Thursday, September 11, 2025

We Can do Better

 Hello to all.  May you all be safe and healthy on this Thursday morning.  It is a cool and crisp morning here.  Love it.  We start getting warmer, and we may hit 90*F by Saturday.  Not going to complain at all.  Those warmer temps will be so very missed one day soon (sooner than we want).  The humidity levels are down, so things won't feel as bad.

Today is a somber day for America.  It is the 24th anniversary of   9/11.  I remember that day like it was yesterday.  So many senseless deaths and such destruction.  I remember going to moms after work to be with her that evening (she was so very ill at that time).  My sis was there, and the TV was on.  As ill as momma was, she sat there silently and then looked at us and "what is wrong with the world?"  
Here we are 24 years later and still pondering about that question.
This has nothing to do with politics (DON'T go there), it has everything to do with decency and love.

Life is short, and it is truly fragile.  Things can change in an instant.  I just want us all to be the best that we can be.  
Any of you that have lost a loved one in life, know.  They sure wouldn't want any of us to act ugly to others.  They would want us to go out in this world and do good.  They would want us to be pleasant and say a kind word.
Yep - it sure is.  As you sit and remember someone that is no longer in this world, or someone you haven't seen in ages - whatever the reason - and SMILE, be that kind of person.  That is what kind of person I want to be.  Someday when I am not here, I want people to smile when they speak or think of me.  I don't want to be remembered as that grouchy, hateful, negative person - but a happy one.
Leave a good mark in this world!

I thought long and hard about today's post - I wasn't sure what I wanted to write about.  Then I sat down this morning at the computer and this is what came out.  I do believe God moves us in a direction that we should go.

I want you to all smile today.  Remember someone not around.  Make someone else smile.
Go forward and be a positive impact on this world.  Go the GENTLER WAY!
Thank you for all being here.  You all make me smile!

Have a blessed day.


12 comments:

  1. Cheryl, I so appreciate you being the positive happy person that you are. Take care, Louise

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  2. Cheryl,
    I went to my parents house after work that day, and as we had our afternoon coffee my parents were asking the same thing. Hearing that from my parents whom I considered wise and calming was a hard hit that day. They didn't have the answers either.
    I would never want to be considered mean or grouchy, I want to be remembered with love and laughter.
    JC

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    1. I remember a lot of things from that time - but mom saying that and the sound of her voice - will never leave me. I, like you, always looked to parents for answers and when they questioned - well it truly affected me.
      Me too! Love and laughter - a great way to be remembered.

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  3. A perfect post for the day and every day. Go the gentler way is great advice. Thank you. Lynn, Pecos, NM

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    1. Thank you. It just seems way too much has changed with people, and it frustrates me so. We all need a gentler way!

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  4. The post is perfect for today. Thank you for always sharing kindness and love. It is what we all need right now in this world more than anything else.

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    1. Thanks. Today the world is frustrating for sure. We all need a gentler touch and a kinder word.

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  5. I do remember that day too. We live about 1 and half hours outside of NYC in a community with many commuters including parents of my high school students. Until they heard from their parents, they were hysterical. We have some from our community that died that day including one of my previous students who had just started his first job !

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    1. I cannot imagine the horror that people went through in and around that area. The not knowing. Hysterical would be the only thing you could be! Just sad a horrible day in history for the US and the world.

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