Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Staying on Track in a Weird World

 Good morning to you all wherever you may be in this big old world.  I hope this finds you all well.
I want to say WELCOME to all those who are new here.  We have been having some new folks post and find our little coffee klatch here.  Glad to have you and look forward to learning from you.

It is a lovely morning but looks to get pretty breezy and the temps aren't going up a lot today.  It is currently 60*F.  These cooler days are the days to get things outside done.
Yesterday was beautiful, but I almost over did it.  While working on plowing the garden, I got to feeling icky and had to stop and sit down for a while.  The garden is in full sun and of course I picked the wrong time of day to be out there.  All good now.  Pacing myself - got to remember that!!!!

Today is just a bit of thought about getting through this weird old world we are living in.  It is NOT political in any way, and I appreciate that you NOT make political statements as well.   It is strictly about using common sense and doing what we can to tend to ourselves and our families. I have been seeing and reading a lot about people who have no idea how to survive, nor do they have a plan or think ahead.  Our ancestors went through times that were truly tough and here we are.  It wasn't always easy, but they made it.

Groceries are up in price, shoot, most things are up.  Skills seem to have disappeared.  Many think that being sufficient is 'old fashioned'.   It isn't.  It is FREEDOM!  No matter where you live.

We need to garden and prep foods.  We need to repair and reuse in all ways and things that we can.  We need to learn to cook from scratch and use ingredients.  We need to have a lot of simple foods and ingredients on hand. We need to live closer to the land.  We need to teach younger folks our skills.  We need to learn new skills.  We need to know how to adapt!

Saying this, I can say I have NO fear about things.  I am confident and feel I can survive.  I know I can take care of myself, and I can help take care of family, friends and neighbors.  I can adapt to most everything.  Fear helps nothing.  Spreading fear is soooooo wrong, and it does nothing to help anyone.  It serves no purpose.  Now that being said, it is just plain smart to be prepared for any type of situation - as prepared as can be.  We do not know the future - but we can prepare.

I am resilient - you are resilient!  Be the best you can be and the most prepared you can be to help yourself, your family and your community, and your independence!
Slow down in life.  Reconnect with people (not electronics) and do what you can to help yourself.
Turn off the TV more and get outside and enjoy the beauty of the world.  Make life with real people a priority.  Spread joy and laughter.

BELIEVE - never stop believing.  We do so many things that shows we truly do believe in the future every day and just don't think about it.
We plan dinners and outings and occasions.
We take an umbrella when rain is forecast.
We plant a garden and flowers and trees.
We save for the children's education fund.
We keep an emergency fund.
We maintain our vehicles and homes so they will last for a long time.
We buy sales and prep to have goods for another day.
We plan leftovers.
I could go on and on............................

So, get out and plants some GOOD seeds in this world.  You can be the positive that influences someone else.  
ENJOY YOUR LIFE


Tuesday, May 12, 2026

Using What You Have on Gardening

 Good morning to everyone wherever you may be.  It is a chilly morning here, but the sun is out and it looks to be a beautiful day.  Yesterday was near perfect.  I hope everyone is doing good and staying safe.

Some folks think gardening is an expensive hobby.  It doesn't have to be.  Not at all.  You can use a lot of things you have around the house - many of things you would trash, and they will benefit you greatly.  Now that garden season is just starting for a lot of us, these ideas may help someone.
Funny, but somehow it seems true!!!  
Seems critters decide they want a free garden too.  I often have times that squirrels want to plant their peanuts in my garden and dig up a few plants.  Then there are the ground hogs that show up!  UGH.  I did see a jack rabbit the other morning before dawn, running amuck out front.  
In years past I have dealt with groundhogs.  I have tried urine (yes), ammonia, special expensive stuff (did nothing), mothballs, trapping, you name it.  Well, Chuck decided it wasn't too concerned about the cats (even after Persy gave it a talking to).  So, I tried something else I heard of - red pepper flakes.  You sprinkle them around the places they go in and out and they go away.  Well, bingo-bango, so far it seems to have worked!  Once I did that, I haven't seen it again.  We will see.  I had a big jar of the flakes, but they can be purchased at the dollar stores for next to nothing.
Now, THIS year I am going to sprinkle some around the garden plants too - maybe that will keep the squirrels out of the garden.  Worth a try!

You can use grated hand soap as well.  I have always heard using Irish Spring, but animals don't like the taste of any of it.  So try and sprinkle any grated soap around. Need to reapply after rain.

Another idea is placing plastic forks, tines up, around your plants.  It helps deter digging and damage to plants.  You want to place them pretty close together.

A penny for your thoughts!  How about your plants??  Throw a penny in a vase to help prolong the blooms.  Also said to be great for the garden.  The copper is said to work against fungi and plant disease.  In a small garden, place them near tomato roots to help battle blight.  The copper emits goodness into the soil.

Marigolds are a great way to help in the garden to guard against pests and they are pretty too.  I always have a few planted in the garden.
CITRUS peels deter ants and slugs away from plants.  Just place around the garden and around plants.  Citrus also helps prevent ants in the house.  (make your own spray or get citrus oil and spray around)

Keep seeds from one year to the next.  Now you can keep any seed but may not get the exact same plant from them because of cross breeding.  But if you have an heirloom plant - keep the seeds for next year and an heirloom will give you the SAME plant every time.
Many items can be regrown from what could be considered trash.

You can use cardboard or newspaper to keep weeds down in your garden (even old feed bags).  Makes a great weed barrier.  I can get free local papers at the grocery; your area may have the same thing.  You can buy weed barrier (black cloth or plastic) and it works great and helps keep the soil warm.  But FREE is great!

To keep dirt from falling through the bottom of a pot, either for indoor or outdoor plants - place a coffee filter in the bottom of the pot.  You can use a paper towel too.  Works great and practically free.  I have also placed layers of rock in the bottom and even used crushed pop cans in the past.  Use what you have.

Feed your plants in an inexpensive way.  Coffee grounds and tea are good for plants.  Add nutrients.  Make a 'tea' with banana peels.  Drop them in a big jar and fill with water.  Let it steep a week or so, then pour the water around plants.  Just keep adding peels and water.  You can also chop and bury the peels.  Potassium for plants!  Egg shells are great - they add calcium - and help deter slugs, as it cuts them.  Do you have a fish tank?  When you change out the water - use the old water on your plants - loaded with fertilizer.
Compost is great - you can make your own compost pile or make a small one, using an old tote, scraps, water, a little dirt and sunshine - Food rots and make goodies the garden will love.
I always throw 3 or 4 Tums in the hole when I plant tomatoes.  Calcium is added and it seems to help my plants not had blossom end rot.  I have done this for years.
You can make your own Miracle-Gro with no chemicals in it.

No need to buy expensive decorations or pots each year for the yard and garden.  Look around and find things around the home to use.  Pots can be used over and over - clean well each spring, add new dirt and grow away!!!  Buckets, totes, bags, pots, just about anything can be used to plant in.  You don't have to have a big inground garden.
All kinds of things can be used to decorate with.  I am a lover of a relaxed looking garden, nothing formal here, so I use all kinds of things.  I had an old work boot filled with flowers on the front step for years.  It was a boot of a dear friend (and my garden buddy) who passed.
You can make bird feeders and houses out of things. 
I have a clay saucer with glass 'rocks' I keep water in, as a bee waterer. Yes, they need water too.
An old ice cream parlor chair with no seat - makes a great pot holder.  Paint it any color you have available.  See that red arch?  That is an old bed headboard Glen found in the trash years and years ago - I mean it is a flowerbed!  The gazing globe is sitting on a flowerpot.  It now sits on top of a hens & chicken pot.  Don't need a fancy stand.  Old wagons, feed troughs, wash tubs, milk cans, ANYTHING can be turned into a decoration.
I have found many items at curbside 'shopping' on trash day!

All it takes is a little imagination and a little reuse of things to make a productive garden.  Things are expensive, and anything you can grow to eat is a HUGE PLUS to your budget.
I currently have my lettuce and green onions in pots on a baker's rack outside my kitchen door - that is handy to just go out and pick for fresh salads.
You don't need anything big, just some pots with a few plants.  Plants amongst the flowers and the bushes if need be.  I say grass is wasted real estate.  I know we all have our lawns but think if we planted it with food!!!!!  We could feed so many.
Do something to help with your food budget this year if possible. Even growing herbs in a pot helps - it gives your great flavoring.

What are some of your ideas for reuse or getting creative with things for the garden?
Love learning new ideas!

Have a beautiful day and count your blessings!

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Weekly Wrap Up 5/10

 Hello and HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all the mommas out there.  Whether your children are human or fur - yours or someone else's that you love -have a happy day!!

It is a lovely morning, the sun is shining and it is in the mid 50's.  I went out to a neighborhood cat at the side door, kitties meowing out back (hungry) and birds yelling at me as soon as I hit the back walk.  Boy, do I have animals that are trained!
We had a lot of rain this past week - lots.  I think there is only one day predicted of rain this coming week, and the temps will finally get to May temps by the end of the week.

The roses and the clematis are covered in blooms.  Actually, had one clematis flower open yesterday.  My little flying jewels are back. The spiderwort and vinca are blooming.  The peonies and poppies are going full force.  Aahhhhh, I love it.


This week of frugal:
  • Cleaned and refilled the hummingbird feeders and watering holes
  • Have 2 full barrels of rainwater (110 gal.)
  • Neighbor brought me some zucchini plants
  • Changed out the flags and door decor
  • I weed whacked the entire yard
  • Picked many bouquets of peonies for the house - the house smells delish!
  • Cleaned inside windows (kitty kisses) and mirrors
  • Lunch with 2 old friends.  Best part was the wonderful conversation and the great tasting margarita!
  • Put the tiller together
  • Took neighbor a bouquet of peonies
  • Walks when not raining
  • I planted lettuce I had started earlier and some green onions
  • Got FREE hamburger buns and 3 FREE recent Woman's World magazines at thrift store - bought a $2 box of Cheerios for future crispy bars
  • Drinking sparkling fruity water (Soda Stream)
  • Just doing all the normal stuff
Meals this past week:
Beef filet (freezer), potato wedges and fresh veggies
Ground beef/onion/mushrooms/gravy over rice
Beef/rice/bean nachos
Out - cheddar/bacon potato skins
Bean/rice/beef & cheese grilled wrap/burrito
Beef hotdog, potato cakes (freezer) and fruit
Swiss burger, corn on cob (freezer) and salad

I am looking forward to warmer temps and getting that garden tilled and planted!!
Fireworks have already started around here by individuals doing their yearly illegal ones!  Ugh!  They are so loud - and sure do give you a jump.  I feel for all the animals.

My nieces MIL received her blanket Friday for her 82nd birthday and they said she loved it.
Her and a few of her children and a couple grands - her in chair and my niece with hand on her shoulder. She has suffered so many medical maladies in recent years, I sure hope she gets some joy from this.

How was your week?  Do you have your garden or pots planted yet?  Planning garden?  I sure hope everyone grows something - it all helps.  Did you get any deals this week?
I hope you all have a wonderful week ahead and have health and safety.  Enjoy your Mother's Day.
Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
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Be watchful, stand firm in your faith, be courageous, be strong.  Let all you do be done in love.
1 Corinthians 16:13-14

Dear Lord we humbly come to You in thanks for all the love and wonders that we received this week.  Thank You for loving us unconditionally.  May we all go forward and show love to all we meet, and may we forgive all transgressions from others with an open heart.  Help us each one grow in faith and courage and love.  AMEN

Thursday, May 7, 2026

New Day & Glow

 Hello all.  Hope you are all well and good.
Dang it, it is another chilly morning here.  Doesn't look that will end for at least a week.  So now we have April weather a little late!  I am so ready to plant without worrying about frost.
The bed felt awfully good this morning, I did not want to get up.  The house was very chilly and the bed was warm and comfy!
I was greeted outdoors this morning by 4 black balls of fir and a bluejay and a red bellied woodpecker both yelling at me.  The robins were singing and all the other birdies were here within a minute of putting out food!  Sitting here with my Bitsy cuddled up, the sun is out, so all is good.
This kind of says it all.  Every day we need to be our best selves and project all the goodness into the world that we can.

Yesterday late afternoon I met a couple old friends for a late lunch.  It was the sister and the daughter of one of the people that had a funeral last week.  All of us, including the one who passed, were camping buddies back in the day.  We sure had some good times back then.  Sitting there eating, I realized that the 3 of us, were the only ones left (other than kiddos) from that camping bunch (10 adults).  All 3 widows.
We had great times, lots of laughs, crazy moments, and a bond back then.  Boy if campfires could talk!!!
It was kind of a sad moment, to realize that.  Time flies so quickly.  We all come into new chapters of our stories and move forward in a new way.  Not that we want to - but life just makes it so.
So, we all need to make all the memories we can - to keep the good things going in our hearts and minds.

I received a funeral card at the service and thought I would share the phrase on it.  It gave no credits, so I have no idea who wrote it.

AFTERGLOW
I'd like the memory of me
To be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles
When life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering
Softly down the ways.
Oh happy times and laughing times
And bright sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those that grieve,
To dry before the sun
Of happy memories that I leave
When life is done.

YEP - that pretty much says it.  Do what you can today to make the memories of tomorrow good ones.  Someday, all we have is memories of someone.  Speak their names - that keeps them alive.  Smile at the memories, they stay in your heart.
Whether it is a stranger or friends or family - be kind to others.
We have NO idea, what a simple little gesture like a smile, a hello, a helping hand can do to change a day for someone.
Be the afterglow!!!!!!

Farm markets are starting in many places (here last weekend) - so maybe get out an take a walk through one - they are usually happy places.  Take a walk, do some yardwork, just sit in the sun - have a lovely weekend.
Enjoy and be blessed.

Wednesday, May 6, 2026

Our Food - Our Preferences

 Hello all.  Here we are in the middle of another week.  Our days sure do pass quickly.  I hope you are all doing good.
It is another chilly morning here, in the upper 40's.  This week will be cooler than what normal should be for this time of the year.  We had rain yesterday and last night AND MORE RAIN!!!!  Once it started, it just wouldn't stop.  Just a small lake in the backyard this morning, I thought it would be larger.
Goodness, the choir outside is amazing this morning.  It was almost loud out there, with all the different birds singing.  So many could be distinguished, others just brought up the chorus.  Amazing.

This sure seems to be true, especially when you watch all the commercials.  Truly, I do not see commercials for much that 'should' be considered food.

I prefer home cooking and as many natural ingredients as possible.  I am not a fan of packaged food or restaurant food.  I KNOW this is not for everyone.  Convenience makes many people happy - as they just don't like cooking.  Remember - you do you and I do me.  No problems.
Now that is not to say that I don't buy some occasional 'junk'.  I do like a chip now and then, and I love yeast donuts!  I do try to limit those things, however.

I guess I am wondering - what do you prefer that is NOT homemade vs. what is?  What store bought item do you just love to buy and eat?  I am curious.

There isn't much that I can think of for me.
I love Mexican food.  I could probably eat about every day.  I do prefer my own.
Whether it is tacos, burritos, enchiladas, nachos - I just think mine have more flavors than restaurant fare.  I can add more spice or take away.  I can add any toppings I want, and surprise, no extra charge!!!!

Stir fry and oriental dishes are also preferred here.  I can add the flavors I prefer and delete the ones I don't like.  There is absolutely no limit to what I can throw together - using things on hand and throwing in leftovers and I can make a fine meal.
It is simple ingredients and I know exactly what is in it.

Pizza - goodness, I like pizza.  I had some pizza when at the birthday party Saturday - and may I say - I was not impressed.  It was flat and lifeless and virtually tasteless.  I want a pizza with substance!  I want a pizza with about everything but the kitchen sink.  A slice or two with a side salad is a meal kind of pizza.  Whether a flat bread, tortilla, Italian bread or a regular crust - it is all good to me.
I just love the options I have - ANYTHING I HAVE ON HAND!  Those are my options!  As little or much as I prefer.  Cost virtually pennies.  
My niece purchased 4 pizzas at the party, and it was almost $120!!!!!!!!!!  That is just insane (they weren't huge either).  Then you had to purchase drinks separately - don't get me started on that.  They also had to buy token cards for kids to play and bring in their own cake.  2 hours cost her about $400.  I will stay home and save my money and my sanity.  The last pizza I ordered years ago and had delivered was over $30. Crazy!  I will eat it just the way I want it, and in comfort.

I did mention I love a good donut.  Now that doesn't happen often - but I do splurge now and then.  I think donuts and brownies are probably my favorite goodies.  Of course, at the holidays there are all the special cookies, candies and goodies that are made.
But then again - I can make them just the way I want.  I know what is in them - and can use natural ingredients if I choose.

INGREDIENTS are my preference.  I do love knowing that whatever I eat is really food, and not things that my grandma wouldn't have had a clue about.  I love the ingredients that I can pronounce and ingredients that I actually know what they are.

There is not much that I can say I prefer store bought over homemade.
I truly do like the flavors of homemade over store bought.  You can make it all taste so good.

I am genuinely interested to hear what store-bought items or restaurant items you LOVE!   It often pays to have pre-made things on hand for emergencies or those special times no one wants to cook.  I would like to know the best things and options, that I could keep here.

What say you??  

Have a super day - smile and be kind.





Tuesday, May 5, 2026

Learning to Make Do - My Way!

 Hello all, and happy Cinco de Mayo!  Funny how it fell on taco Tuesday as well!  LOL!
I hope you are all well and safe.
It is a cool morning and damp.  We had rain over night, and I heard some thunder a couple times.  We are expecting more rain later on today and tonight.  Things sure are green and growing.  A couple of the peonies started popping open yesterday.  Sunday, I had my first hummingbird of this season!
It is 59* at the moment and the sun is peeking out.  Not going to get a whole lot warmer today.

I have always tried to make do and use things in new ways.  Lately I have had a couple of successes I thought I would share.
I put up my May and summer patriotic door decor and flags.  We have Memorial Day this month and the in a short while it will be July 4th - Independence Day.  So, I have been doing some patriotic decor.
I had purchased a large front door decoration last fall and was trying to figure out how to attach to door.
My door is black wrought iron and the frame on the decor was black as well.  Well, I had nothing black to attach it.
I only had white zip ties long enough to attached and they just glared white!
I attached with them - then I got the permanent marker out and colored the ties!  It worked.  You can see then slightly up close - but not from any distance.  If there is a will there is a way.

My older hummingbird feeder had lost a feeding flower - it fell off and broke when cleaning last fall.  Feeders are not cheap, even simple ones!  I had one for the kitchen window/stoop and I put one on the porch as well.  The birds know where they are every year.  So, for the one on the porch, I improvised.  I didn't want ants or bees getting in it - so I just covered that one feeding port with black electrical tape.  There are 3 other ports to eat from.
You can see on the right side - no flower, but tape.  There are other places to feed, and all is good for another year!  (I like this one because they can land and sit)

After making the t-shirt blankie for my niece, I had a lot of scraps left.  I used nice sections of the fronts and most backs for the blanket - but still had a lot of pieces.  I cut those into squares and will add to my hanky basket.  They would also have made great cleaning rags.  I just couldn't throw away useful material!

I leave dry food out back for the kitties all day. It is under a little table to keep rain off of it.  Well, if you have ever had food out long, you know it attracts ants - no fun for eating.  I tried several methods people had mentioned and none really worked.  I came up with my own.  I put down a foil pie pan, add some water and set their food dish in it.  The food dish is just a bit smaller than the bottom of the pan.  (feeds multiple cats).  Ants do not cross the water!!!!  It works perfectly.  I also have a smaller dish in the drive for other cats, and I do the same with it.  It sits in a dish of water a bit bigger than the feed dish.  I change the water every morning, as it accumulates crumbs and bits.
No ants!

Just a couple ideas on making do.  When you don't want to go out and buy something new or don't want/need to make a trip out to just do a simple task - get creative.
Hope it gives someone incentive to just get a little creative and make do.

Have you done any creative fixes lately?  I just love hearing the things people do to save money and things.
Have a fantastic day!!!!!!



Sunday, May 3, 2026

Weekly Wrap Up 5/3

 Hello all and happy May to everyone!  Hard to believe it is already May.  I hope this finds everyone safe and healthy and well.
We have had a couple very chilly mornings - we had a frost advisory, but luckily, we didn't get any here (lots of dew).  I am sure they did up north of here.  We have had cooler days, and it looks like this coming week will be a bit cooler as well.
Took this pic a couple days ago - there are so many more poppies blooming now.  That row behind is all peonies and they are loaded with buds!  I bet they will start popping open this coming week.  There sure are a lot of different types of lilies.
The dandelions and the violets are about done and now there is clover all over.  The tulip poplar tree has started blooming and boy it is messy.  It is one messy tree most of the year - but it is old and big and provides a lot of shade.

My frugal week:
  • Raked and cleaned up all under the squirrel feeders early on - placed all the 'falls' out in the woodsy part of the alley for other critters to get
  • Did a good 2 weeks' worth of laundry, plus all the furniture throws, bedding and throw rugs.  Used dehumidifier water in laundry 2X - used cold water - and hung most to dry
  • Finally finished up my last t-shirt blanket - it is actually a twin size but covered the top of my queen bed.  My niece will deliver to her MIL this coming Friday for her birthday. These were all shirts from vacations for MIL.
  • Made a big bowl of pasta and veggie salad using up all kinds of veggies & items from frig
  • Made a 1/2 gallon of banana ice cream - used 4 bananas (needed using), can of evap. milk, orange juice and a bit of stevia - tasty treat
  • Had 2 funerals to attend and one I didn't get to
  • Mowed the yard, front to back
  • Had a birthday party for a 5-year-old to attend at Chuckie Cheese!  What a sensory experience!!  It was my first time there
  • Did stop and get gas while out one day to use my points before expiring.  Gas at that time was cheaper at Kroger than anywhere by a good .75/gal.  I got .80/gal. additional off with points.  Paid 3.29/gal. after discount.  Yay me!
  • Of course, I ran in Kroger (I was there) to look around.  I got 6 indiv. Greek/fruit yogurts for .48 ea., 3 lbs. seedless grapes for 1.50, and 2lbs (8 burgers) Laura's Lean ground beef for 5.91
  • Heat off most of the week - a couple mornings needed a cycle.  No AC
  • Airing house as much as possible
  • Just doing all the normal things and eating from what I have at home
Meals this past week:
Grilled goulash 'burritos' w/extra cheese
Grilled cheese sandwich and pasta/veg salad
Meatball sub and pasta/veg salad
Fish fillets and pasta/veg salad
Cheeseburger and fruit
Loaded baked potato
Pizza at party
SNACKS - frozen yogurt bars, fruit, cheese & crackers and homemade ice cream

There you go - that is my week in a nutshell.  Seemed like I was on the move a lot.  This coming week I need to leave to vote and then I have a lunch scheduled - otherwise I plan on staying put!
How was your week?  What is going on in your area and on your little homestead?
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FYI - Weeks ago - I had sent Linda (PP) an email asking if she was ok.  Then she made her little post about Tommy.  Thursday, I got an answer on the email that simply said "Tommy died.  Thanks for checking".  So, she is still alive (I was worried).  For some reason after I read it - it just disappeared!  I have no idea how that happened.

I hope you all have a great week head and that things are warming up for you and that 'maybe' you can get some outdoor work done or garden things planted.  Stay safe and healthy.
Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
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This is the day which the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalms 118:24

Lord we come forth bringing thanks this morning for all our blessings.  It is a beautiful day, and we have been given the gift of life yet again.  No matter what happens in life, I pray we see all the gifts we receive each day and give thanks.  You are always with us, even in our bleakest moments and You lift us and get us through it all.  You give us strength in all things.  Thank You for every little moment.  AMEN