Wednesday, June 3, 2026

Gardening - What is Your Style?

 Howdy-ho my friends.  Hoping you and your families are good.
It is a sunny, cooler, beautiful morning here.  Going to be a dry day again, so a good day to be outside.  I have been out and fed everyone and have the windows open, and just enjoying the quiet of the morning.

Boy is this true!  Just walk and look.  Keep those eyes open.  There are critters, buggers, and things growing.  It is all part of a circle that takes care of something else.  Pretty darn miraculous.  I just love walking and listening and looking.

Today I want to ask - what is your gardening style? 
For me, the food garden and the flower gardens are very different.  I keep the veggie garden nice and neat and spaced and weed free.  It has order.
My flower gardens are what I guess some now call CHAOS gardening!  I just call it natural.  I let the flowers grow and thrive where they chose!  Yep!
Everything in the ground is perennial and just decides where it wants to be.  I do not believe I have ever dug a plant and thrown it out.  I have shared - yes.

Now do I have the variety that others have? - not always.  I do have variety and color, but it just happens naturally, no real order.
I will show examples.
Years ago, this was the front garden on the right side of the walk going up to the porch.  Orderly and neat, lots of bark - clean.  It has changed many times over the years - with flowers hanging from the heart, and stumps gone and use of tables, chairs, etc.
NOW!  The area to the left was actually where the wheelchair ramp was for many, many years.  It covered the entire way from my drive (where I am standing taking pic) to the other end of the porch.  Now you see all those flowers?  I didn't plant a one of them.  The lamb's ear started years ago on the other side and now there is none on the right.  There is lots of lemon balm - also used to be on the right, and now very little there.  Spider wart and echinacea is on both sides - used to be just on right.  Things have grown under the walk, and things have been replanted by birds.  Some would not like it - but I LOVE it!  It is just natural and that is what I want.  I get a lot of compliments.

Years ago, when the backyard bed was first made and planted.  Lots of individual plants - annuals and perennials.  Even had room for odds and ends.
It has changed drastically now.  Lots of poppies and lilies and there is N.E. aster, coreopsis, phlox and echinacea.  But it all grows where it wants and has filled the entire bed, in some places you almost do not see the border.  The only weeding that truly gets done there, is pulling out poison ivy, which grows prolifically around here.  I can't really use any weed killer without harming plants.
A version of now.  It does its thing!!  I always have color from something, and the hardiest have survived.
The only annuals I have now, are in pots and baskets here and there.  It does save money.  I used to buy a ton of plants - boy, even back in the day it was expensive.

Like I said, my veggie garden is different.  It has order.  I have leaf mulch in the garden and I have a weed fabric down in my rows.  But in between rows is just leaf mulch. 
I saw a meme the other day that was appropriate for veggie gardens.
Even if the rows are crooked - you get veggies.  Even if you have some weeds - you get veggies.  Don't be super OCD about it.  

I guess my style has changed a lot over the years.  From orderly and neat - to natural and survival of the fittest!  Survival for me as well - I guess I like it so much, as I get older, because I sure do dislike weeding.
I have always admired natural flower gardens and wildflowers and just the way God has let it grow.
I mean there is no real order in the woods and it is beautiful - so why not my flowers.
Now I am crazy about mowing and trimming - I do not like weeds in the fence rows and long grass - but love the variety of flowers.

What do you do, if you have flowers?  Do you just let your garden grow or are you an orderly person?
Kind of curious to hear other viewpoints.

Have a lovely day and take some time to enjoy all nature has to offer.
 





16 comments:

  1. My style is more order than chaos in both veg & flower beds. There's a flower bed running the length of the house in front of a retaining wall that contains annuals, flowers & tomatoes. A curved perennial bed is in the NE corner of the yard - a rose bush, day & tiger lilies, potentilla, peonies, veronica, bergenia, lavender. I find it easier to maintain the annual bed with cultivation, planting, weeding. Veg is often planted in the perennial bed with its full sun exposure - corn, kale, squash, cucumber over the years. Apparently this cottage gardening. Gophers & deer can be a problem.

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    1. Order is good. It sounds lovely and I love that you can have it all there together. I like that.
      Critters can be a problem - glad I don't have either of those. Groundhog once in a while - haven't seen in a bit now. Racoons once in a while (mine moved on).
      It is amazing that deer come right up to the house.

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  2. I don’t garden but your photos are lovely. -Rosa R.

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    1. Thank you. Hope you get to enjoy other gardens around your area.

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  3. So happy your gardens are☺️ It’s amazing how your various plants have decided to move from one location to another😀
    I love how birds propagate and plant…we have so many brambleberry bushes and honeysuckle growing along fence lines where birds pause for a song break.
    We’ve had lots of rain here in NE OK lately. 9” last week! Things are so lush and green. We planted lots of hollyhocks seeds last year and got a crop, but they didn’t come back this year?😢
    The iris have gone wild, though. And DH started a rosebud for us that’s happy. A friend told us that swallowtail butterflies love parsley, dill and fennel, so I planted some in that garden along with his roses.
    We also planted a milkweed plant to try to feed the Monarchs. Milkweed grows wild by Nature in the pastures around us.
    My husband is the grass and garden guy and he doesn’t do chaos…he likes order. I’m more the English garden-type…So, there you have it.
    Be blessed~
    Mary in OK

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    1. That’s rosebed not bud.

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    2. It is amazing how nature just tends to take of itself - seeding and rooting where it falls! That is a lot of rain - glad you aren't flooded. I am not sure, but I have heard some hollyhocks are bi-annual (skip a year). Don't know.
      How neat on planting things for butterflies. I have a friend that 'raises' Monarchs. They have their milkweed, then the incubate and release when ready. Last year she and her husband released over 300 in their area. That is just too cool.
      I don't like chaos in my grass or veg garden either - I can see that.
      I hope you get lots of beautiful butterflies!

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  4. Oh my, what a question! I could write a book... My flower garden parts are more like yours, Cheryl, they grow where the good Lord and the birds planted them. Sometimes they try to move into the grass area and I dig them out and plant them elsewhere. Annuals are in pots so I can keep them watered. Vegs are in pots for the same reason. Deer, squirrels, slugs, rabbits, and bears are an issue. I have weeds that are actually native wildflowers and I let them grow and bloom. Others are non-native but they are not invasive.

    Rose campion, daylilies, iris, daffodils, grape hyacinths, Golden Alexanders, foxgloves, red trumpet honeysuckle vines, Autumn Joy sedum, beardtongue, hostas (plain and variegated), hellebore, azalea, lily of the valley, rhododendron... They bloom, fade, come again next year. I'm always adding bits of this and that to other areas, cutting down on the lawn dear son has to mow.

    The area nearest my house is the worst, it's all rocky and hard to work with. No mowing inside that fence at all.

    When I moved here it was all a giant weed patch except for a few huge azaleas and giant clumps of Siberian iris. I've worked 40 years on it and it doesn't look like much. But in my heart, in my memory, I can see the difference and to me there is beauty!

    MaryB

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    1. I do the pots for easy watering too. Sorry you have so many things wanting to take your goodies!
      It is amazing all the things I forgot about. I do have a Hosta area, sedum, daffodils and tulips and grape hyacinths and iris.
      I love there are things for different seasons.
      Yours all sounds amazing. I had honeysuckle for years - and for some reason it all died out.
      Sounds like you have done a wonderful job. You have been in your place as long as I have been here. Guess that says we aren't 'nomads'!!!

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  5. Your "natural" gardens are lovely! More of an English garden look, which is very peaceful. Where do you buy your garden flags? I bought one at Dollar Tree but it's pretty flimsy. Veg are a different story, they need a fair amount of discipline in the way they are planted. The Farmer has started lots of plants in pots and grow pots. The potatoes especially, since they can just be dumped out, not dug with a sliver left to come up again. We will cut one of the cauliflowers today to steam for lunch. Lots of beautiful leaf lettuce which will be yummy wilted.

    Gorgeous day! Think I will pull out the chipper/shredder and work on the bags of sticks Erin brought me. Free mulch!

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    1. English garden - yes, lovely. I generally get my flags at Ollies. They usually run around 3.99 to 4.99 and have them every season. They seem to hold up well. I use them from year to year - tho' I have MANY!!!!
      I think veggies need the disciplined areas too. You have been getting so many things already. You must have the touch. I have been thinking about wilted lettuce, need to do that this week.
      It is perfect out - don't over work!

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  6. Mostly I have plants that my mom planted many years ago. Flowers are for the most part flowering bushes, shrubs and trees including hibiscus, yellow allamanda, ixora, bougainvillea (huge), plumbago (blue flowers), Florida gardenia and two crepe myrtle trees (bought by me, $3 each at a sale in my company parking lot). I also have kalanchoe and vinca pretty much grows wild. Various tropical plants such as crotons and others with rust/copper leaves also add some color. Barbara M.

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    1. Oh goodness, you have such a variety that wouldn't do good here. I bet it is just beautiful. I love bougainvillea! I ended up with vinca vine by accident - but it is loyal!
      I bet you have color like an artist would paint. Well, I guess you have the best artist - God.
      I love that you can enjoy all the wonders that your mom planted.

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    2. The bougainvillea is beautiful but the thorns are treacherous.

      On the way to my doctor appt. earlier, there was a very noticeable sign on a pole at the end of the primary street in my subdivision. In big print it said $2,000 reward and there were two photos of a cat (looked like a Maine coon). I took a picture with my phone zoomed in. It said No Questions Asked. Next line said “We Just Want Her Home.” It was heartbreaking. I couldn’t read the other info on the sign which I assume said where she was lost.

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  7. English country garden style here - lots of perennials and lots of things that seed themselves around and pop up wherever they want to. I have become more relaxed over the years and now even allow wild plants to fill up the gap along the bottom of the hedge at the edge of the garden. Many of them have beautiful flowers and are tough as old boots. The wildlife loves them too. I allow some in the borders but weed them out if they become too thuggish.

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    1. It is confirming to me, that others let things take their place where they want to grow, as well. I just love that look.
      It seems so quaint and old fashioned.
      Some things can sure take over if given the chance.

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