder bins with feed on hand
• Had to plug in the watering holes again - when not raining as cold coming back
• Using what I have on hand and making new meals from leftovers
• Pulled out a mini pork loin from freezer and cooked in the crockpot (will give 3 meals)
• One day I was chilly and I also wanted something sweet - so I made a big mug of hot chocolate w/lots of marshmallows - so nummy
• Did a little sewing
• NO grocery shopping
• Doing all the normal stuff

Nothing exciting here!

Meals this past week:

Baked potato topped w/chili, cheese and sour cream

Chicken strips, brussel sprouts, and sauteed carrots strips

Dirty rice (homemade spicey rice) and fried cabbage

Bean, rice, cheese enchiladas (done on stove top)

Fish sandwich, mixed greens cooked and carrot sticks

Pork loin w/carrots and potatoes

BBQ shredded pork sandwich topped with shredded cabbage and l/o greens as side

SNACKS: toast, fruit, nuts

There you have it.  Nothing real exciting here.  Counting down the days until it gets warmer and stays!  

How has your week been?  What kind of weather are you getting?  Any good deals this week?

Let us know what is going on in your life.

I hope you are all safe and stay safe with all the weird weather that is happening this weekend.  

Prayers for your health and safety.

Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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I will give to the Lord the thanks due to his righteousness, and I will sing praise to the name of the Lord, the Most High.

Psalms 7:17

Dear Lord, thank you again for all the many blessings that we have had this week.  Help us each one see the light that comes from our darkest moments, and the joy in little things.  There are many things in life that are sad and depressing and worrisome, but with You we can get through all.  Prayers for all our family and friends, and prayers for all everywhere.  Help us to remember that things happen as part of Your plan, and we need to have faith.  AMEN

 

Be Careful - Don't Get Scammed

 Hello all.  Hope you are all well.  We are back to feeling like winter this morning.  It is about 40 degrees cooler this morning than yesterday morning!  We sure had the winds and rain yesterday, but nothing like some areas had.  There were many tornadoes that touched down north - just so sad to see all the damage.

Talk about a roller coaster of weather - we got it!  We have winds of March, April showers, summer storms and winter cold and snow - all in a few days!  It is nuts.  Sunday we may hit 70* again and by Tuesday morning they are saying lows in the teens!!  And SNOW!  It is the season of change for sure.

We have wind warnings around for late tonight and tomorrow again - I sure do love calm and pretty days!!!  I guess the nasty weather makes us really appreciate the good days.

This is the time of the year that damage starts happening due to storms.  It goes on until fall for most of us, and in different forms in different areas.

With damage the scammers come out to prey upon vulnerable folks.  It is awful.  Some folks will do anything they can in a dishonest fashion to make a buck!!  Geesh, if they would work as hard at doing good work it would be wonderful.

Whether you are having repairs made due to weather damage or just doing remodeling - take your time and check people out.  Even with storm damage - TAKE YOUR TIME to decide (I know that seems hard to do).  People are anxious and scared and worried, and they can make rash decisions. 

NEVER pay for a job up front!  You have nothing to guarantee they will be back and do the work.  Pay in increments, if necessary.  Let insurance pay when possible.

ALWAYS check the businesses out.  Call the BBB and check on them, call the attorney general, do the work - so you aren't scammed.

I like to use people that family or friends have used - word of mouth.  Put the word out and listen to people you know.  I would never use someone that just shows up at my door, soliciting business.  I love using small family-owned businesses, but I still need to know they can be trusted to do good work.

It is very sad that we have to consider things like things - but there are so many bad people out there.  Listen to your inner self and your gut.  Listen to people you know.  Don't be a victim to anything else.

Common sense is so important.

I hope you all have a lovely day and a super weekend.

Reminiscing - What I Remember and What I do!

 Hello all.  It is about to be a nasty weather day here.  I know many have already had nasty stuff going on.  It is very windy here, with a tornado watch until noon.  Storms have flown through as I type this.  Major wind gusts and lots of rain.  Skies are black!  It was72* when I got up at 6AM.  Now it is 63*.  Tomorrow morning will likely be 40* less than this morning!!!!!

I truly hope those in the affected areas are safe and stay safe.

Yesterday I watched a Vlog talking about things people used to do, that they no longer do.  I had to chuckle, as I still do them.  I live very much below my means (my choice).  I don't really care about stuff.  I do not have a fondness for travel, so I stay home a lot.  This is me - what you see and what I write is authentic.

Here we go.  Remember these are my memories, and I know not everyone grew up this way.  I was born in 1954 - the last of a family of 6 kids.  All were quite a bit older - so they and my folks truly remembered tough times.  I remember things being simple - but thought that was just how things were.  No one really had a ton of stuff (except a few).  I was happy.

• We grew a good part of our food and put it away for the winter months.  Dad also liked to fish, he wasn't a big hunter.  They did have chickens, rabbits and goats when the others were younger
• My parents had a budget, and they knew where every penny was to go.  Dad was the main bread winner - mom only had a part time job now and then.  She did sewing at home for others very often.  So, one income for the most part.
• Entertainment was pretty much free stuff.  No one shopped when they were 'bored'.  We play games, played outdoors, had homemade birthday dinners and cakes, picnics, etc.
• WHEN my parents bought something new - it was quality.  They knew it would last and not need to be replaced any time soon.  Today, everything seems to be throw away - you really need to do research to get quality.
• NO credit cards.  They didn't exist much back then.  My parents paid cash for everything.  No payday loan companies, no CC's, no shopping on a whim.  If you wanted something and didn't have enough funds - you used lay-away!  We always had a Christmas Club account for holiday spending. Mom would get a part time job sometimes, to have a little extra money for Christmas or to pay on something they were saving for.  She worked at Ayres (dept. store) downtown or worked at the bakery a couple blocks away - she would work the 4PM - midnight shift at the bakery and walk home!
• Along those same lines - they had no debt and didn't want any!  They did pay for the house on a contract ($4,800!).  If they needed a new appliance or bought a new car - they saved and paid cash.  When my parents went into business for themselves in the late 60's - they were given a line of credit, which they never used.  They paid for everything (with their little savings) to get started.  Times were lean, but they had a big goal.  I remember daddy trying to get a CC in the 70's, because they were taking a trip to Florida (a first) and wanted a little security.  He had a hard time getting it, because he always paid cash and really had no credit.
• Community was huge.  Neighbors looked out for each other - people babysat, watched out for other's kiddos, helped if someone needed something mechanical done, brought dinner when someone was really ill.........
• Fixed everything.  Shoes were repaired, clothes mended, fixed the car or the mower if it went out
• We had one car!  Mom never did learn to drive.  We would make trips downtown on the bus.  Otherwise, daddy took us when he wasn't working
• Mom cooked at home.  She pretty much made 3 meals a day every day.  Lunch was light, something simple.  We didn't go out to eat.  I remember the first-time having pizza (not homemade), was with a friend's family at a small restaurant.  It was exciting but I still remember thinking moms was better!  Maybe a couple times a summer we went to A&W for a frosty mug of root beer or stopped for an ice cream or malt at Linders - but those were treats.  I was in high school before I ever had anything from fast food.  I also remember we didn't buy pop; we had water, milk, tea or Kool-Aid.  One time a summer daddy would get a case of Nehi bottled drinks - they had to last all summer, and they were a very special treat!
• They saved back 'something' FIRST.  ALWAYS.  It may not have been a lot, but they saved.
• They spent less than they earned - just how it was.
• Took care of things themselves.  Yard work, mowing, gardens, shopping, cooking, cleaning - we never thought about hiring someone for those things
• Used the library.  You didn't have the opportunity to look things up on a computer for a school project - you went to the library and researched it
• We went to the grocery once a week - mom had a very strict budget she set for herself.  No stopping at a store whenever there was a 'desire' for something

These are just some of the main things I remember, and many/most I still do.  I absolutely hate debt.  With buying our small home and buying our first and only new vehicle - we paid them off as quickly as possible.  We both came into the marriage with some debt (stupid stuff) and paid it off and vowed to keep debt minimal from then on.  We concentrated on saving for a time in life that we kind of knew was inevitable (Glen being unable to work).  We neither one made a lot of money, we just managed what we had well.  That is still serving me well.

We had fun, just not expensive fun.  We had friends we did things with, we camped, had get togethers, wondered Indiana, just spent quality time together.  That was all that was truly important.

Do you still do any of the lifestyle that your parents did or that your grandparents did?

Do you have other memories, that bring a smile to your face?

Let us take a trip down memory lane!

Have a blessed day!

A This and That Tuesday

 Good day to you all.  Hoping this finds all well and safe.

Spring is in the air!  It is already 66* here this morning and cloudy.  Looks to be dry for most of the day, but getting to mid 70's.  Yesterday was a glorious day here in the neighborhood.

I had windows open yesterday, flip flops on, and of course no heat.  Today should be much of the same.

I still am not used to this time change thing.  It will take a while.  Not sleeping the greatest and then I have been having weird and bad dreams.  Not sure I am totally enjoying the change in daylight hours yet - seems too soon.

Tonight, again overnight, we have storms coming in and some could be strong.  rain most of tomorrow as well.  UGH.  Wish I could send it to you who are so dry right now.

Now mind you - here in Indiana weather can flip on a dime.  Near 80 and a couple days later below freezing.  Rain, sun, thunderstorms, threats of nasty weather, and a chance of snow flurries!  Yep, all of that is in store for this week!!!!  

I have a daffie almost open this morning and the forsythia is just starting to flower.  Birds are singing and the day is good.

Now that spring is at hand here in the US - it is the time of the year that gleaning can begin.  I know there are many who will turn their noses up and say eeewww - to this, but there are so many edibles just growing out there wild AND in your yards.  You should not go hungry!

I pick purslane often and use in salads and chop for scrambled eggs, I have made jelly from dandelions, violets and clover.  My mom used to make dandelion greens.  I need to use other 'weeds' (free food) as well.  This may be my year of trying.

You just want to make sure your yard and probably the neighbor's yard isn't sprayed with chemicals.

It will soon be morel mushroom season as well!!!!  Oh my gosh they so yummy.  They are my pick of best mushroom.  I don't get the opportunity around here to hunt them - they generally grow in the woods - this rainy damp season will be great for them.

Do you have any edibles that you can/do glean in your area?

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We have talked about 'shrinkflation' some in the past weeks.  We all know that items are shrinking and the price doesn't.  I noticed something very subtle this week.  Of course, we know TP has less sheets per roll.  I had pretty much used the end of my older stash and got out some of the newer inventory - and one thing I readily noticed was the actual cardboard roll (in the center) is now bigger!  Not a lot, but it is bigger.  I guess that is why you can have less sheets and no one really pays attention.  Now you wouldn't see that or notice when purchasing because of the packaging - subtle.

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I also noticed something that really got me to thinking.  I have been trying to pay more things over the phone (still not totally trusting computer).  Now I put in the utility company acct. number or the last 4 digits (only) of my CC#.  Then they ask me to prove who I am.

Now mind you I did not put in the whole CC# - no one can use my utility acct. - so why?  Is someone trying to pay my bill for me?  If so - LET THEM!!!!  You can only get balance and pay on these phone numbers (no buying).  I just do not understand all the silly things that go on anymore.  I guess I am old fashioned and not technically smart.

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Yesterday I did yard work - it was such a glorious day.  It seems each year - I get tired a lot quicker!  Go figure!!  My poor hands are so sore this morning.  I was pulling, cutting  and grabbing things.

I do find it amazing how just a few little things done, can make such a difference.  I wish more people would do bits here and there - golly, things would look so much prettier all over.

Even just walking and picking up any trash they see.  I noticed the last time I was out in the car; how much trash accumulates in greenery close to the roads.  I can't imagine throwing something out the window - yet people do it daily.  So sad and really nasty.

What goes on that makes you go hmmmmmmm?

My head is just all over the place today - no method to my madness!  

I hope you all have a lovely day and storm damage or problems.

Weekly Wrap Up 3/8

 Hello and happy Sunday to all.  I hope this finds you all safe and well.

Are you all spung forward????  I sure wish we would pick a time zone and stick with it!

It has been a wet and warm few days around here.  Lots and lots of rain.  Just as the back yard 'pond' was about gone - then more rain yesterday.  It smells so wormy out there!  The robins are loving it - a major buffet for them.  The squirrels have been gathering leaves and rebuilding and building nests.  Yesterday I saw my first red-winged blackbirds of the season.

The grass is getting greener, the daffies are about 6" high, poppies and lilies are popping up, spring is at hand.  Yes, we will have more cold weather, but for now it is a lovely change.

Friday, we set records for the warmest March day!  Later in the week, we may have flurries!  You never know.

My frugal week:

• Made a pot of chili and used the last of the taco lentils (freezer) in it.  It was so good, some of the best chili I have made in ages
• Did a lot of walks - free exercise
• Messed with my other sewing machines (I have 3 total).  Haven't used those 2 in ages, and one doesn't have a manual, so I did some You Tube research and got them all going and functioning well.
• Did more sewing (blankie)
• Trying to use some older items from the pantry
• I unplugged all the watering holes this week - at least for a while
• Super cleaned the storm drain - first went out and just pulled back a bunch of debris with a stake.  Went out later and cleaned and shoveled all the gunk away from the drain - it flowed and flowed for hours.  People had sump pumps draining out front and it was just sitting in street, until the drain was cleaned
• Picked up sticks that blew down in the winds
• Heat off and windows open for a few days - refreshing the house
• Made some sugar free instant pudding with an older clearance mix I ran across in the pantry - tasty snack
• Cut up more cukes and placed in pickle juice for flavor (great use for older cukes)
• Ran to Kroger - I had a couple coupons that were about to expire.  FREE ice cream (48 oz) and nice dollars off on dry cat food.  They had brisket on sale this week (last week was Aldi) and I got one more for the freezer (3.99 lb.).  Also had a .65 off gal. of milk to use as well
• I stopped at the thrift store on the way back home - got bread (free) and I bought some fantastic tasting dip.  I got a jar the last time I was in to try, and it is yummy - so I got more (I couldn't make as cheaply)

FREE BREAD

                     Enchilada flavored dip for $1 a jar!  Still not even close to use by date

• Froze 2 containers of chili for later
• Doing all the normal things and general house keeping
• Visits - sis and with neighbors

Meals this past week:

Chili & crackers

Chili cheese fries

Chicken & noodles (freezer) and sauteed zucchini

Sauteed green beans/corn/onions and a Swiss burger

Mac & cheese w/broc. and faux lobster added

l/o mac & cheese and salad

Grilled 3 cheese sandwich and a cup of potato soup (freezer)

SNACKS - pudding, popcorn, Eng. muffins toasted, fruit

I am so over rain, but more is coming mid-week.  It is so muddy outside - almost impossible to not get your shoes muddy.  I wash the soles of shoes after feeding critters each day - only way to get rid of the mud and not track in! (they come off at door)

I shouldn't complain - earlier in the week when we had 4 1/2" of rain in a couple days - let us just say I was so thankful it was NOT snow - that would have been a ton.

I know I have several people here, who were in line of the rain and storms - I sure hope you did not get flooded or have any damage.  I have been seeing a lot of sad pictures.

How was your week?  Any deals?  How is your weather?  Reach out and say hello and let us know how you are faring.  I keep you all in prayer - I know so many are going a lot right now.

I hope you all have a safe and healthy week ahead.  

Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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Blessed is the man who endures trail, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life which God has promised to those who love him.

James 1:12

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives to all men generously and without reproaching, and it will be given him.  But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the sea.

James 1:5-6

Dear Lord, thank You for this past week and for the many gifts that we have received.  

As we each go through our own different grief and frustrations, help us to each know that we are able to find bits of joy in the smallest things and even in our hardships if we look.  Help us each to understand "thy will be done", as we most often do not.  Help us to live Your will and not ours.  Give us strength to endure all things and faith to know the love that You have for us.  AMEN

Sunrays, Smiles and Comfort

 Hello all.  Hope you are all well this soggy day.  

Rain and more rain in these parts.  Oh, my have we had more than our share.  Since Tuesday morning, we have had over 4" of rain.  Flooding is happening all over, including my backyard!  Lots of water in the neighbor's backyards as well.   Our drought seems to be no more at this point.  I am so thankful it hasn't been snow!!!  Gosh, that would have been a ton of snow.  Today should be in the 60's and tomorrow they are predicting near 80*.  I know we will have more cold weather - we just started March, so there will be more.  But this little reprieve is nice.  I will be enjoying each soggy, muddy, warm moment!!!

Don't forget that this weekend there is a time change for many of us.  Sunday at 2AM is the official time to move those clocks forward.

A little smile this AM.  Bitsy laying here the other afternoon, enjoying a sunray that was sneaking its way to his chair/bed.  So content.

Thought I would share a fix I made this week.  I have used the same house shoes for a couple years - but the bottoms (vinyl) started to crack, and they were getting caught on throw rugs.  I had a new pair of slippers in the closet, that I got before Big Lots went out.  They are very sturdy slippers and Dearfoams - they have memory foam on the inside.  Sounded perfect.

I have been using these for a couple weeks and they have kept my feet warm - but then I started having problems with my feet.  The balls of my feet and my toes were hurting and cramping.  Very uncomfortable.  It dawned on me that it didn't happen until I started wearing these.

Well, I had kept the old ones, and I got them out.  I decided to "fix" the soles.  Used duct tape - LOL.  White was the color I had - so what I used.  I wear them only in the house and I am alone, so they don't need to be pretty.  So much better are my feet.

Placed the tape over cracks and now I am wearing again.  I can't believe the difference.  My tootsies are thankful.  Pretty no - comfy yes.  Will get me through the rest of this season.

I guess next stop to donate at the thrift store, they will get a pair of slippers.  

Just because something says it is better and more comfy - doesn't mean that it works for all.  Keep that in mind when buying new wearables.

When starting new things, don't be quick to get rid of the older.  Make sure things will work out.  Mini repairs may need to be done - so be it.  Make yourself and your body comfy.

Just my little tidbit for today!!!!

I sure hope you all have a great weekend.  Hopefully it is warming up some in your area and maybe you can avoid snow (sorry northern gals).

Change those clocks.

Have a fantastic weekend and know that you are each one in my prayers and my thoughts.

SMILES

More Affordable Groceries and Eats

 Hello to all this morning.  Hope this finds you all well and safe.

Well, it isn't raining this morning (yet or still).  Boy did we have rain yesterday.  All day and aaallllll night!!!  We had storms and tons of rain over 2 1/2"yesterday).  Quite a bit more coming later on today.  UGH!  I have a lake in the back 40 as do the neighbors.  I went out this AM and cleared the street drain - it was completely clogged - nowhere for the water to go.  It sure looked like a river flowing when I cleared.  I wish people would be careful with leaves and debris.

Today more words on affordable grocery shopping and good eats.  I know I talk a lot about this, and maybe repeat a few things, but new people read every day and we all need to know these things.  Now is the time to really be careful and stretch those dollars.

Here is a fun way to use stale bread.  I used to not like it, because what I had was really wet.  Once I had a hardier version that was drier in consistency - it was wonderful.  This is a basic recipe - think about adding fruit, nuts, anything that sounds good or needs to be used.  Can be used for a side, a dessert, breakfast, lunch - sure a great way to fill a belly and stretch things.

• Make recipes and meals with simple ingredients.  There are tons of things that can be had.
• Count your pieces in bagged produce!  Seriously!!  Those are servings.  A bag of oranges may have 7 pieces or it may have 10 - supposedly the same weight.  Well, a serving is important to stretch it out
• Weigh those bags of produce.  May be advertised as 5lbs for a price - some may weigh more and some less
• Make friends with dept. managers to get a heads up on when they mark things down
• Check every dept. for markdowns!  Maybe the store has a central clearance section - look and use it.  I hardly ever pay full price for anything - either sales or clearance
• Beef is high in price.  Ground beef is high - look for markdowns or use ground pork, chicken, etc.  Add beef bouillon to give it more of a beef taste.
• Think about getting pork loins when they go on special for .99 or 1.99 a pound and have the meat dept. grind it for you!!!  Heck of a lot cheaper than ground beef.
• Add oats or bread/crackers crumbs to ground beef to stretch it further.  You can add cooked lentils as well - great protein and stretches it.  Lentils take on taste of what it is cooked with.  I add beans a lot for tacos.  Make bean burgers or lentil burgers - you may be amazed at the taste.
• DON'T feel bad to use food pantries if needed.  They are there to be used and help out
• Ask your/or neighborhood church for help if necessary
• Add bread or biscuits to meals - it is filling and you use less of the main course
• Keep basics on hand - sugar, flour, dry milk, pasta, rice, canned tuna, oats, peanut butter, crackers, canned tomatoes, corn meal, dry beans and lentils - you can make all kinds of meals with basic ingredients
• If you can't buy fresh veggies cheaply - buy frozen.  Closest to fresh taste, no added ingredients (buy plain) and keep well
• Fresh - carrots, potatoes, apples, cabbage, bananas, celery - all pretty cheap
• If need be - get hot dogs and add to meals.  I know many don't like that idea - but you get what you can in a pinch, and it is filling.  Same with Spam or mini canned hams.  Used tuna
• Remember tortillas are super cheap (and so easy to make at home) - they can be made into chips as well as having many uses soft
• Use leftovers in new ways or for lunches or breakfast (you can always add an egg!
• Use up what you have in new ways.  Add to soups and casseroles and pizzas - new combos can make for a tasty meal
• Things getting old?  Use them up.  Older apples - fried, baked, sauce.  Oranges - juice or use in a sweet & sour Asian meal, use in a shake.  Carrots or celery limp?  Place in ice cold water to replenish or cut up and use in soup.  A few sprouts on potatoes?  Cut them off and use.  USE THEM UP!

Pizza made from scratch last week - everything I had around.  2 types of olives, onions, peppers, small tomatoes, mushrooms, some pepperoni - chopped, homemade sauce (use tom. sauce & seasoning if all you have), cheese/or not.  Leftover veggies, meats, mac & cheese, anything you have can be added and be yummy!

In my opinion there is no recipe for soup - just throw things together, and I bet you won't be sorry.  It sure can stretch fewer ingredients into several meals.  Add some pasta or rice and it stretches even further.

Think about shopping less often.  Maybe start going every other week and using YOUR pantry/freezer in between.  Stretch that food - yes shop at home first.  Then maybe you can go three weeks - it is all about what you get used to.  I have found for me, the less often I go, the less I spend a month.  I learn to use other things and substitute and figure out new things to cook.  Get creative - you knew I had to say it!!!

Small changes can make big differences in funds.  IF you don't need to worry about that - fantastic.

Today many do need to worry about money.  Do the work!!!!!  You have to do the work.

Keep it simple and keep it affordable and make good eats.

Have fun all - give us your tips!!!!!

Have a blessed day to all.

When Life Happens - Hugs

 Hello to all this Tuesday morning.  Here we are in March, just seems surreal to be here already.  

Yesterday we woke to snow and had about 2" of that white stuff.  It was gone by the end of the day, and this morning it was 40* when I got up.  40's today and rain.  Looks like it will be soggy for a few days, very soggy.  Mud season is here!  But the temps will be warming up by the end of the week to about 70*.

I have been out to feed the cats and critters. The birds were singing.  It is gloomy and cloudy, but we have another day!

Today I have some sad news to share with everyone.

Yesterday I got an email from our sweet friend and longtime member here (and card maker extraordinaire) Cookie.  She let me know her sweet husband Bill passed away peacefully and at home yesterday morning.

Bill has been battling cancer for a good while and had many ups and downs.  She said she felt honored to get to take care of him and keep him at home, as he wished.

I have kept in touch with her during this difficult time, and I just can't say how sad it makes me for her.

She gave me permission to share this news and said she will be back here at some point.  She does read when she can.

We have many others here going through a lot with their loved ones and themselves.  Sometimes we just have no idea what others may be going through on a daily basis.  Not just family and friends, but strangers we meet each day.  THIS is one good reason to always be kind to others.  You may be the sweet, soft touch that they need on that day.

So, as you go about your week, BE KIND!

Many prayers for all of you going through illness and tough times, for yourself or your loved ones.

Many gentle hugs to you all.

Weekly Wrap Up 3/1

 Hello to all and happy March! Hope this finds you all well and safe.

It is again, a chilly morning (31F), but partly sunny.  We had another brief taste of spring this week, now we are back to more normal temps for this time of the year.  It looks like as the week goes on, we get back to warmer temps and lots of rainy days.  Before that happens - there is a prediction of a little sampling of snow again!

19 days until the spring equinox!  Today is meteorological spring/fall depending on which hemisphere you live in.

I have so been enjoying seeing the robins - more each day.  Love hearing the birds singing, that is the sound of spring to me.

My frugal week:

• I did go out to lunch with grade school friends this week.  We did something new this time - everyone brought an item (or more) to a 'free' table - and you got to pick anything you wanted to take home.  Helping get rid of things we don't need.  I was going to get nothing, but I did take an inspirational book and a brand-new yummy smelling candle!
• I keep the greenhouse top tarped.  It helps shed snow in winter, holds heat for kitties, and protects in case any window may leak.  The last big wind finally shredded the tarp, so I put a new one on and bungeed down.  That was a job, getting it over the peak alone and on a breezy day, but is done.  I am sure it was a funny sight!
• I did run some errands.  Kroger basically needed milk and more cat food (boy, I go through a lot).  I did get some clearance deals while there

80% ground beef for 3.60/lb.  Bags of produce were 1.50 each.  2 lbs. of zucchini for 1.50 - normally 1.99/lb.  Cukes and peppers had many more in each bag, than the 2.99 regular bags had.

• Got my monthly gas fill-up while out.  2.17/gal. w/points - total fill-up was $15.50
• I did stop at the hardware store on the way home from Kroger.  Got a tarp and some new bungee cords.  Noticed that they now sell key fob covers and can make electronic key fobs for many vehicles!  They run about 60% less than going to the dealer - good to know
• Was in the mood for biscuits - I had a roll in frig that needed used from the holidays.  I baked 8 Grands.  Usually make from scratch - but these needed used
• Sis visits - I am not sure how soon she can get back to apt.  She is in rehab but not doing well walking herself alone (w/walker).  She still needs a lot of help - and can't go back to assisted living until she is more independent.  She is very weak and has little appetite.  You only have so many days in rehab (w/Medicare) - so not sure what will happen.  I sure hope her strength increases very soon.  I try to encourage her and pray for her constantly - nothing else I can do.  I just wonder if she has given up.
• While visiting sis one day I stopped at Menards and Aldi.  Got more cat food and critter feed at Menards and a couple things for the yard for spring clean-up.  ALDI had brisket on sale, so I stopped for that sale.  3.49/lb.  Super price for around here.

I usually get flat cut - but for the price I didn't care!

• Did some yard clean-up on a couple days
• Scoured out all the watering holes
• Got to air the house a couple days and turn off heat - so lovely
• I tore off the much-worn stair treads from the side steps and replaced.  Steps are wooden and get very slick when wet
• Cut up some of the cukes I bought and put in pickle juice in the frig - love that extra flavor in salads
• Lots of laundry - cold water - hung most in basement to dry
• Paid all bills I had and received.  Some by phone and mailed a couple
• Got to do my walking a few days - slowly getting back into that!!  Nice talking w/neighbors again
• Saved some jars for re-use

Meals from home this past week:

Grilled burritos -using lentil taco filling, cheese and sour cream

Out to eat w/friends

Homemade pizza (used tons of frig/freezer items)

Pizza and salad

Bacon/egg biscuits

Stew (freezer) and biscuits

Chicken egg rolls and a side salad

SNACKS - milkshake, fruit, biscuit & jelly, cheese and crackers

Seems like I kept busy - but mainly just running.  Between getting rear ended, tarping the greenhouse roof and repairing the treads - my neck is a little sore!  Things sure wear me out quicker the older I get.  Just glad I am still able.

How was your week?  Did you get anything done outdoors?  Or is your weather still nasty?  Any deals this week?

Hope you stop by and check in - love hearing from you all.

Wishing you all a super week ahead.  Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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One of my favorite verses

Have no anxiety about anything; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, will keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

Colassians1 4:6-7

Lord, thank You for all our blessings in this past week.  

Help us each one to put our trust and faith in You and Your word.  Your will be done, is so hard for us to remember.  We each one stress about things and worry and fret, when You already know the outcome.  Help us to take a deep breath and really trust in the word. We are always safe with You, now and in the future.  Help us to count our blessings, instead of our problems.  AMEN

He knows!

Nudges

 Hello all - hope this finds you and your family well.  Another cool morning - but all is good.  We get a couple more nice days, then winter comes back in for a minute.  It sure won't be long, before we are complaining about the heat in this area.  I hope I don't complain but just enjoy it.

Do you get nudges?  Some call it coincidence, some say fate, I call them God nudges.

Little things, like taking a different route one day and missing a big wreck.  Or stopping to do something and running late and miss something bad.  Thinking of someone that hasn't entered your mind in ages, maybe call or reach out.  You just get a 'feeling' about someone or a situation and leave.

I think about all the stories I heard about 9/11 - and people that missed being in the towers when they fell.  Running late, a traffic jam, a sick baby, a forgotten appointment, etc.  Those people lived.

Yesterday I left to run some errands.  I was on the road (fairly busy) and I was stopped at a traffic light.  The vehicle behind me stopped as well - a little way back.  Then all of a sudden, I felt a big jolt and heard a huge BAM!  They ran into my rear end!!

Well, I threw my arms up as to say, "what the h***?"  Then I put my vehicle in park and started to get out.  In an INSTANT - I saw the passenger of the back car start to get out and someone SCREAMED at me NO - DON'T!!!!!  Yep, I heard it - although no one was around.

So, I put the car in drive and nudged to the curb - in front of a busy gas station (just a couple feet).

The light changed - they shielded their faces (both men) and took off like crazy people.

Now first thought for me was carjacking, then in another instant I thought better.  My vehicle isn't a jacking vehicle.  Then I thought worse!  Call me nervous Nellie or whatever you want - I just knew something wasn't right.  I didn't even get out after they left - as I thought someone could have been at the gas station waiting.  Yes, I was that shaken.

I went on up to WM parking lot before getting out to look at the vehicle.  I was so lucky - not a scratch or a dent (obviously bumpers didn't line up) - but I was sure shaken.  Shaken to the core.  I sat there for several minutes calming myself and saying a prayer of thanks that I was ok.

I went on with my day and my errands, and all was fine.

I know many think it is just fate or karma or coincidence - call it what you want - I think someone greater intervenes!!!

I always pray before I leave the house, that God will let my journey be safe and that He will take care of me and my home.  I always say 'thank You' when I get home.

I think we receive blessings in many ways - in things that happen and things that don't.  We never know how the day will go or what may be in store - but I do believe that it all happens for a reason, if for no other reason than to remind us to say thank you or say a prayer more often.

Have you ever had one of those moments?  Do you get nudges?

I hope you all have a great weekend.  Pay attention and keep your eyes open.  Listen to that little voice inside.  Be grateful for what does happen and what doesn't - it may be a fine line.

Blessings to all - stay safe.

Things That we Waste $$ on!

 Howdy ho everyone!  Hope this finds you well.  It is a warmer and sunny morning here.  We get another reprieve from winter temps for a few days.  Yesterday ended up with temps that weren't too bad - but goodness the wind was frigid!  Can you believe we are on the last few days of February?  The time is flying by.  We will be in Spring in no time.  Heck the time changes in a little over a week (3/8) and then spring!

Today let us talk about money grabbers that we can waste good hard-earned dollars on.  Now I say most of these are things I would try to avoid, but I know many do a lot of these things.  You have to do what you need to do - just remember the funds it tends to cost.

Here are a few things:

• Interest on charge cards - always pay on time and at least make minimum payments - do not pay interest
• Daily coffee runs!  I know lots of people do this.  If you buy one $6 coffee every day - that is over $2,000 a year!!!!!  Enjoy a coffee out once in a while - otherwise make it at home
• Overdraft fees - keep an eye on things, so you don't overdraw your accounts.  bank fees and ATM fees can really eat up funds
• Extended warranties - I know some may disagree.  Generally, most anything major that might happen - happens in the mfg. warranty timeframe.  If not - it takes a long time for things to break, and those extra fees spent on the extended warranty is wasted
• Cable TV (I am guilty).  Some have cable and a bunch of extra services that stream shows as well (Netflix, etc.)
• Brand name meds and OTC meds.  Always asked if there is a generic version.  Read labels on OTC - many are exactly the same as brand name and are even made by the same companies (do your homework)
• Fast food delivery - with delivery, tips and other fees your food will cost more than 2X as much.
• Wasting groceries and food - so much $$$ is throw away every year.  Come up with recipes and ways of using and re-inventing items
• Bottled water - it can cost 2000% more than tap!  If you have nasty tasting tap - buy a filter.  That filter will pay for itself in no time and you also won't have all that waste of plastic bottles!!!!  IF you buy water - read the labels - it isn't all just water for many brands
• Paper goods (disposable).  Try to use real plates, napkins, and cleaning rags
• Cigarettes!  I see that with current prices - if you smoke JUST one pack a day - that is over $3,000 a year
• Fancy cleaning items - so many items can be made with things you have on hand in your pantries and they work
• Subscriptions of magazines and papers - you can find many things on line and libraries carry a lot of things
• Pre-cut items - we mentioned this last week.  I have seen several vlogs in the last week mention this as well.  If you have physical limits - do what helps - otherwise cut it yourself
• Cheap shoes - buy quality.  It not only saves money, but it is so much better feet and body
• Kitchen gadgets you don't or won't use.  The next new thing is always appealing - but odds are you won't use it once the newness wears off
• Paying full price - I HATE to pay full price for anything.  Always look around and do your due diligence when making major purchases
• Unused memberships - gyms, Costco, Sams, Amazon, etc.  If you don't go or use is regularly - it really isn't worth paying for
• Skipping senior discounts!  (I am guilty) I never think to ask at most places - and they just don't GIVE it to you.  It can save substantial funds over time.
• Convenience store/gas station purchases.  Most often snack items are purchased and they cost more than taking your own.  Milk and grocery items are more expensive.  Generally, the only thing cheaper is a fountain drink (at times).  A bottle of pop will cost a lot more than the grocery store - even a bottle of water.

There are many more things - this is just many I see people do every day.   Now I am not saying stop ALL of them immediately.  If you do a lot of them, pick 2 or 3 and stop.  Then in another month or two pick a couple more.  Eventually you will notice that you have more money in your wallet and your bank account.

That money can be saved for an emergency fund, for a downpayment on a home, for paying off debt, etc.  Use those funds for whatever helps your situation. (just the coffee or cigarette ones would fund a nice emergency fund)!  Not to mention improve your health (cigs).

Take time and really think about how much certain habits cost you in the long run.  You may be VERY surprised.  Make good decisions with your money and your money will take care of you.

Have a wonderful and happy day!

SMILE - it is always appealing!

Cooking and a Gift

 Hello all - hope this finds you all well today.  It is a chilly morning here, in the 20's.  Yesterday was a blustery day with flurries all day, as was Sunday.  Nothing major at all - so can't complain - because we all know some places have a right to complain right now.  Goodness, blizzards and cold in places that don't usually see those things.  Sounds like even Florida is in the deep freeze.

Last evening from my front porch!  I just can't get enough of the sunrises and sunsets - God's art is beautiful.

The kitties are all fed - boy they were excited this morning.  Usually they get mainly dry food, but this morning they got a treat - canned food!  The past few days has been cold, so I was afraid it would freeze, but lets say it didn't have a chance.  A whole clan of kitties scarfing wet food!!!  It was so cute - of course they have their dry food to eat on all day.

Birds are out and singing - nothing coming from the sky - a good day.

I had a couple ask about the lentil taco filling I made.  I did not follow a REAL recipe - I just sort of winged it.  I was very skeptical - but it tasted like taco meat to me.  I used one cup of lentils and I had tacos one day, made burritos one day and stuck some back in the freezer - will throw in the next batch of chili.

1 C lentils

2 C water

I sauteed some onion in a pan (for flavor), threw in the lentils for a couple minutes after the onions were soft.  I then added the water - taco seasoning - beef bouillon.  That is it!!!!  Cook until done.

What I had left for freezer - I threw in a small amount of beans I had left over from another dinner.

I used just like taco filling in the tacos, added my toppings and yum.

I made burritos with this and some rice and cheese - grilled and tasted so good.  

I swear it tastes just like taco meat.

It sure is a money saver.  Ground beef is pretty pricey anymore.  Of course you can used ground anything for filling, but this is just so darn cheap.  It is healthy and tasty.  I will definitely be using this again for many things.

It takes me a while to try 'new' things - but I am often pleasantly surprised when I do.  I know many of you already use lentils for tacos.  I am sure there are many ways to fix them.  I did simple!

I got a candle warmer for Christmas, unlike any that I have had before.  I have had container that you place a jar candle in, then turn on.  The heat melts the candle and thus it smells good.  This one is a light of sorts.  I decided to try it this morning.  Goodness sakes, within minutes I could smell the candle.  So cool, and no dangerous flame.

I am sure many have these or have seen them - I am always late to the party!!!!  I really do like it.  My house smells so good this morning.  The orange band you see in the picture, is where it has melted already.  That was after about 15 minutes.

Nothing exciting this morning - just a bit of this and that.

Maybe it will give someone an idea or two. 

I am tired today - yesterday was a long busy day - so I will just hang out around here and piddle around.

I hope you all have a wonderful day and that you are SAFE and WARM if in the bad areas.

Blessings to all.

Weekly Wrap Up - 2/22

 Hello to all and happy Sunday.  I hope this finds you all well and safe.  I know there is some nasty weather taking place out east - with big winter storms.  I hope you are all prepared and cozy inside.

It has been quite the weather week here.

We had a free preview of spring this week - it was delightful.  Tons of robins back in the area.  The ice cream truck was out after school on 2 different days!

We even had thunderstorms and tornadoes this week.  Thankfully all that I know are well and safe.

Now we are back to our regularly scheduled winter weather.  Yesterday was windy and cold (but a little sun), today is breezy and it is snowing!  Just flurries - but heck, a few days ago it was 70*.  We are to have a couple cold days again, then back up some by mid-week.  I think the colder days are fewer and further in between for our area - soon spring will be upon us.

Another week of just a bit of this and that.

My frugal week:

• Changed out the door decor
• Got to air the house out and turn off heat for a few days
• Lunch out with high school chums on Tuesday - El Toro
• Walked a lot this week - love getting back into it on warmer days and talking w/neighbors
• I picked up tons of trash blowing around the neighborhood.
• Saved store bought glass jars and some baggies washed to reuse
• I tried a new recipe (to me) making taco 'meat' strictly from lentils.  It turned out really well - with toppings, I couldn't tell it wasn't meat. (sure is cheaper) (even have leftovers to use)
• Lots of general housekeeping
• A little sewing
• Had a family luncheon out on Saturday for my SIL 85th birthday.  Was at Chicago Pizza and brother paid for everything! (15 adults and a few littles).  It was fun to see everyone.
• Brought home 2 pieces of cake
• Refilling containers with things on hand
• NO shopping at all

My meals this past week:

Tuna patty, mac & cheese and side salad

Nachos - used l/o Mex. skillet (from freezer) on top

Out w/friends

Fish sandwich and salad

Tuna/rice/broccoli casserole & some fresh veggies

Lentil tacos (tasty)

Out w/family

SNACKS - mainly fruit and popcorn.  A little cheese

I got some baby time yesterday at the family gathering.  I got snuggles with Bella - she is growing so much.  She has a grip with those tiny hands - wouldn't let go.  Cooed and talked with me.  She laid back in my arms and against my chest and just stared up at me - such a feeling of pure joy & love!  The other littles had a good time playing and visiting with us all.

It was quiet around here this week - except for times at luncheons.  Enjoyed seeing folks.

Sis is slowly gaining her strength back.

How was your week?  There are several of you that need to check in - you haven't posted in a while.  I do notice when you don't check in.  

Did you all do anything fun this week or are you warming up any?  Any good deals?

I think of all of you and wonder about how you are all doing.  Many prayers for you all and wishing everyone well.  Hoping you all have a lovely week ahead.

Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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For God alone my soul waits in silence, for my hope is from him.  He only is my rock and my salvation, my fortress; I shall not be shaken.

Psalms 62:5-6

Dear Lord, we say thank You again this week for our many blessings, both small and large.  Help us each to grasp onto the light and to be happy with the tiniest moments.  Challenges and sickness abound, yet we know things happen in Your time, as hard as it is to try and understand that.  Give us patience and hope, as we know You hear even the quiet prayers, and the ones we somehow can't finish.  I pray for grace in following Your word and guidance and knowing Your hand is involved in all things.  

Again, we ask for healing for all our friends and family - whether it be physical, mental or spiritual.

AMEN

Save Your Money - Know the Sneaky Tricks

 Hello and good morning to all.  It is a warm morning, but gloomy looking.  A bit foggy this morning, but nothing like a few days ago.  Goodness, that day, you could barely see across the street.  We are supposed to get rain and storms late afternoon and early evening.  Then temps are to fall a bit.  We will get through these ups and downs - spring is just 30 days away!

The price of goods at the stores is high enough, but there are many tricks and strategies the stores use to get you to spend even more money!  YES, that is right - it is time to take back some control of your money.

These apply to MOST major grocers - not necessarily small ones.

When you walk in it is almost overwhelming.  Many big stores have fresh produce, bakery and floral all at the front.  It is pretty, healthy looking and it smells good!  Not a mistake on their part.  They are trying to set your brain into the mode of shopping.

Carts are BIG.  If you only want a couple items, get a little basket or skip the cart.  A couple things in a big cart - looks sad and lonely.  We tend to over buy with a bigger cart.

ALSO - that wobbly wheel?  It isn't that they just don't fix - it makes you move slower to control it.  (I just return it - so it doesn't work on me).

MUSIC - that is even part of it.  Slower calming 'elevator' music, has you walking slower and just dallying through the aisles.  That is the plan.  During busier times of the day - you will notice peppier music - to help the crowds move along faster.

Popular items are at eye level, and they tend to be the most expensive items.  Always look higher and lower for better prices and different brands.  You will notice a lot of the cereal aisle has the big brands a little lower - that is so it is eye level for kids!!! (yep, they are tricky)

We tend to think those endcap items are sale items.  Most of the time not - manufacturers pay extra for prime spots - you see it, think it is a sale - and buy.  Don't be fooled.

I have noticed at my regular store that they have increased the length of the aisles.  Used to be a walk through halfway down the aisle - not now.  You enter an aisle you have to walk the length of the store to get to the other end!  Makes you stay longer and look at more.

Milk, meat, cheese, eggs, butter are almost always at the back of the store!  So you have to pass a lot of stuff to make purchases there.  They want to temp you to buy more than you came for.

3.99 feels cheaper than 4.00 - so many places use the .99 principle.  You read left to right and you see the 3 and the 4.  Most always pick up the 3.99 item, even if really isn't what they want - it appears cheaper to the mind.

Many people never read the UNIT prices.  Just because something is bigger we tend to think better buy.  Not always so (same with smaller).  It is important to pay attention and do the math.  They keep that very small (in print) on the tags - the law says they have to list it - it doesn't say you have to be able to read it.  It truly does pay to take an extra minute and figure it out or use a calculator.

EX.  I can buy a gallon milk about every day for 2.29 - but they have sales of half gallons for 1.39!  People fall for it all the time.

Some stores actually pipe in smells - they want you to feel hungry while shopping.  If you are hungry you tend to spend more.  ALWAYS eat before shopping and try not to be enticed by the smells in the store.

CHECKOUT areas make more $$ per square foot than other areas in the store.  All those items that entice you - candy, chips, drinks, gum, magazines......  I know I have been guilty at times.

SHRINKFLATION - pay attention.  The package may look the same, and the price may be the same - but you get less in it.  This has been happening a lot for a few years.  You buy a bag of chips - it is half air.  There are less cookies in a package.  Cereal box looks the same, much less inside.  1/2 gallon of ice cream is no longer a 1/2 gallon!!!!!  It is all over the place.  Be aware.  READ!

CONVENIENCE items - sure they are nice and yes, we have all purchased them once in a while.  They do cost more.  Pre-cut items, pre-seasoned, even water.  At my local Kroger a small bowl of precut watermelon (all year) is minimum $5 - in the summer I can get a whole watermelon for less.

A head of broccoli is decently priced most of the time - getting less product in a bag pre-cut is almost twice as much.   A head of lettuce gives me more per dollar than a small bag of precut lettuce.  Pre-seasoned meat - do it yourself.  It is super easy.  Stew meat is super costly - a single cut of meat that can be used in several meals would be better.  Water - there is a lot of trash from bottles and wrapping and a filter at home - will give you good water from the faucet (you already pay for it).  A filter and a nice reusable water bottle or a, insulated glass pays for itself in a few weeks.

10 for 10 - items are a $1 regardless.  99% of the time you do NOT have to buy 10.  It just makes you think you get a better deal.  Just buy what you need - don't be fooled.

They see us coming, and they know we are often in a hurry - so they play games with our minds.  Don't fall for it!  Go with your list and get your needs and get out.  Don't dally along, unless you have money to burn!  This isn't just grocery stores - many other stores do the same thing.

A 'sale' isn't always a sale.  Some items always have a sticker on them that says sale.  It isn't!!!!!  When seeing those big signs offering mark-down prices - look under that sign!!!!  If is often the same exact price or even a lesser price - YES they can do that!

Keep your money as long as possible.  Don't be tricked.

Happy shopping.

Keeping you all in thought and prayer.

Home - My Place

 Good day and midweek to all.  Oh, what a morning!  It was 57* when I got up, and my thermometer says 60* already.  I know it is a false spring - but I will take it.  Today might hit 70*.  There was spotty rain around overnight, but it seems to have missed my area.  Thursday will not be so lucky. Then winter comes back for a bit this weekend.

The kitties were happy to see me this morning, and all are fed.  The birds are singing and I see more and more robins.  Love watching the chickens out 2 doors down.

I wore a sweatshirt to go out this morning - no coat needed.  Kitchen window is already open, and others will be soon.

It is a pretty darn good start to the day.

Yes, HOME!  My happy place.  I have to admit that I am a super homebody.  I had my days of partying and clubs many, many years ago.  It seemed fun at the time, but when I look back, I see many things about it that wasn't so good.  Live and learn.

Yesterday I got together with some old friends for lunch, and one gal came up to me and said "nobody is that happy staying home - you must have a man hidden there, and you aren't telling us!"  LOL

Now mind you she was laughing and joking - and I wholeheartedly told her NO man!  I GUARANTEE!

She has always been a goer - lots of road trips all over the state and country.  She loves being involved in things all the time.  I think it has increased since she lost her hubby last year.  Most of us sitting there together were widows or others have chosen to be single for decades.  Most keep pretty active.

I guess I am different.  I just love the calm and quiet of home and the serenity it gives me.  I am not a hermit - I visit with neighbors and family.  I do enjoy my outings; they are just few.  I talk to people, but my safe place is just here with my kitties.  I guess maybe I am THAT 'cat lady'!

It is just too peopley out some days for me!

IF you are the same - don't be ashamed.  It is wonderful to live your life as you choose.  This wasn't the life I thought I would be living several years ago - but it is what I have, and I am making it MINE.  I am not depressed - just content.

Your life changes, just like the seasons of the year.  We have seasons in life.  Some are always in the fast pace season of spring and summer - going, growing, thriving.  Others (like me) tend to live like fall/winter - slower, more deliberate and peaceful and calm.

How ever you choose - is ok.

So, if all you want to do is tend the garden, sit of the porch, talk to the neighbors, take community walks, or just keep your privacy - it is ok.

If you want to be involved in community, always taking trips, do all the kiddos activities, and go, go, go - that is ok too.  Do your life as you want.

We all thrive in different ways.

Just be a good person, a kind person and a loving person.

PEACE to all.

Living Like Grandma - Fun & Thrifty

 Hello all - hoping this finds you all well.  It is a lovely morning here - around 44* and sunny.  Yesterday was lovely as well.  Took a walk around the yard and noticed baby grape hyacinths and daffodils poking through the ground.  Under leaves and then after all the snow - there are little signs of life.  Enjoying it all while I can - this weekend gets colder again.  Sigh!

Today let's talk a bit about how grandma lived and how they survived and made do with what they had. I know some of you are young, and your grandparents are probably not even my age - but others of us remember stories from our grands and our parents about living through the depression and those hard times surrounding it.

This picture is true for a lot back then.  Not everyone lived in the city and those who were more rural, pretty much provided most everything they had.  They grew, hunted, fished, gleaned, gathered, recycled and bartered.  They used all they had and they used it up!  They had no other choice.  They worked soooo hard.

Now we can do many of those things, by choice and don't have to work hard to do it.  It just takes a little dedication on your part.  It can be fun and it sure is thrifty.

MEAT was a side dish.  Maybe granny cooked a big chicken on Sunday - then later they had soup, sandwiches, flavoring, broth, meat pies, etc.  After cooking those bones down for broth, many times they were crushed and used in the gardens or fed to chickens.

BONES - were always used for broth and stock.  It is easy to do today and makes the most flavorful stock you can have (also use up the scraps of veggies making it).

BACON grease was gold.  Lard was pretty much the only other grease available back then - and bacon grease had so much flavor to add to all cooked items.  Many of us still do this!

INVENTORY meals - were normal.  Shopping didn't happen often (espec. rural) and many were limited by funds and stamps and places to go.  They figured out how to make meals with what they had on hand.  They knew how to stretch that food.  Meals were kept basic and simple.

I know growing up we had a lot of oatmeal and grits (wasn't a fan) and eggs at breakfast.  Those were basics and filled the belly.  I more enjoyed the biscuits and jelly and toast and jelly.

BAKED at home - cookies cakes, bread, biscuits, etc.

HUNG their laundry - way back there were no driers to be seen.  Line drying was the norm.  I know many places today won't let that happen, but there are ways around it.  Hanging racks in the garage, uses your back patio, the basement, hanging some things over the tub, etc.  

This is one of my favorite fun photos I have ever taken!  Just driving down a country road and saw this line of undies.  I took, not because of size, but the colors and confidence this person must have had with themselves.  Not sure I would have been so confident.  Actually, mine used to get hidden in the middle rows, so not to be seen!  LOL

Nothing smells as great as sheets off the line and a freshly made bed.

They used cold water for most laundry or heated water over a fire for really bad things (a lot of work).  I use cold water for 99% of my laundry today.  They get clean and last longer.  Hot water breaks down fiber.

VINEGAR was the item used for cleaning most everything.  Windows, floors, walls, hair, baths, even laundry.  It is cheap and can be used in so many ways.  Also helped to pickle garden goods.

USED things UP.  Clothes were given as hand me downs, often remade into new items, rags (no paper towels back then), quilts, etc.  Leftovers made in new ways.  Bread - bread pudding, French toast, breadcrumbs.  PCIKLE BRINE used to make other veggies last longer, used for brine in seasoning and tenderizing meat.  SCRAPS - BONES - made broth/stock.  Kept every screw, nail, button, zipper that they could and reused.   You get the idea.

Now you can shop thrift stores and garage sales.  Beware many thrift stores are charging more and more today - if possible try yard sales and family and friend trades.

Nothing was WASTED.  One item had MANY uses.

GROW your own.  Everyone had a garden of some sort back in the day.  Look at growing a small garden, growing in pots on the patio or the porch.  Regrow various items, green onions, lettuce, celery etc.  Herbs are easy to grow and make great flavorings and products for health.

Good QUALITY was important.  Things that were well built were always a plus (usually handmade).  They didn't have funds to replace at a whim - so quality was very important.  It should be today as well - a good value is nice, but quality is better.

My paternal great grandparents and 2 of their children.  Grandpa wasn't born yet at this point. They were a rural family and had very little material goods, but they had love.  See that chair?  I have it!!!!!  It is a bit shorter, as the bottom of the legs had to be trimmed do to wear and tear.

Life looked so different back then.

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Today - track your spending!  Take at least a month and keep track of EVERY single penny you spend and what it was for.  It can eye opening - how much is spent of frivolous items.  Wants NOT needs!  We did this for ages back in the day - and it really made us look at things differently.  It altered how we shopped and the silly things that ate our money.

NO impulse shopping.  Take a good 72 hours to think on major purchases.  Impulse shopping is a great grabber of funds.  Now, I do often buy things at the grocery that weren't on the list, but only because it is clearance, and likely won't be available again for that price.

SMALLER homes - creates less stress.  Less to clean, less to heat and cool, less stuff fits in it!  Usually costs less.  I find my home is easy to take care (even maintenance) with it being smaller.  That gives you more time for LIVING a peaceful life and enjoying those quiet moments.

DON'T try to keep up with others.  The grass may look greener - but odds are they spend more dollars to maintain that look!

Do you - and be ever so proud of what you have.  Maintain it and love it.

Ok, enough chatting for today.  Just remember you can do much of what grandma did and save some funds in the meantime.  It can be fun and a great challenge.  No one thing makes a huge difference in funds, but if you add them all up over a year - you can save a generous amount.

Make it a game and give things a try for a while - t may become a habit.

Have a beautiful day my friends.