December - The Month is Different for Everyone

 Good morning all.  Hope you are well and safe.  It is a cold and snowy day here.  We got close to 4" of snow to start the day!  Ugh.  It is pretty, but it means a lot of work for folks.  The news and the computer says it is in the upper 20'sF, my thermometer says 34*.  Cold, whichever!

I truly hope you all stay safe and off the roads, unless it is absolutely necessary.

As we think back to the old days and the Christmas's past - it often brings up bad or sad memories.  Not everyone gets into the celebrations of Christmas.  Truthfully that is OK.  You have to do what is right for you. I know many who read here, have lost loved ones during this time of the year, and it brings up sad feelings.  My only advice is to REMEMBER them in the good times, and that and speaking of them keeps them alive in your heart and in your mind.

YES, it is hard to do things so very differently, but at some point in life it happens to everyone.  Just a sad fact.

What you feel is what you feel, and it IS real!!!!!  Give yourself some grace during this time.  Your feelings are valid and they are yours.  Let no one tell you how you should feel, your feelings are real and valid.  They can just get over it!!!!!!  Don't apologize for how you feel.

I try so hard to do this.  All the little things are so important, more so now than ever before.  Watching the littles play and laugh.  To see their excitement for the holidays.  Watching the snow come down.  Seeing how anxious the outdoor animals for their food each morning.  They are happy to see me.

Curling up with your pet.  The warmth of the house.  The beauty of Christmas lights.  Food on your table.  Just seeing someone smile, even if a stranger.

Choose the joy the in those things and chose to see the beauty in everything and everyone.  Be grateful for this morning that you were given (yet again).  

I just wanted to start the month with a little encouragement.  Don't do anything you don't want to - it is your life.  You feel what you feel and you WILL be OK.  You have survived every worst day you have had so far.  That is HUGE!  

Take it slow, take it easy, and give yourself a break and some grace to get through the season.  The new year will be here in 30 days and it is a new start.  Well, actually every day and every month is a new start, but we tend to be analytical in thought sometimes!

Have a beautiful and safe day.

I am off to feed kitties outside and clean some snow.

Stay safe out there today!