Monday, July 6, 2026

In Memory of my Sis

 Thank you all so much for your kind words, thoughts and prayers.  My sis passed yesterday afternoon at around 4:30PM.  It was quiet and peaceful.  From what I understand she never awoke after I was there.  So, I am even more grateful for the eyes opening and her saying "my sissy".

She is at peace now and is healthy and with all our loved ones gone before and the Lord.
We talked with my nephew about 5PM and he said, I sure would love to see what she is seeing now!

This is her (center) and 'part' of her brood!!!  Not everyone made it to this gathering.  She had 6 children, and truly I have lost count of how many grands, greats and great-greats!
Me, Marcella and Linda - both sisters are gone now.  This was back in the 70's if you couldn't tell by my do!!!!  I have 2 sisters in heaven and 2 brothers (one I never knew), and now it is just me and my brother, Richard.

So many fun memories and fun times.  In the past few years, she and I have gotten closer.  She always lived far away when I was younger.  She told me she could tell me things and discuss 'private' stuff that she just couldn't or wouldn't talk to her daughters about!!  I will miss that for sure.

Love you MARCELLA, see you again someday.
4/5/31 - 7/5/26
Made it to 95 years young!

48 comments:

  1. Oh, Cheryl I am so sorry for your loss. I just cannot imagine losing either of my sisters. You were such a strength to me after Joel's death, and I owe you so much. I just hate to think of you grieving. Bless you

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    1. You are too kind. Every time we lose someone, it seems like it is the worst. Parents, siblings, spouse, children (I can't even imagine that). Yet the Lord gets us through - I would be so lost without faith. He holds me up!
      Thank you so much.

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  2. Sorry for your loss and I will be sending healing sparkles to you so that your heart hurts a bit less. Hilogene in Az.

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    1. Thank you so much, I think I can feel them!!!!

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  3. So very sorry for your loss.

    God bless.

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  4. What your nephew said is the best thing. Imagine what she is doing right now. Thinking about what a loved one is experiencing in heaven has always given me comfort and something good to focus on. I will pray for you and all who knew her. Hugs to you. Linda T

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    1. Thank you so much. We can only imagine, and our imaginations are not remotely great enough. It has to be awesome.

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  5. I'm so sorry, Cheryl.

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  6. Sending you lots of good wishes to get you through the next little while. Gods love will watch over you and knowing that your sister has been reunited with your parents and your brother in heaven will keep you strong. Your faith is a blessing at this sad time. Take care, Louise and Linda.

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    1. Thank you. Faith is all we have - it sure has held me up through much in life.

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  7. My condolences to you and your family for your loss. Losing a sibling is losing a bit of your history. You are in my prayers.Lynn, Pecos, NM

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    1. Thank you. It sure is a piece of our history - she had such a good and long life - been a part of every one of us from the day we were born!

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  8. Your family must spread a wide year distribution like mine, 20 years between oldest and youngest. Siblings sure hold special places in our hearts. Our older siblings always knew us. My sympathies to you and your family.

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    1. Yes, she could have been my mom! She had 3 children before I was born. Of course I was the oops (menopause baby)!! There was a 24 year difference between us. Each of the rest of us have had her every day of lives!
      Thank you so much.

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  9. I love the photo's you posted. That is a sweet tribute to her and a wonderful long life. 'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. It is never easy but at least you know she is no longer suffering and is with our Lord and her family. BIG hugs!!

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    1. Thank you. I love the one of us 3 girls together - I think it is probably one very few of us together like that. I remember it was a fun day at moms.
      She had a fantastic life, lots of family and was just a sweetheart.

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  10. Oh Cheryl, my sincere condolences. She is at peace now! Not Bossy- Kay

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  11. I'm so sorry for your loss. - Hawaii Planner

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  12. I know peace will find a home in your heart very soon, if it hasn't already. She was blessed to have you so close and caring ~ Melinda

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    1. I am sad, but I do feel the peace. She is in a much better place - that is wonderful. Thank you.

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  13. Cheryl, I’m sorry for your loss and to all your sister’s family. The Lord is nigh to the broken hearted. Praise God she is forever healed now. Take care of yourself.
    Jeanette

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    1. Thank you. Yes mam, healed and with the Lord. I have no doubt about that. She was ready.
      Thank you, I will

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  14. I am sorry for your loss. Prayers.

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  15. I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort for you and your family. Wanita

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  16. What special memories of your sister and family. You are blessed. Praying for you and your extended family. . .

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  17. I’m sitting in the airport to fly home and when I read this tears came to my eyes even though I don’t know your family. Your sister is at peace now. I know you will miss her. My condolences. Barbara M.

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    1. Yes, she is at peace and healthy again. Thank you so much.
      Safe travels home

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  18. So sorry for your loss. It’s never easy to lose a loved one. My dear sister passed away suddenly in 2017 and not a day goes by that she is not in my thoughts. Hugs, Janie

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    1. Sisters have a special place in our hearts - our special friends!
      Thank you so much.

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  19. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear sister, Cheryl. I know you will cherish those last moments and all the special memories you have with her. God bless you and your family. Darcy

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    1. Thank you so much. Yes memories are such a gift we have been given. We can laugh and remember and talk about all our times together forever.

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  20. I am so sorry. At least she is out of pain and can be with other loved ones! Prayers for healing and comfort for all of you.

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    1. Thank you very much. Knowing where she is now, gives much comfort.

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  21. It was so good that you got to see her one more time and she recognized you. What a precious memory. Love all the family pictures! She will live on in your heart.

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    1. That gives me such comfort. She will always be with us.
      Thanks

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  22. I'm so sorry for the loss of your sister. I'm glad you could see her before she went to her reward.

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    1. Thank you so much. We all need to make more time for family!

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  23. Sending you our love. Mel and Laurie

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    1. Thank you Laurie - I know you are. Love you guys!

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