Thursday, April 3, 2025

All Good and Check In

 Good morning all.  I sure am hoping you are all safe and well.  Boy what a night we had all over the place.  The storms didn't start here until after 9PM - so after dark.  I hate that, as you can't see what is coming.
Any way we had a couple hours of crazy stuff.  Torrential rains, high winds (65-70 mph straight-line here), tornado sirens, lots of stuff going on.
I was very lucky!  A couple branches down and some water in the backyard.  Have seen lots more water in the past. 
There were tornados north of here and even some rotation just a handful of miles south of me.  Lots of damage all around the city/state, by watching the news this morning.  Semis flipped on the highway even happened due to the winds.  Only one injury reported amazingly.
The pictures of the damage are just so sad.
The lights stayed on here, never even lost power.  We faired so well in my area.


PLEASE check in and let us know how you faired through the storms.  The line of storms was so long and massive, that it hit several states.  I know many of you live in the areas.

There is a lot more rain coming from tonight through the weekend, so there will also be flood warnings.
Spring storms just stink.

So please, please check in!!!!!  I care about each of you.
Prayers for your safety and that of your families.

I hope each of you can have a wonderful weekend.
Many blessings

Wednesday, April 2, 2025

Don't Make it so Difficult

 Good morning to all.  I am running a little late this morning.  I sure didn't want to get out of the bed this morning, it felt so good.  Only got up a few minutes later than normal, but it was a struggle!  Bitsy even slept in.  We had quite a noisy thunder boomer come through this morning.  It rained and there was a lot of lightning and thunder.  It didn't last none too long, but it delayed my going out to feed the animals and Licorice.  When I went out, Licorice was getting ready to come around the house to wait for me!  He saw me and ran back to the deck, awaiting his breakfast!  He ate, as I did my chores and then went on a walk-about!  He sure is sweet.
There are some pretty nasty sounding storms going through a big part of the mid-section of the country this evening and into the morning.  South of me looks to be VERY, VERY bad.  There are several of the readers here that are in those areas.  I pray you are all safe and have no damage.  PLEASE take shelter - yes, it looks that bad.
I would love to sit on that empty chair and have a long chat with that lady.  Oh, the things I could learn.  I would love to know what she feels about the times.  What are her ideas of the future?  What is a day like?  Probably chores and getting by.

Sometimes we really make things a lot more difficult than we need to.  Today people are all consumed about money.  That really saddens me.  I think we just make it so much more difficult that it needs to be.  ENOUGH - is my word.  There are so many more things that are important, that get put aside for making money, growing money, and spending money.  I guess I just think that when my day comes to leave this earth - none of it matters!!!!!!!  No amount of money will buy my salvation or my eternity.

Sure you need enough to pay your bills and get by.  Sometimes it does take making so changes in your lifestyle.  It really is about knowing about wants and needs.
All the worry and fretting and complaining does nothing.  It just makes you sick and anxious.  That is not good.

I know there are many people out there, that think I oversimplify things.  They don't want to hear it.  
I am a very simple person, always have been.  Don't need to impress a soul on this earth.  You don't like me - that is on you.  I don't really care.  
I believe in hard work and being a good steward of what you have.  Limiting yourself when you feel it necessary.  Learn how to stretch things, money and time.  SURE, you may have to learn some new things!  That is a good thing.  Learning is always a good thing.
The things that are so important in life all have expiration dates!  Make those things your priority.
Stop worrying so much and start enjoying.

Am I where I thought I would be at this point in life?  NOPE.  I sure never wanted to think about life as it is now - but things happen that we can't control.  They happen to all of us.  So many gals here know exactly what I am talking about.  It sucks - there I said it.
BUT saying that - doesn't mean I should give up on life.  My love would never have wanted that for me.  I bet yours wouldn't either.  I do believe they would want us to go forward and live the best we can and make them and the world proud.  That is all we can do.

Money is a tool.  That is it.  As long as you have enough to cover your daily life, you are doing good.  
Do your best and be your best.  Stop and enjoy life a bit and stop the worry and obsessing.
Try smiling more (even if you don't feel like it) it becomes a habit!  Smile and laugh and just enjoy each day you are gifted.  Don't waste them.

I know many think I ramble on, but I have learned some hard lessons and just want to share.
Have a great day.
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If you are so inclined, please pray for the safety of those in path of the nasty, nasty storms going through tonight.
I repeat TAKE SHELTER in those areas, don't be brave.

Tuesday, April 1, 2025

Changing Seasons - You Ready? Stocking Isn't Just Food

 Hello and happy April!!!  Wow, three months already done this year.  It sure is going fast.  
It is a chilly frosty morning here.  We will see 50's today and some sun!  More spring storms headed this way during the week.  Not looking forward to those.  March and April seems to bring those nasty storms to the interior of the US. 
They say April showers bring May flowers - boy, we better see a lot of flowers!!!  LOL

This was looking out my living room window to the West at about 7PM Sunday.  It got very nasty looking.  We did have very hard rain, pea size hail (just a bit), and 70 mph winds.
Looking North of me.  See that white tree?  Oh that thing is huge - probably 70'+ and it is just beautiful.
Yes, me and my neighbors are those people that stand outside and look up, instead of heeding the warnings!
We had some nasty storms come through over the weekend.  I seem to be right in the eye of the needle (luckily), as the worse missed me.  Many had wind damage, flooding, hail, and some areas had tornadoes.  We will soon be coming upon hurricane season for coastal areas.  Think fires in the driest area, earthquakes, you name it - it is that time.  Are you as ready as you can be?

We always talk about how we stock food, for the emergencies and just daily living.  What happens if you lose power for an extended time?  Maybe no power, no water, etc.
You need to have a plan just in case!!
  • Do you have water?  Jugs of water to help flush, or to just wash yourself.  Water to aid in drinking or cooking?  What about bathroom use over a long period of time?  A potty chair, or a lined bucket.  Maybe a way to collect rainwater.  A way to purify water.
  • Do you have a way to get light for your home?  Make sure you have flashlights and batteries or candles available.  Yard type solar lights work great when you bring them in.  They do give off a good amount of light.  Glow sticks might be something to have on hand - you can stick them in an old milk jug for a super nice glow of light.  Do you have ANY TYPE of generator?  They sure help to keep foods from thawing in freezers.  You do NOT need to run constantly - just a bit here and there to keep things frozen (and not open the freezer much).  Make sure freezers are full - if with nothing other than water jugs.  That keeps things cold.  Generators are good if someone needs medical devices as well (think C-Pap machines, etc.).  If you have a portable generator, you will need a supply of fuel.
  • Can you cook?  Many stoves today cannot be lit without power.  Do you have a grill or know how to cook over a fire?  Maybe have a piece or two of cast iron pots.  They work great on a fire.  Do you have some foods that can be eaten just as it is?  Food that doesn't need to be cooked - think canned fruit, tuna, some veggies, peanut butter/jelly, home canned goods, etc.
  • Have alcohol and/or peroxide to help clean and keep germs away.  Antibacterial wipes on hand.  Hand sanitizer.  Bleach and cleaning products just in case.
  • Non-electrical devices to replace your normal way of living.  A car phone charger.  A mechanical can opener, a coffee pot that can be used on a grill or fire (or instant coffee).  Non-plastic cooking tools (that won't melt).  If storm is coming, make sure to charge up phones and any batteries.
  • TP or wipes!!!  
  • H & B - allergy meds (remember no AC - so windows open), cold meds, eye drops, basics for cleansing yourself (you want to feel somewhat normal)
  • CASH on hand - you never know.  Odds are you won't be able to shop anywhere - as they are in the same predicament as you, but you may be able to barter with neighbors, or have someone help you
  • Pet foods - you can't forget your fur babies.  They will need food and water too.
  • Have your important papers and items together if you think you may be in a big storm - in case you need to flee!  Papers, meds, keys, glasses, animal carriers, etc.
  • Be ready to do some work!  Odds are you may have to do clean-up of some kind, so just know you may be responsible for YOU.  Everyone will be in the same boat.
There is just a plethora of things to think about to be able to survive and survive well.  Storms come in all shapes and forms, and they happen all over the world.  If you have some of the basics lined up - you will feel a bit comforted in knowing you can survive.  Some of our own readers here, have been through this with the last hurricanes.  Many areas are still not back to normal.  It can be lasting or it can be short in time - you just need to have a plan.

I pray no one else has to go through these things, yet I can almost predict someone will, sadly.  You gals that have survived these horrible times, please feel free to offer things I didn't think of.

It just makes since to be prepared for anything.  We never know what kind of emergency we may have - it could be sickness, job loss, weather, anything!  
You may need to get rustic for a while - think about that.  Life isn't always, turning on faucets, flipping power switches, and AC or heat - it may get real basic!
Have a plan!!!

Wishing you all a lovely April day!


Sunday, March 30, 2025

Weekly Wrap Up 3/30

 Hello all.  Happy Sunday.  I pray this finds you well and safe.  Here's hoping that you made it through any obstacles thrown at you this past week and did it with grace. 
It is another warmer morning here and it is very damp and gray.  Looks as if we are to get some nasty storms later in the day and evening.  Prayers said that they aren't too bad.  It will cooling a bit this coming week, but nothing too bad.
The world is sure coming back to life around here.  The grass is green and growing (as are the weeds), the trees are all budding.  You can see a haze of color around every tree - it may be shades of green, burgundy, bronze, etc.  It is something to see.  The magnolias actually got to be enjoyed this year and are still just beautiful.
It has been very lovely temp wise the past few days, but windy - oh, those spring winds!

Oh, my alley got resurfaced this week!  There was a crater at one end that seriously could eat a car (2' deep and half the width of alley & as long).  It is the 2nd time in 39 years that I have seen them do ANYTHING to the alley! It is the first time in years that there hasn't been a puddle behind my yard after rain!  It sure is nice for the time being.  We are all very thankful.

My frugal week:
  • Lots of laundry and only used the dryer to fluff
  • Made several hard boiled eggs
  • Picked more daffodils and some hyacinths again this week - 2X
  • Made a small batch of frozen fruit 'cream' - yummy (strawberry/banana)
  • I did go out and do my monthly gas fill-up.  Used my points and gas was 2.47/gal.
  • Received some nice coupons in the mail from Kroger - good until June
  • Been refilling baskets, bins and jars with items to replace items used (from my stock)
  • Did a 'sort of' mow!  Used the weed whacker out front to knock down higher weeds/grass
  • Worked in a couple of flower beds, cleaning this week
  • Worked on building a platform for pots out back.  Thought I was going to visit Oz!  I was carrying 6' - 2" x 6" boards and thought the wind was going to lift me up when it would catch the ends of boards!  I bet I was a sight to see.
  • Got to have windows open and air house and heat has been off for several days. Friday was 80*F!  Next week will be cooler - in 50's and 60's.
  • I got some walks in and talked with some neighbors doing the same
  • Using leftovers and cooking from home
  • Just doing all the basics
Meals this past week:
2 chicken sliders, fries and salad
Tuna melt, Au Gratin potatoes, pickles
Au Gratin pots, scrambled eggs, 2 sausage patties
Cheeseburger and salad
Broc./cheese soup (freezer) over elbow macaroni and rolls (freezer)
Chef salad (w/everything)
Fish sandwich, tots and slaw
SNACKS:  fruit, toast & peanut butter, nuts

How was your week?  Did you get any deals this week or using what you have?  Have you stayed safe from all the nasty weather?  
I know we are all ready for spring and planting and heck, even mowing.  Some of our friends up north are still getting frigid temps and snow - sure hope spring comes to you soon!

Prayers for all the people involved in the horrible earthquakes on the other side of the world.  That is just so sad.
May you all have a lovely week ahead and may you all be safe and healthy.  Life throws us some curve balls on a regular basis, but with faith and perseverance we can get through.  May you keep going and be successful in whatever you do.
Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
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Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that in due time he may exalt you.  Cast all your anxieties on him, for he cares about you. Be sober, be watchful.
1 Peter 5:6-8

Dear Lord, again we say grateful thanks for all our blessings.  We ask that You please be with each person that is suffering anxieties and insecurities, to let them know that You are in control.  May we all have the faith needed to live a happy and restful life in the love of Your arms and teachings.  We know You have the ultimate control, so please calm our hearts and minds.  AMEN

Thursday, March 27, 2025

A Sturdy Foundation is Always Needed

 Hello to all.  Hope you are all well and safe on this pretty morning.  It is cool, but very pretty at the moment.  I am looking forward to a couple warmer days this weekend.
I will sure be glad when this basketball stuff is over!  That is all that is on the TV around here lately.  I don't watch a lot of new shows that are out there, I watch older TV programs when I watch, and those channels have been basketball!  Time to turn it off and read!

Just a little talk about having a good foundation in all we do today.  Your home, shed, garage, etc. needs to built on a good foundation.  Many of us believe that a good foundation is needed in our spiritual life.  Well, our financial lives need that as well.
We all need to work to have our budgets, money, finances, whatever you call it in order.  If you haven't done so already - you need to start.  You can start small and do lots of little things and it all helps.

'Finance' sounds intimidating.  'Thrift' sounds more attainable.  They are both about your money and they go hand in hand.  With the first we often think stocks, 401K, the trading floor.  With the second we think of cooking at home, thrift stores and gardening.  Well, actually we need some of both.
Your thrifty house still needs a good foundation.

You need to be aware but not consumed!!!
Newton taught us that what goes up always comes down.  Such is our financial life as well.  There will be good times and there will be bad times.  Do not PANIC - just keep on going forward.  Do not make hasty decisions.  Stuff happens in life - job loss, inflation, sickness, emergencies, etc.  If you have a stable foundation, you will manage to get through it.  You can't just sweep your debt under the rug - you have to take care of it.  Get rid of your debt as soon as you can - life will feel so much better and freeing.

FEAR is never a good organizing principle - nor is it a good way to live.  So now is the time, if you haven't done so before, to sweep out the cobwebs, open your eyes and get your home and wallet in order.  You will be able to make smart choices and not hasty ones.  You will be able to face whatever comes your way with confidence.  
Learn different ways to do things, learns old ways (they are really smart ways), stop waste in all aspects of life, and don't despair!  
Small changes in life, can make a big difference when added up.  
This is a huge thing to remember.  Getting that sale or clearance means nothing, if you don't need it or won't use it.  Buy what you use and use what you buy.  Common sense way to live!!!!!

We talk about so many things and ways to save here, I just hope they help some folks out.  Don't let your self-image be stuff!  Let it be a calm and happy lifestyle.  Let it be a simpler way.  Let it be joy and not constant worry.  When you live that way, reality can happen and not throw you off your foundation.
The more YOU control your life, the less vulnerable you will be in a crisis or emergency.

ONLY you can reduce your stress levels and emotional turmoil, thus being a bit healthier as well.  Life is short folks, so do each day as best you can - PLEASE don't spend it in a panic.

You are NOT living a second-class life by living a frugal or thrifty lifestyle.  You will be living a good life.  Thrift is good for the person with money and the person on a tight budget.  
Do not feel sorry for yourself.  Know you are surviving and doing your best.  Your life is what some people strive for in this world - we tend to forget just how much we DO have.

You can do it.  Baby steps, slow and steady - any of the old cliche's sum it up.  Don't panic, don't be hasty, think and plan, and just keep on trucking!!!
Today is a gift - make it good.

Have a wonderful and blessed day and weekend.






(you all know my rules!)



Wednesday, March 26, 2025

De-Clutter in a Fun Way!

 Hello and happy mid-week!  It is a cold morning and a frosty one here!  About 10* colder than yesterday morning.  I guess compared to many places it could be called chilly, but yuck on the heavy frost.  The sun is shining, and the birds are singing. Licorice had his breakfast and then went to do a walk-about!  Bits is sitting here next to me bathing (he is sitting like a people!).  My house is warm.  So really a good day here in my book!

Today I thought I would show this little chart I came across about de-cluttering.
Click on the picture to enlarge for easier reading.
This is a good chart to use for APRIL de-clutter.  Many are just starting their spring cleaning and de-clutter.  I don't care how much I do, there is always something I come across that needs to be organized.

Now I know some of the items on the chart may take a lot longer (in some homes) than it says.  But it is a guide to use.  You can change activities to different days, you can spend just a few minutes, you can spend a day.  It just gives us things to think about that we may ignore on a regular basis!

A drawer, a closet shelf, a closet floor, a box, a clothes rack, a bureau or dresser, the laundry area, the toy box, a cabinet, a pantry shelf...............
Start somewhere and do something each day.  You may not have a thing to get rid of, but you can straighten and sort and organize.
Take 15 minutes or a few hours - whatever you need each day.  Just do a little and get a lot done.  Baby steps!

Come May, pretty much everyone will be spending their free time outdoors.  April is still a month of ups and downs in weather - so use those down days to organize inside.

No one but you may know what you accomplished, but that is OK.  Every time I open a drawer or cabinet that is all organized and cleaned out - I smile.  It makes me happy - so it was a good job done.

If you have items to go - perhaps you can sell them or give away on Free cycle pages or donate - and bless someone else.  You make yourself happy clearing it out and another happy by donating.  That is a good thing.

Have a super day to all. 
Spring IS coming!!!!  I promise!

Tuesday, March 25, 2025

This and That - Some Fun Ideas

 Happy Tuesday all.  Hope you are all well.  We are still having a chill in the morning hours.  Well, actually we have had a chill all day for a while - the winds!  Oh goodness, it has been windy.  Yesterday was crazy.  This morning seems pretty calm for a change, just cloudy.
Just plodding along here - nothing too exciting.
Thought I might show a couple ideas that help me out, and maybe you as well.

Side door decoration.  Simple and easy.  A big bouquet of silk flowers and a kerchief tied around it.  It is bright and pretty.  Use what you have and make something sweet and colorful.

When buying produce - make sure you keep those fat big blue rubber bands!  Those things are strong and come in handy so very often.  I have even known people that cut them into two pieces - but I like the strength they have as is.

Do you have a hunter in the family?  If so, get the fat that they trim from their harvest, and render it down.  Pure clean tallow - can be used in cooking or in homemade salves.
I always keep bacon grease.  That is pure gold in my opinion.  Not only does it work as grease, but the flavor it adds - oh yum.  I have a jar in the frig as well for the grease I keep from ground beef as well (before seasoning).  Beef grease can be used as cooking aid as well.  With the cost of oils at the store, it is nice to have other options.

I saw this idea on a FB group I follow.  A semi-clear tote can be used as a mini greenhouse.  It helps guard plants from birds, and it also helps keep them warm.  Easy to open.  You can also use plastic milk jugs - cut the bottom out and set over plants/seedlings.

I am a big ChapStick, lip gloss fiend!  I don't waste any, as it is kind of expensive.  I generally get a good brand and not the cheaper ones.  When you can't get more out, keep the tube until you have another the same way.  Use a toothpick and dig out the remainder from one tube and add to the other.
I got a tube of Chapstick as a 'gag' gift in Oct. at one of my luncheons.  The gal that plans them, always has little gift bags of misc.  Well, it has been some of the best I have ever had.  It says 100% organic, but no brand - it was decorated on tube for Halloween.  I asked her about it, and she ordered from Amazon.  Turns out it is coconut oil.  She gifted me a couple more tubes in Feb. - that she had left!  You just never know where you might get something good.  YES, you can use regular coconut oil you have at home.
I also keep some of those near empty tubes and dig it out and add to the contents of a near empty tube of lipstick.  Dig them both out and mix together.  (you may need to microwave for 30 seconds or so to get them to blend).  I keep in a tiny little plastic container and use as lip gloss.  Subtle color and softens too!
I have been making lip gloss this way for years.  Use a lip brush or a Q-tip to apply.

I saw a new site listed that allows you to enter your ingredients you have on hand, and it gives you recipes that you can make.  I have always followed YourFridgeFood, but checked this one out too.  It looks decent.  It is https://www.SuperCook.com/recipes
You might want to give it a look.
It is always kind of neat to "use" someone else's imagination to get new recipes!  List your ingredients and get ideas and even recipes.  How fun!

If all you have is canned soup to serve for a lunch or dinner, add some pasta or rice to extend it and a little more filling.  Heck you can do this to homemade soup as well.  It sure does make it go a little further.  Add crackers or bread and you have a filling meal.

Well, that is it for today.  Just a few fun tips.
What little things do you do the stretch items at home?

Have a beautiful and blessed day all!