SIMPLE - Means Different Things to Different People

 Hello all.  Hope you are going to enjoy this last day of April.  We have had one of the warmest Aprils in history, and now the temps are to drop!  We will start May in the cool.  The next 7 days or so look to have highs in the 50's and 60's.  This morning it is in the low 40's and chilly outside, but it is bright and sunny.  Very damp from dew out there.

                                                        I love this - I think it says so much!

I know many talk about having a simpler life.  I think for each of us, it means something different.  No, I don't THINK - I know it does.  It sure means something different to me than many others.

I am not knocking the people that do or have the following - it is all a choice, but to me it just means more dependence, not independence.

You don't have to touch a vacuum to have clean floors.  You can have someone shop for you.  Have your shopping excursions delivered.  You can shop in your PJ's sitting on your couch for anything.  Cameras take pictures of just about your every move.  Want fast food or restaurant food - it comes to your door now.  People communicate through text instead of in person.

LOTS of people do these things - but they do come at a cost.  Nothing seems to be free.

I know this "simplifies" many people's lives.  At least they think so.

I personally see it as instant gratification.  Easy access.  No delays.

I don't find that something I want at this point in life - not for me. (maybe someday)

I was raised to look at things as - anticipation is far greater than the realization.  For me that is still true.  Things I have to wait on and think about, and plan all seem to mean more to me.

DOING things myself gives me so much satisfaction.  I will enjoy a good home cooked meal much more than anything I can buy out or have delivered.  Picking out those special items at the grocery store and getting those special deals (I can only get by spying them) means a ton.  A little hard work and planning, means I accomplished it on my own.  Talking to someone in person gives me a feeling of companionship.  If I can grow some of my groceries or get them locally from people like me, I know they are fresh and healthy.

I guess I look at things in a different way - maybe an old-fashioned way.

I think every new skill we learn is an investment in our lives.  It is also an investment in the lives to people that watch us!  They learn new things and see you accomplish things on your own, and it shows them what can be done.

If everything goes to 'hell in a hand basket' - you HAVE skills!  You can do things.  You can succeed.  You can still live a decent life.

I don't see 'simplifying life' as doing less and having more convenience.  I see it as doing the basics myself and having a freedom from what people think 'normal' society does.

I don't want to be a victim of the digital world.  It is everywhere and involved in everything - and I don't like it.

I want to blaze my own trail in life - I want to have self-satisfaction!  I want to be a 'teacher' of old ways to others.

Again, I am not knocking anyone that does the stuff mentioned above - we all make our own choices.  

I am just saying it ISN'T for me.  I go to the beat of a different drummer.

Here is hoping that your May starts out lovely and fresh.  A new month, and a new beginning.

Don't sweat the small stuff - just be happy to have another day.

Blessings to all.

Tips from the Church Ladies!

 Hello to everyone.  I hope this finds you well and safe.  There has been a lot of nasty weather events of late - hope all are safe.  It is a cool and wet morning here.  We are having some light rain, nothing bad (no storms).  Seems this rarely happens anymore, that we get a nice rain and no storms - it usually is an 'event'.  It is going to be a cooler week here.  That is fine - it is spring and weather varies.  Today will be a get things done inside day.  I have plenty to keep me busy.

Today I am going to share some tips that I have read from the "church ladies".  I have this little cookbook from an area church, and they always have the best tips and recipes in them.  Just things that 'normal' people do and use on a daily basis.  I love church cookbooks.

• In a shaker, combine 6 parts salt and 1 part pepper for a quick seasoning.  **You can combine and use whatever you like to use and keep it handy right at the stove
• Next time you need a quick ice pack - grab a bag of frozen veggies from the freezer.  **I keep cold packs that come from ordering my summer sausage in the fall and stick them in the freezer for just in case
• To avoid teary eyes when cutting onions, cut them under cold running water or briefly place them in the freezer before cutting
• Add a few grains of rice to a saltshaker to keep salt free flowing (absorbs any moisture)
• Purchase a coffee grinder and mark it spices - it can be used to grind most spices.  Clean after each use.  **I have 2 (ea. cost a $1 at garage sale) - one is for nuts and mild things, the other is marked spices (like peppers and such)
• Keep bags from store bought bread and buns and use for homemade breads, muffins and rolls
• Unbaked cookie dough can be covered and refrigerated for a day and frozen can be kept in airtight container for up to 9 months.  **I always place some cookie balls in the freezer when baking - to bake at a later time for a treat - can bake just a couple if you desire (when baking something else)
• To make self-rising flour at home, mix 4 cups of flour, 2 tsp. salt and 2 tbsp. baking powder - mix thoroughly and store tightly covered.
• One tbsp. of bulk yeast = on packet of dry yeast
• When baking in a glass pan, reduce the oven temperature by 25*
• Dust cookie cutters with flour to prevent sticking or use powdered sugar **(I like using the powdered sugar)
• Over-ripe bananas can be frozen for baking or using in malts, smoothies or ice cream
• It is easier to slice meat if it is partially frozen
• Adding tomatoes to roasts helps to naturally tenderize the meat.  Tomatoes contain acid that works well to break down meats
• One pound of boneless chicken = approx. 3 cups of cubed meat
• Instant potatoes make a great thickener for soups and stews   **(I always use this)
• The ratio for a vinaigrette is typically 3 parts oil to 1 part vinegar
• Chill serving plates to keep salad crisp at the table
• Drop a leaf of lettuce in a pot of soup to absorb grease from the top.  Remove the lettuce and serve
• Use fruit juice like pineapple or orange with a little oil and some honey and maybe a little nutmeg/cinnamon to make a sweet dressing
• To add flavor to a cup of hot tea add a lemon drop or hard mint.  They melt quickly
• If making fresh fruit juice - remember; 1 lemon yields about 1/4 C juice, and 1 orange yields about 1/3 cup   **(don't forget to use those peels for something else as well)
• Cook pasta for salads al dente (slightly chewy to the bite).  This allows the pasta to absorb the dressing without getting mushy

EASY HOMEMADE WHITE CASTLES - sloppy Joe style

1 lb. ground beef'

1 can French onion soup

Brown the ground beef, crumbled.  Drain and then add the soup (add no water) and simmer.  Lightly place the buns on top of mixture to steam quickly.

**Never thought of this before and I will definitely be trying it soon!  Sounds yummy!

**Cheryl's comments

There you go - fun ideas and ways to help out around the kitchen.  Do you have any fun tip to share?  We all look for easy and new ways to do things.

Have a great day!!!!!!

Finance - Keep it Simple

 Hello all!  It is the morning after a powerful storm around here.  Yesterday we had rain, then last night (late again) we had a band of nasty storms go through the state.  It literally was a band that went through the state from north to south - I doubt it missed anyone.  I do not like these nighttime storms.  It is scary.

The sirens went off about 10:30PM - there were some very high winds in places.  Luckily, I again am safe and no damage or problems.  It didn't last very long but is created a mess for many.  I sure hope all are safe.

This morning it is calm, the birds are singing, kitties all fed, picked up a few branches down in the back, and the temps are nice.  

It looks like it will cool later as the week goes on, and they are even talking frost again by the end of the week.  THAT is why we don't plant until after Mother's Day around here!

I bet you have!  Have you ever sat down and figured out how much you have earned in your life?  It is truly amazing to think about.

We neither one ever made a ton of money.  We neither one ever made a lot of money.  Sounds redundant - but I see a 'ton' and a 'lot' as different.  We never made per hour what people make today.  Of course we didn't have the expenses a lot have today.  BUT the point I will make - is that we lived below our means and we worked HARD to pay things off early and we planned for an uncertain future.

We did have a few moments of good fortune that happened out of bad/sad moments.  We put those things to work and used them the best we could.

First, I left a job, that just got to be too much stress.  It was an employee-owned business, and I had worked there long enough that I was vested.  So, when leaving - I did get a payout of stock funds and profit sharing.  THAT is the time we sought a 'financial' guy.  We made good decisions with that money and invested.  So many people that left or got bought out, when the company changed spent every single dime on STUFF - had huge taxes to pay and penalties, and eventually didn't have anything to show for it.

Glen got the opportunity with his job to invest a percentage of pay with a thing like 401K (govt).  He had the max taken from his check and invested.  We hardly noticed any change in pay, as it came out before taxes.  We also saved a minimum of 10% from each check.

We bought a home we could afford.  Either one of us could make the payment without the other.  We worked hard on paying extra principal payments every month.  We did this for several years.

We received a small inheritance from my mom, and we used it to pay off the house.  That was a big investment to us.  We paid it off in 15 years.

We always drove older vehicles.  Neither one of us had ever had a new car.  We promised ourselves a gift WHEN ever we paid the house off.  We bought our first and only new vehicle.  We paid it off in 2 years.

Glen got to a point that he had to quit working due to his physical problems.  He wasn't old enough to get retirement with the city (years of service + age).  Once he got disability he could get his retirement.  Well, anyone that has ever tried to get disability knows it takes time.  Glen truly wanted me to be at home when he had to quit.  So, we had NO real income for well over a year - we lived on savings.  Luckily, we had major things paid in full, and it was just basics, but they did add up.

I did work part time for a while at the last business I worked for, and they really wanted me - so I gave them my pay requirements (outrageous I thought)!  Joke on me, they said yes!!  LOL.  First time/last time I ever made that kind of money.  I also did some side work for a friend's business, taking care of his tax info. a couple days every few months.

Mainly I stayed home and took care of things here.  I was 51 when I quit working and had no retirement for myself.

Once he got approved for disability, we did get retirement and back pay. We did use a bit of that to help pay off the car early and the rest was invested (again the finance guy).

G wanted me to be able to live well and not worry when he was gone.  It worked. I live a comfortable life, but a simple life.  I do get his retirement and I get social security.  I live on, much less each month than I have come in - so I do manage to save every month.  I live on minimal funds, not because I have to, but because I want to.  (I know I am lucky).  I do not know what the future holds, so I want some protection.

*****

Now I tell these things to let you know that lots of small steps can be taken to get you in decent shape.  You may not make a ton of money, but you can still live in a way that pays the bills and saves.  It truly is about choices.  

You can still have fun.  We had fun and did things, but nothing was expensive that we chose.

Yep, crap happens - and sometimes it is stuff you can't control.  That can eat up those funds or create new bills.  Take a big deep breathe - study the situation and come up with a plan to get through it, past it, and get back on track.  YOU CAN DO IT!!!

You may have to make some harder decisions and give up a few 'fun' things for a while - but in the end it will be worth it.  It does take work, but it is soooooo worth it.  

Feeling secure is priceless.

So, if life and bills get you down - make a plan.  Change things up.  Do everything in your power to change the situation in a good way.  It truly is possible with effort.

I know some of you have shared stories in the past on how you got to a 'comfortable' life.  If you want to share something that can help others and encourage them, please do.

Have a beautiful and blessed day.

Weekly Wrap Up 4/26

 Hello all, and welcome to the last Sunday of April!  Can you believe it?  Time is sure flying by.

It is a cooler morning here, but still very nice.  We had a storm fly through on Friday - it got scary for a few minutes.  The sirens went off and the winds just came out of nowhere.  We had rain a couple times on Friday, and we did need it.  Seems every time they predict rain, my area gets nothing.

The grapes are forming bunches on the vines out back, and the raspberries are blooming.  The first of the poppies have opened.  Oh, those big bright orange beauties!

This week I just did what I wanted, when I wanted.  I got in no rush.  I slowly did things and still had a lot of rest time.

My frugal week:

• Had a meeting with my financial guy here at the house - all good
• Made a batch of frozen yogurt/fruit bars 
• Made a pot of soup - used a pack of long grain &wild rice soup mix (gift) - but used pork broth (freezer) instead of water, and less than it called for.  Added 4 C beans (freezer) and chopped ham (freezer).  Goodness it was good, some of the best soup I have made in ages.  Ate on it and froze 2 containers for later
• Trimmed the back forsythia bushes (4) - they sure got wild looking quickly.  Looks neat now
• Mowed and trimmed the entire yard
• I got the rain barrels out and set up
• Pulled weeds in areas hard to reach with weed whacker
• Paid everything I had in house for early May, including property taxes
• Cooked up a pound of sausage in patties and froze most of them for easy use
• NO groceries
• Polished the kitchen cabinets
• Walked, napped and porch set - off and on
• Aired the house a lot this week.  No heat or AC (heat on last Sunday night only)
• Just doing all the normal stuff

Meals this past week:

Shredded pork (freezer) over fries w/cheese and slaw

Wild rice/bean/ham soup

Soup again

Chicken breast and broccoli salad

Cheese spread w/crackers and broccoli salad

Sausage/egg sandwich and salad

Goulash (made w/broc. added)

SNACKS - yogurt bars, peanut butter on toast, pb & apple, fruit

Overall, a pretty good week.  Kept busy, but not overly busy.  Seems there is always so much to be done, but I am at the point in life - if it gets done, great - if not, well it wasn't that important.

How was your week?  Did you get any good deals?  Did you get any planting done? (still waiting here)

Look forward to hearing from each of you.  I do believe we all inspire each other, and that is pretty cool.

Stay super safe and healthy this week.  Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

Don't stress the small stuff.

***************************

I believe that I shall see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living!  Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; yea, wait for the Lord!

Psalms 27:13-14

Dear Lord, we thank You for all the blessings we received this week.  Help us each have courage, faith and strength to face all that is put before us.  Even when we don't see an answer, we know You are working on our hearts and helping us to grow our faith stronger.  Waiting isn't a sign of disapproval from You, it is a growing time for us.

Thank You for being with us at all times, and give us patience in all things, as they happen in Your time.

AMEN

Balance it Out - It All Counts

 Hello everyone.  Lovely day in the neighborhood here.  60*F outdoors and 75* in the house!  Windows now open, birds are singing, and kitties all fed.  A very pretty spring day.

Just a word today about balancing all things in life.  You truly do NOT have to be busy every moment of every day.  Some days we get a lot done, other days we rest and just enjoy life.    Somedays the yard work gets done, other days we porch sit.  Some days we go and go, and other days we watch nature and just realize how lucky we are.

We all go through things in life that change us - good and bad.  At some point in life, we all have that worst day ever.  (7 years ago today for me).  But here we are - still going on. 

We often feel cheated, we often feel sad, we often feel loss - but we also feel joy, and happiness, and we have the bestest memories ever!

Hang on to those memories - what a gift it is to be able to have them.

I think we should spend our lives doing the best we can, not just for ourselves, but to honor others.  I believe the spirit of all our loved ones is still with us, and we need to do good in their honor.  

Smile more often.  Help more often.  Enjoy more often.  Spread love more often.  Laugh more often.

Just be the BEST you can be my friends.

Be the good memory someone else has one day!!!!

I hope you all have a lovely day and a fantastic weekend!

Tasty and Healthy Treat

 Hello to all.  HAPPY EARTH DAY!

Hope this finds you all well and safe.  It is a beautiful morning here.  Low 60's and the sun is shining.  During the night I heard a little thunder off at a distance - but I don't believe we received any rain here.  It seems to circle all around us so many times.  It looks to be a glorious day.

Today I want to give you a 'recipe' for an easy, tasty and healthy treat or dessert.  I made this and I see no limits to what can be used.  I mean you know me a 'recipes'!!!  They are just suggestions for me.

FROZEN FRUIT YOGURT BARS

2 C plain yogurt

1/2 C honey

1 tsp. vanilla

1 1/2 C fruit

Mix the yogurt, honey and vanilla until all incorporated.  Fits in an 8 x 8 pan.  Line with parchment paper for easy removal.  Pour mixture in pan and then add the fruit.  You can place just on top or push in a little.  Place pan in freezer for a good 4 hours - then cut into bars.

I had a quart of plain yogurt I got on clearance a couple weeks ago - so I doubled the recipe and used a 9 x 11 pan.  I also didn't have quite the amount of honey needed - open, so I added pure maple syrup to it.  I used banana extract because I was using bananas.  I cut up bananas that needed using and halved some grapes as well.  

SUPER yummy!!!!!!

ENJOY!

You can use any kind of fruit you want - strawberries, bananas, blue berries, peaches, pineapple........

I well imagine you could add nuts, crunchies or something else on top.  Also, I would say you could use whatever yogurt you have on hand.  All you have flavored?  Use it.

I do believe the honey (not only for sweetness) helped it not freeze too hard.

Such a wonderful treat.  Cool and refreshing. AND healthy!!!!!!  

Hope you all have a wonderful day and maybe do something fun for Earth Day.  Go pick-up some trash somewhere, plant a posey or a tree, create no trash today, eat natural, just do something.  It is something we should be doing every single day - not just one day a year.

Have a super and beautiful day.

What is Your Limit? - Ick Factor?

 Hello all.  Happy Tuesday to you all.  Hope this finds everyone safe and healthy.  I can't believe so much of the month is done already.  It is still cooler here this morning, but not nearly as cool as the past couple of mornings.  We had frost both Sunday and Monday mornings - no freezer her, but frost.  This is why it really isn't wise to plant gardens here until after Mother's Day.  As pretty as some days are - waiting is the game we need to play.

I sure didn't want to get up this morning.  The bed felt so comfortable - but Bitsy had other ideas!  I had kitties waiting outdoors as well.

Today - what is your limit on being frugal or the things you may do to save money?

I have been watching some videos of things people do to save a buck and many I do and agree with, and others just make me say eeeeewwww!  We all have our limits and things we do - so I also say, whatever someone says here is safe.  We are not here to judge, just share ideas.

You all know that I tend to stock up on clearance and sale prices.  I have no problem whatsoever on using things well past "use by" dates.  I repair and mend things.  I water things down.  I use up all things I can.

I have no problems foraging and eating things that many would call weeds.  There are many things that are so good for us, growing wild out there.  Things that have healing qualities.

I have no problem repairing things to stretch them a bit further, when I surely could afford to buy new.  I get through another season and save a little, then I purchase new and feel I did my best.

Now that it is time for Earth Day, a lot of people think more about things they can do and ways that can save not only their pocketbook, but the earth as well.  

I have rain barrels that save rainwater for gardening and animals to drink.  I garden and grow many things myself.  I compost.  I do much of my yardwork and home repairs myself.  I reuse a lot of things.

I love thrift stores and yard sales, but there are some things that I personally wouldn't buy.  I have purchased barely worn shoes before - I can handle that (I clean well).  I will not buy used under garments.  That is just me.

I understand that there are people that save their urine and use it on their gardens or to soften the calluses on their feet.  NOPE for me.

Some people only have their water heaters ON for an hour or two a day - then turn it off.  I am not going to do that - seems like ware and tare to me.  I will dicker on prices at times, but I realize that people are trying to make some money - so I will not try to insult them.  I will not be eating roadkill!  (some do).  I have watched shows of Extreme Cheapskates, and some of those people amaze me.  

Now I have no problem "curb" shopping when people throw things out.  I have gotten things to use in my yard and garden.  There are many, many people that dumpster dive for all sorts of things.  You can check out the You Tube channel Freakin Frugal.  They have regular places that they dumpster dive and get tons of things and tons of food.  I have to admit it all looks good and have never heard them say they have gotten sick.  They donate a lot as well.

Most stores around here have their trash bins closed in behind fences and gates - so that isn't something that would be easily done here.  It truly DOES amaze me at all the GOOD items they get that store is just throwing out!  So wasteful, especially when things are so expensive and so many people could use it. (I know there are liability issues)

I have mentioned in the past, that when G and I first married, we did not buy bread or baked goods for several years (nor did our parents) - as we got it all free from A & P.  A friend worked there and would call G when they took things out to the dumpster and the city guys would go and get it all.  It was perfect.  So many people benefited.  We even got huge boxes of still frozen chicken a couple times, when the power went out for a few hours at the school.  They had to get rid of it!

I do have a couple limits of things I would not do - not too many, but a few.  I have just been this way most of my life, so I think about a way to reuse just about anything.

So I am curious as to where other people draw the line and say no.  What is your limit?

No judgment from me - I am just curious. (be nice)

Do you have frugal limits?

Give us a shout out - I like hearing new ideas.

Have a beautiful day!!!!!!