Sometimes We Need a New Strategy

 Good morning to all.  Hope you are all well.  It is a lovely morning here.  50's and bright and sunny.  Pretty breezy, but it is going to be a super day.  We will surely be changing by Sunday and the first of next week - the cold will be here at least for a while.  Time to get the birdbaths ready for heaters for a day or so.

Sunset last night from my front porch and what I also saw out my living room window.

Did you see the moon?  This was right at sunset, and it was full and bright.  The same this morning as well.

As you can see the trees have finally started changing color.  There are so many beautiful colors.  Lots of green too - but the colors just glow!  I am thankful for nature.

Grocery shopping can be a pain.  I keep hearing people say they are spending more and more every week.  I hate that.  Today I looked at the Kroger ad, and I see ways to change up the strategy some may have.  I know many don't believe me, but I am actually spend less when I go shopping and I think very different about things.

First there are many discount markets around today - that we didn't have years ago.  I hope some of you get to take advantage of those.

If you are in need, do not be ashamed of going to a food pantry at your church or in your community.  They can help so much.

I see chuck roast on sale this week for 5.99/lb. - that is $3lb. discount!  Do people really spend that?  Not this gal.  5,99 sounds like too much to me.  I would check markdowns - if nothing, look for a different cut.  BUT a choice that could be made for a pork loin for 1.79/lb.  Yes, it is totally different, but it is a lot cheaper.  We normally have half and whole pork loins on sale for 1.99/lb.  They sure can make a lot of meals in so many ways!

Chicken wings for 2.99/lb.  Remember when they couldn't hardly give them away?  No one wanted wings back in the day.  Anyway - you can have for 2.99/lb., or you could buy already cooked ones for 7.99/lb.!!!!!!!  Good golly, what a difference in cost for just a little work.

Chicken and pork are often quite a bit cheaper here than beef (almost always).

The other day we mentioned potato skins in the comments.  I remember they were a delicacy at restaurants back years ago - they got smart and thought of a way to make money on something they would have trashed.  Like many, I have always used the skins (kept them on).  My only exceptions have been mashed and potato salad.  I know many always use the skins.  This week they are ADVERTISED for a small box of cheesy skins for 8.99!  Good golly Miss Molly, I can buy an awful lot of whole potatoes for that amount.

Convenience foods are costly!

Fruit is another big-ticket item.  Buy what is cheaper and utilize the sales.  Apples are currently in season.  I wish they were still cheaper - but around $1 a pound is a normal sale price around here.  There are 5 lb. bag for $5 this week.  Grapes (seedless) are .99 lb. (coupon).  I find those items good - vs. 6 oz. of blueberries for 2.99.  Sure they are good - but you can get a value for your dollar subbing something else.  Buy what is in season and what is on sale.

There are eggs - 18 count for 1.99 (coupon) and you can get 5 boxes.  Great protein.  Think about making more meals using eggs.  Cheese (Kroger brand) is 2.49/lb. (coupon) - same with this!  So many ways to add cheese into meals.

Soon potatoes, sweet potatoes, and cranberries will be super cheap.  Take advantage and plan meals around those.  Turkeys and hams will be cheaper as well - much cheaper than any deli meat or packaged lunch meat.  It is also healthier.  These items can be used in so many ways.

Baking goods are soon to be on sale.

Always look for clearance items in all departments.  I recently got 5 huge peaches for 1.50 and a few weeks ago, I got 6 juicy pears for 1.50.  Much cheaper than they were selling for on the non-sale racks.  I find ground pork and chicken often for $2 or less a pound.  Cook with other seasoned items (in soups and chili) or add beef bouillon to change the flavor.  WM generally has loaves of French bread for $1 on clearance - great for garlic bread or pizza.  Freezes well.  Many church thrift stores have FREE bread days.

I know not all have Kroger - but just giving examples of how to change up your thinking and your recipes.  Use what is on sale!  FIRST use what you HAVE!!!!!!  Check your freezers and get out the things that have been lounging in there for a bit too long.  USE IT.

Hopefully many still have garden produce to use - squashes and pumpkins keep and last.  Cabbage lasts and stores well too.

Take some time to develop a new strategy to shopping and cooking.  It surely can save you funds that can be used for stocking up or for some other bill.

Have a wonderful day - get out and enjoy the sunshine if possible.

SMILES and HUGS

Let's Celebrate Thankfulness

 Hello to all.  Hope you are all well and safe.  It is a chilly and frosty morning here.  I have been out and fed everyone, and the fingers got cold!

Have I ever mentioned how much I hate the time change?  Yeah, I have.  Still do.  Gosh, I am now up an hour earlier according to the clock. (Kitties want, what kitties want, and when they want it!  They don't go by the clock).  Then it is dark so early now (and not time for bed) - the day just seems so long!

At least it is a sunny one today.  Sunrise was lovely. All is well.

November has become the month of thankfulness.  I mean the word is right in the holiday name!  I am thankful every single day.  There is much to be thankful for - we just need to open our eyes.

I know we are now approaching the time of the year that many do not like.  HOLIDAYS!  Not everyone has family, or somewhere to be, or someone to be with.  Many have bad memories.  Days are gray and cold.  People get all stressed out.  It is said the be the 'saddest' time of the year for many. 

Maybe, just maybe, we can all focus on the little things that makes a day better.  Maybe, just maybe, we can all find something to be thankful for every day.

You can hibernate - but still find something each day to be grateful for.

Celebrate your thankfulness.

Small things - add up to a big thing!  A happy heart!!!!

• Support a good cause in some way
• Donate time
• Donate things you no longer use - maybe a woman's shelter or a homeless shelter
• Donate old towels or buy food for an animal shelter
• Connect with your spirituality
• Handwrite a letter to someone
• Slow down and appreciate your surroundings - your pets, nature, a kind neighbor, a sweet stranger, a tasty meal, a warm bed, another day!
• Create something
• Reward good service - give a bigger tip or give a kind word
• Keep a journal or a list all month - write something each day
• Focus on gratitude = If you focus on gratitude more and more, the negative seems to melt away
• Hug more, say I love you more, smile more, just BE more

Don't be pressured with tradition.  You don't have to have a traditional meal - eat whatever you like.  You don't have to decorate.  You don't have to spend a fortune - it is more about the 'meaning of the seasons', and the people.

The earth is beginning to quiet, so should you.  You don't have to be stressed and panicky.  Just do what makes you happy.  It is OK!

I am so thankful for all of you - you make my life better.

Have a wonderful and special day.

Weekly Wrap Up 11/2

Hello to all and a happy November.  Hard to believe, isn't it? We are a cool morn here, in the mid 40's.  It will get to upper 50's today and back to the mid 60's this week.  Not going to complain at all!

On Monday, I picked a rose!  I am sure it is probably the last one of the year - but it is still smelling sweet and looks pretty, after all these days.

I looked out on Nov. 1 (yesterday) and there was a robin in the birdbath!  I haven't seen a robin in 2 or 3 months around here.  What a treat.

I changed all my clocks, except the bedroom clock.  When Bitsy comes to say "get up & feed me" - the clock still looks the same.  It's a mind thing I play every fall.  I will eventually change it, but I leave it for a while.  My head says it is 6:30AM - but actually 5:30.   The animals don't change their habits - just us silly humans.

Those little things are HUGE sometimes.  The pretty leaves, the birds passing through, 

the crunch of an apple, children laughing, hugging someone - all blessings.

My frugal week:

• Last Sunday, I did run to Kroger for a weekend special.  I got a turkey breast for .99/lb.  I spent about 6.50 for it, and it will sure be some good eating and several meals and sandwiches!  Heck, I can't buy lunchmeat that cheaply.  I also got 5 huge peaches in the 1.50 clearance bin, and 3 caramel apples for 1.50 total.  They are generally 3.99 each!
• I filled my tank while out - saved .60/gallon due to the 4X points you can get on Fridays.  I spent very little last month - but those extra points sure do help.  Even had a coupon for 300 points if spending $30 as well last month.
• Changed out yard flags
• Some walks - didn't get them in every day, but got other exercise in yard
• Re-did my weather stripping on the front door.  No more gaps!
• Did a major dust and vacuum this week. (deep cleaning)
• Washed the woodwork and windowsills
• Fixed (straightened) and rehung a couple of valance rods
• Had visitors stop by a couple times this week.  My old neighbor that moved to KY was in town for Dr. so stopped by for a few.  Sent them home w/ a bunch of tomatoes
• Pulled out more garden - have about 1/3 left to do.  Did more cutting back of flowers
• Mowed, trimmed and mulched the entire yard
• Put the area rug back in the kitchen - to keep tootsies warmer
• Actually, got to air the house 2 or 3 times this week (in afternoons).

Meals this week:

Double cheeseburger and fresh veggies

Naan bread pizza (bread from freezer)

Broccoli/cheese soup and tomato sandwich

Air fried corn on cob and fish and fries

Broc/cheese soup over rice w/sour cream & cheese

Salad topped burritos - supreme (homemade)

Pork chop strips, mashed pots, slaw

Another sort of quiet week, just doing THE stuff!  I seem to manage to keep busy, not sure what all I really do some days.  Has anyone gotten any good deals this past week?  How are you doing with winterizing and getting ready for the new season (whatever season you are in)?

I sure hope you are all well and safe.  Thinking of all of you - many missing for a while.

Prayers to all for health and safety and prayers of healing for all in need.

Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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Be strong, and let your heart take courage, all you who wait for the Lord.

Psalms 31:24

Thank You Lord for all our many blessings this week.  Thank you for Your guidance and love for us.  Please help us each to gain our strength from Your love and from our faith.  Strength in everyday matters is often hard, but we know with You in our lives, we can get through all things.  I pray that You lay Your healing hands upon all that are in need.  Amen

Just a Thing or Two to Save $

 Hello all.  Hard to believe we have almost finished another month.  One more day in October - tomorrow is Halloween.  I no longer do Halloween, just a bit scary all alone.  I used to pass out candy - but no longer.

It is a brisk morning, 45*F and a little breezy and very damp.  We had rain last evening and overnight.  It was much needed.  Been out and fed the critters and cat(s), and after eating Licorice went right in the greenhouse and got in bed!!  Smart kitty.

I sure didn't want to get up this morning - the bed felt so good.  Bitsy was having none of that!!

Just a few ways to preserve your food and save it and saving a few dollars along the way.

Hope you find something you can use.

• When buying bagged produce - always weigh it.  A 5lb. bag - may be 4lb. or 6 lb.  Get the most for your money
• Make sure produce is dry when purchasing.  Wet weighs more.  ALSO - I hear a lot of bad things about those produce sprayers (icky germs), so make sure you clean and dry at home before storing
• Always check the UNIT price.  Bigger is not always cheaper.  Sometimes you can get smaller packages much cheaper, sometimes bigger ones
• Shop ONCE a week or two weeks (however you go) - do NOT go back.  Sub or use something else.  Many shopping trips means more temptations to spend
• Have lots of basic seasonings on hand.  You can jazz up the blandest things and make them very tasty
• When you find an extra good deal on something - buy what you will need until the next sale comes around.  Usually every 6 - 8 weeks
• If you don't have buns for burgers - use bread.  Shape burgers to fit.  I toast the bread and it stays together while eating the sandwich, instead of getting soggy.  I prefer bread
• Beef is increasing in price - so remember you can sub ground pork, chicken or turkey in recipes for ground beef.  I know many don't like the taste of those - so add beef bouillon to them and it really improves the taste, making them more beef like!
• Check ethnic stores or the ethnic aisle for good deals.  I have purchased many of the same products in the ethnic aisle much cheaper than in the other parts of the same grocery!!!!
• Let older stale bread get bone dry and grind it up to make breadcrumbs (you can even season).  Also cut up older bread and dry - for dressing.  I always make my own.
• Line your produce drawers with paper towels or a cotton towel to absorb any moisture from fruits and veggies (outer moisture).  Helps things stay fresh longer
• Shop with a LIST and use cash if you are easily tempted to spend.  With cash you are limited to impulse buys.  I only impulse shop for CLEARANCE.
• Remember - FIFO = first in first out - always rotate your stock
• Find a deal on peppers, onions, celery - get them and chop and freeze.  Super easy and ready for adding to recipes
• Apples getting older -- peel and core and slice and make fried apples.  Add a little butter and some sweetness and cinnamon and you have a yummy side or dessert!  Soooo good.

According to the Economic Research Service, Americans waste more than 25% of the food they buy.  If you buy it - use it.  It cuts your costs, stops waste, and keeps it out of landfills (unless you compost).  Waste is just NOT cool!!

LEFTOVER candy from Halloween? 

Use 8 oz. of Milky Way candy bars

1/2 C butter

3 C rice crispy cereal

Melt candy and butter and stir until smooth and blended.  Stir in cereal and thoroughly coat.  Spread in a greased 7x11 pan and chill.  Cut into squares!  

EASY SPAGHETTI TOSS

1 - 10 oz. pack of spaghetti

1 - 10 oz. pack of frozen broccoli, peas, snow peas, whatever you like

2 Tbsp. butter

2 C chopped chicken (can use leftover or canned)

2/3 C stir fry sauce (or what you like)

Cook spaghetti al dente - stir in veggies and cook for another few minutes.  drain, add butter.  Spoon into a bowl and add cooked chicken and sauce.  Super simple and cheap - using what you have (get creative with it).

I make lo Mein with spaghetti all the time - using leftovers and soy sauce.

Do you have any useful tips for saving your goods or stretching them into something new and savory?

Love to hear your ideas.

Have a great end to your month.

ENJOY & be kind!

A Lost Art (?)

 Happy midweek to all.  I surely hope this finds you all well and safe.  It is a blustery morning here.  We are in the low 50's, breezy and sprinkles.  May get rain later today and tonight in our area.  Looks like southern part of the state and in many other areas are already getting rain.

For those in certain areas - don't forget the time change this weekend.  Turn those clocks back an hour.  I sure wish we could just pick one and keep it!!!

I so do believe this.  Be happy and love everything you have and have been offered in this world.

I do think good old home making has become a lost art to some point.  Many of us started small, and worked hard to buy a home, and then moved our way up.  Many of us kept that small one.  Today so many want instant gratification, and they want what mom & dad worked years for - NOW!  That causes big debt and many times the loss of the nice things.  It causes a lot of stress as well.

I know many partners both work, and then they hire cleaners to come in and take care of things.  They eat all their meals out - as 'they just don't have time'.  PRIORITIES!  People need to choose.

I know several members of my family have chosen to stay home and home school, and many have jobs that allow them to work from home (and make great money).  So, they do all the 'stuff' we were taught as we grew up.  I have so many of the younger ones, wanting ideas and recipes and things from 'grandma'.  I love that.

It is also going to come to pass (in my opinion) that people are going to need these ideas and skills.

Yes, we have technology now, and everything is modernized and tech driven.  I believe that may be our demise.  I think we are going to have to take a step back and learn to do for ourselves! 

Frugal/thrifty living is a means to an end.  It helps us save some money and conserve while perhaps saving for a goal.  A vintage way of life is not a bad one.  I am seeing more and more Vlogs promoting the simple ways of life today.  They are choosing to do the 'things' over going out and spending and having that second job.  They are choosing family life and a simple life.  That really warms my heart.

We need to get more practical.  Use what you have.  Love what you have.  Take care of what you have.

Learn to be creative in all aspects of life.  Cook from home and use 'ingredients' vs. buying premade items.

We are influenced every day at all times to BUY and GET the newest, brightest and fanciest gadgets.  Seriously, why do we need them?  Keeping up with everyone else?  Not this girl.  I could not care any less about the gadgets.  I will take my easy and simple life.

My home is small, it is old.  It is MINE!  I love its charm and coziness and quaintness.   I mean how much room does one need?

My stuff is older.  My vehicle is older.  I AM older!!!!!  It all works!

Learn to be creative in your home, your cooking, your yard, your crafts, your life.  Use and reuse things - not only does it save some funds, but it also saves things from the landfill and reusing things is a wonderful way of honoring this earth.  Learn new skills - we are never too old to learn.

Value teaching others - I think that is our greatest gift to the world - impart your knowledge on others.  They can't know and learn unless we teach.

Don't let things like homemaking and cooking and creating be a lost art.

A simple life really does make for a peaceful and non-stressed life.  

LOVE YOUR LIFE JUST AS IT IS.

Have a beautiful day.

Dropping Food Budget? There are Ways!

 Hello to all.  Hope you are well and safe.  It is a breezy 50*(F) this morning, going to 60*.  I think it may stay cloudy, but at least it is a decent temp.  We have sure had some beautiful sunrises and sunsets the past few days.  God is so good.

We have come to a time that many people are having their food budgets lowered and may be struggling.  With some thinking and careful use, you can survive and survive well.  I do hope that most of you have been adding the basics over time to your pantries, in with your weekly and monthly allotments.  Basics can work in so many ways.

You know my mantra - be creative and think outside the box.

Now I am not saying this should be a daily or normal way of eating (it can be), but today there will be ideas how to get through the rough times and eat and fill your families' bellies and not do without.

• We always talk about dry beans.  They are super cheap, they are healthy and good protein, and they can be cooked in a crockpot during the day while you are at work.  You can add rice, potatoes, bread etc. and have a very filling meal.
• Along those lines there are split peas - Mmmmm split pea soup.  Lentils are a great addition to soups and they can take the place of meat in many meals.  Lentil tacos can be made, add to chili, so many uses.  Both of these are cheap sources of protein as well.
• Soups - so easy to make.  Throw in whatever you have - can be canned, frozen or leftovers and make a hearty veggie soup.  Cream of soups are super easy to make and can add variety as well.  Think potato, broccoli, cauliflower - whatever you have.   Tomato soup and GRILLED CHEESE are a standard!
• PASTA - so versatile.  Spaghetti is everyone's first thought.  Yum - you know you can add veggies and not meat and still have a yummy spaghetti dinner.  Lasagna - again, you can go plant based instead of meat.  You don't even need lasagna noodles; use a layer of whatever pasta you have.  I one time added a random can of Ravioli as a layer to lasagna - tasty.  It still tastes the same.  Pasta can be added to any soup to extend it.  You can pour many things over pasta.
• RICE - again cheap and versatile. It too is a great extender of soups and casseroles, served under gravy or soups, fried rice (add in all leftovers), add to eggs for an extended scramble.
• Chili is always a winter favorite.  Add lots of beans and less meat.  You can serve over pasta or rice or add pasta to it.
• Breakfast for dinner - think pancakes, waffles, biscuits and gravy - all are super cheap to make and they all use basic pantry items.  Nothing fancy needed.  I love a dinner of biscuits and gravy - great comfort food!
• Pizza - a yummy and filling food.  It doesn't have to be just a pizza made on pizza crust.  You can use bread (I have used stale for this), buns, Naan, tortillas, bagels, English muffins, Italian bread (my favorite pizza), etc.  It is a great way to stretch bread products.  ADD any topping you have - leftovers included.  Chop leftover meat, make a veggie pizza, add mac & cheese, any sauce you have, you get the idea.  You can top with anything and have a hearty and filling pizza
• Leftovers - ALWAYS use in some way.  Soup, on pizza, Shepherd's pie, pot pies.  Recreate leftovers and fool those who say they don't like them!  Make stir fry - no limit to what you can use.
• Jello - add fruit (canned is fine).  Makes a nice treat.  Top with yogurt if you have some.
• Smoothies - add fruit to milk and ice or yogurt.  You can add greens or oats whatever you want to add bulk.  A smoothie can be a meal.
• Canned, fresh or frozen fruit can be a dessert.  Mix together some oats, a little flour, butter and brown sugar - to top the fruit and bake until golden.  You have cobbler.  Add fruit to muffins or sweet bread - they can make a nice breakfast.
• Oatmeal - can be topped with anything.  It can be served sweet or hearty.  Make baked oatmeal (only way I will eat it).  Baked is so good, add fruit, nuts, chips, anything you have.
• Peanut butter - NEVER forget this!!!!!  Peanut butter sandwiches are filling and a good protein.  You can add a slice of fruit and grill - oh nummy.  Add to stir fry and make an oriental flavored meal.  Add to oatmeal.
• Wraps or rollups.  These are great for leftover veggies, meat, cheese - even fruit.  They are fun and easy to eat.  Make a great quick breakfast or lunch.  You can also grill them and make a warm meal.  Don't forget EGG ROLL wrappers.  Make any kind of egg roll you can.  Again, add leftovers, fruit, shredded cabbage and soy sauce, etc.  I make them in my air fryer - 350* for about 15 minutes (turn once).
• Baked potatoes - super cheap and filling.  Top with anything you have around
• Cabbage is very versatile.  Fried, steamed, in soup, egg rolls, slaw, salads, cabbage rolls, etc.
• Never underestimate a pot of mac & cheese with a can of tuna added or a couple hotdogs cut up in it.  You can actually add any leftover meat you have.  Add a salad and/or some crusty bread and you have a meal.  Same with baked beans - add some cut up hotdogs and have beanie wienies. 
  

Just a few ideas to help stretch the food budget.  Nothing glamorous, but it will fill a belly.  THAT is what it is all about!!!  Not saying you have to eat like this always, although there is not a thing wrong with it, but it will stretch what you have, and it will help save money.

IF you are need, please remember there are food pantries in almost every community - GO!  There is no shame to feed your family.  I know many of the smaller ones around here, say they can't give away all the fresh items each week, and they give it to the volunteers.  So go and take what they give you.  Use it or trade it with someone.  Barter is still alive.

Remember you can have meatless nights - there are so many other proteins available.

Check out sites that give ideas on how to use what you have.  There are many out there.  My favorite has always been MyFridgeFood - there are others.

Many thrift stores offer bread products for free - check around.

While the stores have holiday foods on sale - take advantage of those.  Many items are much cheaper like potatoes, sweet potatoes, turkey, etc.  A super cheap turkey is a deal - you can't buy lunchmeat for the price you can buy a turkey.  It is healthier too.

Pasta, rice, beans, potatoes are all great extenders to just about any food.  They can make a 'couple servings' into 3 or 4.  Do what you need to do to feed your family.

I hope others add some of the ideas they have used to stretch their food.

YOU CAN DO THIS.  DO NOT PANIC!

I wish you all a lovely day.

PS - Gentle Reminder - NO POLITICS at all - just useful tips.

Weekly Wrap Up 10/26

 Hello to all.  Can you believe we are again on the last Sunday of another month?  It is less than 60 days now until Christmas!  You are welcome!!  LOL

It is finally fall in my area.  It feels it - although for the most part, it is nice fall weather.  The colors are finally starting to change some.  There is still a lot of green out there too.  Temps are cool, and not as many full sunny days.  Daylight hours sure have shortened.  I notice it the most in the mornings - it has changed my outdoor schedule.

Mr. Hog (groundhog) still has not gone into hibernation!  Amazing.  It is huge.  Probably because it is still eating and NOT hibernating!  Goodness, it is building up its winter fat.

It has been a fairly quiet week and just small projects again.

My frugal week:

• Made a small amount of green tomato relish (for me)
• Made a nice big bowl of tomato/cuke/onion salad - ate for meals and snacks
• Using the Soda Stream for carbonated fruit water
• Made a batch of brownies (had a sweet tooth)
• I went to lunch with grade school chums this week.  That is always a fun thing.  We had a really nice group this month.  Took several red and green tomatoes for who ever wanted them.
• Added extra bedding to the greenhouse and the little house for kitties
• NO grocery store this week
• Pulled out about half of the garden - remainder to follow in the next few days
• Cleaned out my closet, especially the floor
• Did stop at the feed store while out and got squirrel and bird feed
• Finally had to turn on the heat this week, as we had a couple nights of 30's.  It is set at 67* - and it has felt perfect
• Made a big pot of veggie/hamburger soup/stew (stoup).  Ate and froze some for later
• Put up the hoses for the winter
• Filling baskets, bins from supplies on hand.  Brought up some freezer goods from downstairs and took others from up to down
• A neighbor brought me a few slices of banana bread she just made

Meals this past week:

Cheese topped pozole over rice w/crackers

Grilled cheese/ham/tomato sandwich and l/o pozole

Hamburger hash and salad

Cheesy potato soup (freezer) salad

Homemade hamburger veggie stoup (threw in l/o hash)

Out to lunch w/friends - (House of Tokyo) - brought extra home for later that day

Veggie stoup and end of salad

Nothing exciting much, just daily living.  Oh, I did pay everything I had due, up through even November dates.  The house insurance and umbrella were in there - oh my!!!  At least that is done for another year.

How was your week?  Did you do anything fall-ish and fun?  Get any deals?  Fall cleaning?  

Give us a shout out and let us know what is going on in your world.

I hope this finds you all well and safe.  Please know I pray for you all and there are many that need those prayers - unspoken requests.  I hope you all have a lovely week ahead.

Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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"Ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you."

Matthew 7:7

Lord we know that You are always with us, and You guide us.  Help us to realize that all things are answered, just not always as we expect.  Your will be done.  You know the reason and the outcome.  You are placing us everyone, where we need to be to do what we need to do in this world.  It is not always understood at the time.   Thank You for all out many blessings.  Amen