Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Getting Back to it! Simplifying!

 Hello to all this midweek morning.  I surely hope all are well and safe today.
It is again wet this morning!  Yesterday we got a bucketload of rain in the afternoon and evening - and NOW I do have a lake out back.  Ugh!
They are predicting rain almost every day for the next week.  Including over the holiday weekend (Memorial Day) and even on the 500 Mile race day!  That is not good, as about 300,000 show up for that!
This year the race will be on TV live as it happens.  That happened last year too - but never did before.  It has to be a sold-out event to be aired live.  So, locals usually don't see it until it is over (unless you go).  I am not a huge race fan, but I do love all the pomp and circumstance leading up to it.  Of course I will be on my porch before the race, waiting to see the military flyover - that is my favorite thing!  They always manage to come over my house as they leave the area.
Everyone gets excited about a long weekend - I used to as well.  Now it is another day.  Every day is a holiday once you retire!
Now that the garden is in, the flowers planted, my big sewing project done, I am now getting back to the simpler and quiet way. 
Life has finally leveled out and there is no rush on anything.  I pretty much do what I want - when I feel like it.  The above seems appropriate for me.  I eat differently during the summer - a lot lighter and fresher.  I walk so much more.  I really don't need a thing, so not a lot of need to shop.  I always try to laugh, love and feel blessed.  Every morning when I go out to feed all the animals - I stop and take time in nature to say my morning prayers and to thank God for all things.
I porch sit a lot.  It is a great time for reflection.

My house never gets messy, as I put things up as I use them (upstairs).  The basement is a different story!!!  Now that it is rainy, and I can't get out to work as much, I am again going to tackle that area.  I really want it cleaned and straightened and I want stuff GONE!  It is time to get back to de-cluttering.  So much down there, that hasn't been used or touched in years.  WHY???????

It truly did.  Now I have to admit, most wasn't much money - being a yard sale, thrift store aficionado in years past.  I hardly bring anything home now.  I just don't go to those places hardly ever.  I need nothing, so why go.  As someone stated the other day - I will be blessing someone else with things.
I need nothing, so why not!

I love the lazy, hazy days of summer.  Sure there is garden work (I love), yardwork (I like), and heat (meh) - but it a time of growth, abundance and thriving.  Everything is gorgeous out and God shows us all the beauty of nature is so many ways.  I will have things to do - but I also will JUST ENJOY.
We need to do that more.  Take in all the special moments.

So, I am ready to get back to getting rid of my overabundance of stuff and I plan to eat well, and I plan to stay healthy.

This weekend is the 'un'official start to summer around here.  Graduations are happening, pools will be opening, lots of outdoor events will be happening, many summer celebrations starting, and just lots of outdoor activities.  
What do you plan for your summer (gosh, winter for some)?  
Take time and get rid of stuff you no longer need or use and enjoy each and every day to the fullest.

Have a great day - help the light shine!!!


Tuesday, May 19, 2026

What we do When we Grow Up!

 Hello and happy Tuesday to all.  Hope this finds you all well today.
It is a lovely morning here - after a rainy and stormy day! Yesterday afternoon it started to rain, then storm and it came down hard and for quite a while.  The neighbor to the west had a backyard lake - one a couple to the east did as well - I didn't!  Not sure why this time, but it is just soggy and no lake.  YAY! 
More rain coming back in later today and tonight (and storms).
Haven't had to water a thing I planted yet!

Remember as a youngster saying, "when I grow up I want to be...."?  
Well, somedays I still wonder what I want to be when 'I grow up'.   How about you? 
As a child, I said I was going to be a teacher.  Then in high school, I took my college prep classes and did a semester 'student teaching' at my old grade school.  I worked with 3rd graders and with 4th graders.  That was fun.
In college, I got more interested into wanting to teach special education or work in social services helping kiddos.  Got to do a hands-on service with a social agency for children then, and it just broke my heart.  I would come home and cry and cry.
Then life happened, and college became part time, as I needed to work to help pay mortgage and bills, and then I just stopped in my junior year.
I got into accounting and did that in some form for the remainder of my working years (funny, as I hated math in school).
Became a 'sort of' care giver and stayed home with hubs when he became disabled.  I have been home since.  Learning, doing and caring.
Now I stop and think - am I doing what I am supposed to be doing?  Am I making a difference?  Is there a big plan for me?
Do you ever wonder things like that?
I know I am not done growing up - so I wonder what I will be when I do grow up!!!

I guess in a way, I teach in a form, by having the blog.  I help give the opportunity to myself and others to pass on useful information that others can use to maybe make their lives better.
I try to be a good family member and help those in need.  I try to be a good neighbor and friend.
I try to just be a good servant of God.
I hope that is enough.

I see pictures taken of earth from outer space and it is beautiful, but it is so small compared to the unending vastness out there.  We are a part of that little ball.  Once you are on this planet, we are but a grain of sand.  There is so much out there in the unending space and so many on this earth.  I am presuming we all have a purpose (?).  Somedays watching the news, I have to wonder what that purpose may be for some, surely evil and meanness can't be a purpose.  OR maybe it is there to help us realize what NOT to do.  I don't know.  I doubt anyone knows.
I do know that we all have a bright light go out at some point in our lives, a light that gets extinguished.  It may be from death or from illness or from losses of all sorts - but we have found a way to get back to a light and see some brightness again.  We go on, and hopefully the time of darkness helps us grow, and maybe we can help others to see a light again.

So have you figured out what you want to be when you grow up?  Have you always followed your dreams or ideals?  Did things change drastically at some point?  I would love to hear.
I guess I will stick with teacher!

I just know that when my days are done - I "hope" someone can say "she did good".  
That would be a good legacy.

Have a beautiful and special day.
Make it a good one.



Sunday, May 17, 2026

Weekly Wrap Up 5/17

 Hello and happy Sunday to all wherever you may be.  I am hoping this finds you well and safe.
Can you believe we are half-way through May?  Seems kind of crazy to me.
We are starting to warm up more, and we have had rain.  The past 2 days we had rain (nice rain here), and it sure makes things look different.  Yesterday was pretty much an entire rain day.  It was a lazy day!
It sure felt chilly due to the rain.  This morning it is already close to 70* and partly cloudy.

My frugal week:
  • Helped the neighbor fix a couple of spots of broken slats in their wooden fence.  Goodness, they had no idea what to do, even though there was a pile of wood sitting there to use!
  • Pulled and cut a lot of weeds and poison ivy
  • Got the garden all tilled up
  • Spent one day planting and decorating the front flower garden
  • Mowed everything
  • Picked and picked peonies - constantly changing out flowers inside - gosh, I love the smell so much
  • Used flowers with dropping petals for a big bowl of potpourri - just because they drop petals doesn't mean they don't smell.  Cut off the stems and place in bowl 
  • Made a bowl of bean salad for munching on
  • Made foil packet meal - made 2 meals
  • All meals from home and using what I have
  • Got the garden all planted!  I swear it looks like the plants have almost doubled in size with all the rain
  • Laundry - used dehumidifier water in laundry and line dried
  • I did a run to the store for more cat food - boy they eat a lot.  I also got 5lbs. of Pink Lady apples for $5 (sure are good, never had those before).  Found a bunch of Big Wheel cars in packages on clearance for .33 each!  Got stocking stuffers!
  • I did manage a couple porch sits and a few walks and picking up trash (most days tired from yard work)
  • Just doing all he regular things
Meals this past week:
Piece of chicken, fries and steamed broccoli
Tuna patty, corn on cob, salad
Cheddar, bacon, ranch baked potato
Packet meal - meatballs, potato, carrots, corn
l/o packet meal
Creamy rice & beans soup (freezer) and crackers
Hard shell tacos
SNACKS:  fruit, bean salad, cheese slices, toast

Things sure do wear me out faster as I get older.  Seems like many things take a day now, that took just a couple hours before!  LOL - Just glad I can still do things.
I do feel happy to have the garden in.  It isn't huge by any means but will provide a lot of good eats for me and probably some neighbors.
How was your week?  What has everyone been up to?  I always like hearing what everyone is doing.
Give us a shout-out!!!

I hope you all have a super week ahead, and that you get to accomplish all that you desire.  Hope you all stay safe and healthy.
Blessings to you and yours form me at my humble little home.
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And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Jesus Christ.  To our God and Father be glory for ever and ever.  Amen

Lord we humbly come to You in thankfulness in all the blessings and gifts that we received this week.  We know that all we have and need can be supplied by You, we just need to put all faith and ourselves in Your hands.  I pray each one reading this finds God in their lives.  May we each spread Your word and offer the love that You give us.  AMEN

Thursday, May 14, 2026

Using the Pantry in New Ways (for me) - Tasty Bites

 Hello all.  What a pretty morning it is here.  Hope you are enjoying a nice day in your area, and I hope you are all well.
Yesterday cooled as the day went on due to the wind!  It got quite breezy and boy, that chilled the air.  I was out working a lot and didn't get overheated yesterday.
This morning, after I had my morning drink, I walked into the kitchen and heard birds carrying on.  I looked over at the kitchen window and there were 2 blue jays sitting on the outside rail - staring at me and talking like crazy!  I'm hearing "where's the food?"  LOL.  I am thinking, dang, they know where I stay!!
I have had squirrels do that before, but the first time for the jays.  Needless to say, I got dressed and fed everyone.
If you are like me, sometimes you just want something different to eat.  I do a good variety of foods, but sometimes I think I need to get outside my comfort level - but I don't want it to be a lot of work!

Yesterday I got a little creative in the kitchen.  
Did you ever go camping and have the foil packet meals?  They were either cooked over the fire or on a grill most times.  For some reason that came into my mind, and I wanted one!!!
Soooo, I got out some meatballs, cut up potato, had carrots, and corn on the cob.  Seasoned and added butter - and wrapped up - and threw it in the air fryer!
I did 375* - but should have been hotter probably.  It took a while to cook and maybe a higher heat would have helped.  
I made enough for 2 meals!  Talk about tasty!  I enjoyed it and will eat the rest today - so no cooking for me today - just reheating.  Sure, I could have used the oven, but I really do feel I used less power with the air fryer, and I had nothing but time!

I also got to thinking about a different kind of salad or snack treat.
So, I used the pantry and used green beans, red beans and corn - then frig items.
I made a fun and tasty bean salad - easy too.
Green beans, red beans, corn (all drained & rinsed), carrots, radish and onion (all for crunch) and Italian style dressing.  This will be a great side salad or a great late afternoon snack.  It will last for a few days for sure.  (I tasted last evening and yum!)
You could use whatever you have on hand and like.  There is no real recipe for either of these dishes.
Just use it up and change up that menu a little.

Being creative, doesn't mean a lot of work.  Just a little thinking outside the box.  There is no limit to what we can make from our pantry and freezers and frig.
Maybe this will give someone a new idea.

Have a glorious day.  Make the most of it.


Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Staying on Track in a Weird World

 Good morning to you all wherever you may be in this big old world.  I hope this finds you all well.
I want to say WELCOME to all those who are new here.  We have been having some new folks post and find our little coffee klatch here.  Glad to have you and look forward to learning from you.

It is a lovely morning but looks to get pretty breezy and the temps aren't going up a lot today.  It is currently 60*F.  These cooler days are the days to get things outside done.
Yesterday was beautiful, but I almost over did it.  While working on plowing the garden, I got to feeling icky and had to stop and sit down for a while.  The garden is in full sun and of course I picked the wrong time of day to be out there.  All good now.  Pacing myself - got to remember that!!!!

Today is just a bit of thought about getting through this weird old world we are living in.  It is NOT political in any way, and I appreciate that you NOT make political statements as well.   It is strictly about using common sense and doing what we can to tend to ourselves and our families. I have been seeing and reading a lot about people who have no idea how to survive, nor do they have a plan or think ahead.  Our ancestors went through times that were truly tough and here we are.  It wasn't always easy, but they made it.

Groceries are up in price, shoot, most things are up.  Skills seem to have disappeared.  Many think that being sufficient is 'old fashioned'.   It isn't.  It is FREEDOM!  No matter where you live.

We need to garden and prep foods.  We need to repair and reuse in all ways and things that we can.  We need to learn to cook from scratch and use ingredients.  We need to have a lot of simple foods and ingredients on hand. We need to live closer to the land.  We need to teach younger folks our skills.  We need to learn new skills.  We need to know how to adapt!

Saying this, I can say I have NO fear about things.  I am confident and feel I can survive.  I know I can take care of myself, and I can help take care of family, friends and neighbors.  I can adapt to most everything.  Fear helps nothing.  Spreading fear is soooooo wrong, and it does nothing to help anyone.  It serves no purpose.  Now that being said, it is just plain smart to be prepared for any type of situation - as prepared as can be.  We do not know the future - but we can prepare.

I am resilient - you are resilient!  Be the best you can be and the most prepared you can be to help yourself, your family and your community, and your independence!
Slow down in life.  Reconnect with people (not electronics) and do what you can to help yourself.
Turn off the TV more and get outside and enjoy the beauty of the world.  Make life with real people a priority.  Spread joy and laughter.

BELIEVE - never stop believing.  We do so many things that shows we truly do believe in the future every day and just don't think about it.
We plan dinners and outings and occasions.
We take an umbrella when rain is forecast.
We plant a garden and flowers and trees.
We save for the children's education fund.
We keep an emergency fund.
We maintain our vehicles and homes so they will last for a long time.
We buy sales and prep to have goods for another day.
We plan leftovers.
I could go on and on............................

So, get out and plants some GOOD seeds in this world.  You can be the positive that influences someone else.  
ENJOY YOUR LIFE


Tuesday, May 12, 2026

Using What You Have on Gardening

 Good morning to everyone wherever you may be.  It is a chilly morning here, but the sun is out and it looks to be a beautiful day.  Yesterday was near perfect.  I hope everyone is doing good and staying safe.

Some folks think gardening is an expensive hobby.  It doesn't have to be.  Not at all.  You can use a lot of things you have around the house - many of things you would trash, and they will benefit you greatly.  Now that garden season is just starting for a lot of us, these ideas may help someone.
Funny, but somehow it seems true!!!  
Seems critters decide they want a free garden too.  I often have times that squirrels want to plant their peanuts in my garden and dig up a few plants.  Then there are the ground hogs that show up!  UGH.  I did see a jack rabbit the other morning before dawn, running amuck out front.  
In years past I have dealt with groundhogs.  I have tried urine (yes), ammonia, special expensive stuff (did nothing), mothballs, trapping, you name it.  Well, Chuck decided it wasn't too concerned about the cats (even after Persy gave it a talking to).  So, I tried something else I heard of - red pepper flakes.  You sprinkle them around the places they go in and out and they go away.  Well, bingo-bango, so far it seems to have worked!  Once I did that, I haven't seen it again.  We will see.  I had a big jar of the flakes, but they can be purchased at the dollar stores for next to nothing.
Now, THIS year I am going to sprinkle some around the garden plants too - maybe that will keep the squirrels out of the garden.  Worth a try!

You can use grated hand soap as well.  I have always heard using Irish Spring, but animals don't like the taste of any of it.  So try and sprinkle any grated soap around. Need to reapply after rain.

Another idea is placing plastic forks, tines up, around your plants.  It helps deter digging and damage to plants.  You want to place them pretty close together.

A penny for your thoughts!  How about your plants??  Throw a penny in a vase to help prolong the blooms.  Also said to be great for the garden.  The copper is said to work against fungi and plant disease.  In a small garden, place them near tomato roots to help battle blight.  The copper emits goodness into the soil.

Marigolds are a great way to help in the garden to guard against pests and they are pretty too.  I always have a few planted in the garden.
CITRUS peels deter ants and slugs away from plants.  Just place around the garden and around plants.  Citrus also helps prevent ants in the house.  (make your own spray or get citrus oil and spray around)

Keep seeds from one year to the next.  Now you can keep any seed but may not get the exact same plant from them because of cross breeding.  But if you have an heirloom plant - keep the seeds for next year and an heirloom will give you the SAME plant every time.
Many items can be regrown from what could be considered trash.

You can use cardboard or newspaper to keep weeds down in your garden (even old feed bags).  Makes a great weed barrier.  I can get free local papers at the grocery; your area may have the same thing.  You can buy weed barrier (black cloth or plastic) and it works great and helps keep the soil warm.  But FREE is great!

To keep dirt from falling through the bottom of a pot, either for indoor or outdoor plants - place a coffee filter in the bottom of the pot.  You can use a paper towel too.  Works great and practically free.  I have also placed layers of rock in the bottom and even used crushed pop cans in the past.  Use what you have.

Feed your plants in an inexpensive way.  Coffee grounds and tea are good for plants.  Add nutrients.  Make a 'tea' with banana peels.  Drop them in a big jar and fill with water.  Let it steep a week or so, then pour the water around plants.  Just keep adding peels and water.  You can also chop and bury the peels.  Potassium for plants!  Egg shells are great - they add calcium - and help deter slugs, as it cuts them.  Do you have a fish tank?  When you change out the water - use the old water on your plants - loaded with fertilizer.
Compost is great - you can make your own compost pile or make a small one, using an old tote, scraps, water, a little dirt and sunshine - Food rots and make goodies the garden will love.
I always throw 3 or 4 Tums in the hole when I plant tomatoes.  Calcium is added and it seems to help my plants not had blossom end rot.  I have done this for years.
You can make your own Miracle-Gro with no chemicals in it.

No need to buy expensive decorations or pots each year for the yard and garden.  Look around and find things around the home to use.  Pots can be used over and over - clean well each spring, add new dirt and grow away!!!  Buckets, totes, bags, pots, just about anything can be used to plant in.  You don't have to have a big inground garden.
All kinds of things can be used to decorate with.  I am a lover of a relaxed looking garden, nothing formal here, so I use all kinds of things.  I had an old work boot filled with flowers on the front step for years.  It was a boot of a dear friend (and my garden buddy) who passed.
You can make bird feeders and houses out of things. 
I have a clay saucer with glass 'rocks' I keep water in, as a bee waterer. Yes, they need water too.
An old ice cream parlor chair with no seat - makes a great pot holder.  Paint it any color you have available.  See that red arch?  That is an old bed headboard Glen found in the trash years and years ago - I mean it is a flowerbed!  The gazing globe is sitting on a flowerpot.  It now sits on top of a hens & chicken pot.  Don't need a fancy stand.  Old wagons, feed troughs, wash tubs, milk cans, ANYTHING can be turned into a decoration.
I have found many items at curbside 'shopping' on trash day!

All it takes is a little imagination and a little reuse of things to make a productive garden.  Things are expensive, and anything you can grow to eat is a HUGE PLUS to your budget.
I currently have my lettuce and green onions in pots on a baker's rack outside my kitchen door - that is handy to just go out and pick for fresh salads.
You don't need anything big, just some pots with a few plants.  Plants amongst the flowers and the bushes if need be.  I say grass is wasted real estate.  I know we all have our lawns but think if we planted it with food!!!!!  We could feed so many.
Do something to help with your food budget this year if possible. Even growing herbs in a pot helps - it gives your great flavoring.

What are some of your ideas for reuse or getting creative with things for the garden?
Love learning new ideas!

Have a beautiful day and count your blessings!

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Weekly Wrap Up 5/10

 Hello and HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all the mommas out there.  Whether your children are human or fur - yours or someone else's that you love -have a happy day!!

It is a lovely morning, the sun is shining and it is in the mid 50's.  I went out to a neighborhood cat at the side door, kitties meowing out back (hungry) and birds yelling at me as soon as I hit the back walk.  Boy, do I have animals that are trained!
We had a lot of rain this past week - lots.  I think there is only one day predicted of rain this coming week, and the temps will finally get to May temps by the end of the week.

The roses and the clematis are covered in blooms.  Actually, had one clematis flower open yesterday.  My little flying jewels are back. The spiderwort and vinca are blooming.  The peonies and poppies are going full force.  Aahhhhh, I love it.


This week of frugal:
  • Cleaned and refilled the hummingbird feeders and watering holes
  • Have 2 full barrels of rainwater (110 gal.)
  • Neighbor brought me some zucchini plants
  • Changed out the flags and door decor
  • I weed whacked the entire yard
  • Picked many bouquets of peonies for the house - the house smells delish!
  • Cleaned inside windows (kitty kisses) and mirrors
  • Lunch with 2 old friends.  Best part was the wonderful conversation and the great tasting margarita!
  • Put the tiller together
  • Took neighbor a bouquet of peonies
  • Walks when not raining
  • I planted lettuce I had started earlier and some green onions
  • Got FREE hamburger buns and 3 FREE recent Woman's World magazines at thrift store - bought a $2 box of Cheerios for future crispy bars
  • Drinking sparkling fruity water (Soda Stream)
  • Just doing all the normal stuff
Meals this past week:
Beef filet (freezer), potato wedges and fresh veggies
Ground beef/onion/mushrooms/gravy over rice
Beef/rice/bean nachos
Out - cheddar/bacon potato skins
Bean/rice/beef & cheese grilled wrap/burrito
Beef hotdog, potato cakes (freezer) and fruit
Swiss burger, corn on cob (freezer) and salad

I am looking forward to warmer temps and getting that garden tilled and planted!!
Fireworks have already started around here by individuals doing their yearly illegal ones!  Ugh!  They are so loud - and sure do give you a jump.  I feel for all the animals.

My nieces MIL received her blanket Friday for her 82nd birthday and they said she loved it.
Her and a few of her children and a couple grands - her in chair and my niece with hand on her shoulder. She has suffered so many medical maladies in recent years, I sure hope she gets some joy from this.

How was your week?  Do you have your garden or pots planted yet?  Planning garden?  I sure hope everyone grows something - it all helps.  Did you get any deals this week?
I hope you all have a wonderful week ahead and have health and safety.  Enjoy your Mother's Day.
Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.
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Be watchful, stand firm in your faith, be courageous, be strong.  Let all you do be done in love.
1 Corinthians 16:13-14

Dear Lord we humbly come to You in thanks for all the love and wonders that we received this week.  Thank You for loving us unconditionally.  May we all go forward and show love to all we meet, and may we forgive all transgressions from others with an open heart.  Help us each one grow in faith and courage and love.  AMEN