Noise! Life can sure be noisy. In many ways!
This was a noisy weekend around here and I am sure many communities. Fireworks galore! I know Canada just celebrated Canada Day as well - so probably some celebrations there as well.
I have to admit - this year was not nearly as bad as years past. THANK YOU!
We had a good 3 nights of noise, but not as much and not as late as in the past.
I can't help but think some people either moved, died or finally got an active brain cell in their heads! The news said fireworks were almost 50% higher this year in price. Maybe that was it. I seriously doubt it - but it could have been. In past years I know that some people around here had to have spent several thousand dollars! These things were not legal and there were tons of them - all going on for weeks!!!!!
I do not live in an upper-class area - so no one around here is wealthy. I have always wondered how these people wasted so much money and still paid their bills and fed their families. Hmmm - maybe they didn't. All I know I am ever so thankful that the "noise" was less this year. Less is good!!
Other noise can come from the news, social media, family....................
We are inundated with garbage every day! Sure, we need to be aware, but it doesn't have to overtake our lives or minds. I know what is happening, I don't need to listen to hours of it daily! I don't need to read about it every time I want to look at FB. I don't need to be blasted with it every time I want to look at my computer for something.
BUT that is life.
I just had a person send me a message about a message they received - they needed to talk. Well, I think person #1 thought I would totally side with them. Both #1 and #2 are relatives. I really have no need to get in the middle of this 'thing', as relations have never been great between them.
I did say I though #2 made some valid points and they should be validated and not dismissed. Life had not been good for that person when they were young (not their fault).
I guess that was not what #1 wanted to hear. I got a very polite - thanks for your advice, but it was all in the past - they need to move on.
I think most people realize that the past DOES affect our lives today. Bad stuff has a lasting effect - sure we need to move forward - but without facing the past that can be hard to do.
Any way - I told them to call me when they had time available (they work) and all I hear is crickets!
The same thing happens sometimes on FB or on blogs. People ask for opinions and that is truly NOT what they want. They want people to agree with them - and if you don't, well they get testy!!!!!
That has happened to me a lot of FB. If my 'opinion' is different than theirs - I get blasted.
I try to only comment now when I just can't bite my tongue any harder! I see some things that just makes me wonder how people survive from day to day. It appears common sense has sprouted wings and taken flight!!!!!!!
You all know how it is. Everyone gets offended today. Everything offends them - even the simplest of things. We all have a right to our opinions. We don't have to agree.
THAT is why I stay away from many subjects on here. No need for anymore 'noise'!
We all see it and hear each day.
I can't help but wonder what happened, that people think we all have to agree.
Noise comes in all forms. Take control, when and where you can to eliminate all that scattered noise.
You will be happy you did.
Have a wonderful day my friends. Stay cool!!!
Big hug to you this morning, Cheryl. You are so right. About a year ago, when I realized FB was causing more stress than fun, I closed my account. Last fall, I stopped watching televised news altogether. Burying my head in the sand? No. As you said, "Sure, we need to be aware, but it doesn't have to overtake our lives or minds." So, I get my news online now, and skip any headlines that read like they come from The National Enquirer.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure when society shifted to the mindset that differing opinions are an "existential threat." Used to be differing opinions were a GOOD thing, because they gave a broader view of the world. I'm also not sure when people became so easily offended. But with all of that in mind, I'd like to share a verse (and thought) for today:
"Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Romans 12:17-18 NIV
Hope you have a peaceful day! --Elise
Great and very appropriate verse.
DeleteI don't know when or where it happened either. I don't agree with a huge part of society - that is my right. Just because everyone is doing it or saying it - doesn't make it right. That is what I know.
Wrong is always wrong - no matter what spin you put on it!
You are right - so many news articles look like they could be National Enquirer! I want NEWS - not a newscaster's opinion. We all have one of those!!!!! (you know what I mean).
Yep, it seems everything threatens especially younger folk today - They sure wouldn't have made it 50+ years ago!!
Quiet day here - that is fine with me. Have a great day!
I'm nodding because I understand. I haven't spoken to my brother in a year because he. just. can't. let. things. be. When I say "Well, we'll have to agree to disagree", he gets angry. Then he hits hard. "You need to educate yourself.". Then, when I don't bite, he's goes for the jugular.
ReplyDelete::: chuckle chuckle:::(him, not me).
"I had no idea you were a racist/sexist/bigot/name your bias.
I thought you were a Christian woman. Huh.". This is the point where I hang up and we don't speak for a year. Then he gets lonely and whiny and back on the crazy go round.
As for noise, apparently nobody within 40 miles has any money trouble. It was sheer lunacy. One thing set off sounded like a mutant jet engine and rumbled so loud that we thought it was thunder.
We had a delicious dinner of hamburgers, corn on the cob, and watermelon. Yum! And we have leftovers for lunch!
Doggy is feeling much better so we feel better and got back to a normal schedule yesterday. What relief!
But, it's been hot hot hot! After my morning chores, I'm heading to my craft room to do some Christmas card making. Maybe looking at snow pictures will make it feel cooler?! Optimism!!
Debby, I have 2 brothers like that. The older brother hasn't even spoken to our mother (who is 89) in at least 5 years. The younger one goes on a tear cyclically. Which is why I insist it isn't women who are the volatile, emotional ones!
DeleteSo glad your doggy is feeling better! And isn't it nice to have a craft room? Our guest bedroom will double as that for me... once we can find all of my crafting supplies.
--Elise
Debby I would hang up too. No one needs to infiltrate your home - your private space with garbage like that. I think people say "educate yourself" they are kind of like those that scream "cheating" all time - they are probably the guilty ones! LOL.
DeleteI hear you on the noise of fireworks. You would sure think a lot of people have a lot of money. Probably many who will be late on bills this month or not have groceries or have a BIG CC bill! It always just amazes me.
Sounds like a nice dinner and I am so happy your pupper is feeling better!!!
You day sounds ideal! ENJOY!
Elis, I cannot imagine the guilt I would have had, had I not spoken to my mom for so long. She won't be here forever and then there will NO chance of talking. That is so incredibly sad.
DeleteSome day he will be so sorry.
The world is a noisy and messy place. I try to avoid both! For the life of me I cannot understand why folks spend major $$$ on fireworks. It did seem like there was less this year. Hopefully it won't continue tonight.
ReplyDeleteGonna be super hot today. I have a garage organizing project but it's too hot to work on it.
The Urban Farmer is making a cherry upside down cake. Have some cherries in the freezer that need to be used.
That is the main reason I just stay home - I guess I am not real peopley!!!!!
DeleteI hope tonight is quiet too - everyone is back to work - so here is hoping. It actually stopped about 11:30 here last night - even though city said midnight was cut-off. LOL - like people listen!!!!
Hot for sure. I went out and pulled some weeds early - that was enough. I am hoping for some rain (not storms) tonight - maybe tomorrow!!
The cake sounds delish! Have a good one.
I posted a sweet picture with us with two of our grandchildren on Facebook and my BIL bullied my husband. I have seen him do this before with family and I just don't get it. Tomorrow he will posting one of his sermons that he expects everyone to read and praise him for but his bullying speaks louder than anything else.
ReplyDeleteWHAT????? That is crazy. I love seeing family pictures - sometimes that is all you get - as people are far away.
DeleteI just don't understand bullies. Something very wrong with THEM!
I spent most of yesterday evening trying to quell a panic attack because fools were shooting off fireworks down the street. And these are legal in this benighted state! Have you ever seen a mobile home burn? You have about 10 seconds to get out, that is how fast they go up. Prayer and calming techniques got me through it, but I'm feeling the after-effects today, sore and exhausted.
ReplyDeleteAs for internet/societal "noise", I am an unapologetic introvert thinker (INTJ) who stays away from people as much as I can. Seems like every time I open my mouth I'm misunderstood and someone takes offense. Quit FB years ago. Pinterest is only to collect quilt pattern ideas. This is the only blog in which I comment regularly.
--Frances in the Trailer Park
Frances, Oh how awful for you. Goodness, that never entered my mind. I worry about all kinds of people and animals - but a mobile home would go up quickly. Bless your heart. I am sooooo happy all is well today. I know here it has been so stinking dry - it wouldn't take much.
DeleteI used to be a people person - not so much anymore. Since I am alone, I just don't trust many people. I can do what I want, say what I want (yes, I talk to myself and kitties) and just be me while here. Nobody has to like it.
Gal, you have a very safe spot here!!!!!!!! We listen, we care, and we won't back talk ya! You got a home here.
Have a great one.
Man you are smart to side step all that. Very smart technique you have going there. That's why I bet you are well loved!
ReplyDeleteAaaahhh aren't you sweet. Thanks Vickie. I am finally after 67 years, learning sometimes it is just better to keep my mouth shut! Momma used to say - it will get you in trouble! LOL - she knew me well!
DeleteWe had enough rain in the last few days that I was not afraid of the fireworks! Most years I am very nervous.
ReplyDeleteNo Facebook, no TV. Email for the folks I want to be in touch with. Nice comments on a peaceful blog like this one.
I am so happy someone got rain!!!!! I am sure hoping.
DeleteYou gals who have gotten rid of FB, and TV are smart. I hardly ever get an email from someone I know. From a couple groups - that is it. Hmmm - maybe if I didn't have FB I would get more emails!!!! LOL
Thank you - just trying to make it a safe place for all.
Have a good one.
It seems as if fireworks here for Canada Day only happen in a few centers. I really missed seeing them this year.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
I wish that were the case here. Sure, they are pretty, it is just the noise that gets me.
DeleteSorry you didn't get to enjoy any.
Have a good one.
I think one of the reasons I like coming here is because I have many bullies/ narcissists in my family. I am so tired of defending myself that I'm not any longer and so now I get accused of being stubborn, the bully and unwilling to listen! I realized that the accusation of "not listening" really means I won't do what they want or always agree with them. A lot of time it's over stupid, insignificant stuff. I'm not allowed to have a different opinion. I just say no or I stay silent while they go off on their tirade. Sometimes I just quietly pray. My faith and my hobbies and my grandson give me joy.
ReplyDeleteSadly, it was quiet here yesterday. All events were cancelled. We live next door to Highland Park IL. I know the town and many people there. I shop in those stores & eat in the restaurants. My in-laws lived there for years. Our church is there. We even marched in the parade years ago. I almost took my visiting bother over there last week.
I couldn't sleep last night and then a severe thunderstorm passed over and I worried a tree would go down as we have many trees around us.
I'm making sheet pan gnocchi and maybe I'll treat myself to dessert tonight.
Thank you for having a nice place.
~~margaret
I am sorry you have to go through that, especially with your own family. I just feel people must be so unhappy in their own lives to be that way with others. So it speaks volumes about them - not you. You seem to be a kind and gentle soul.
DeleteIt seems like storms are the common thing now - I remember when we used to get just showers! I don't like storms either.
Enjoy your goodies.
Thank you for being here and helping to keep things nice.
Have a good day.
I barely heard any fireworks this year, much less than last. But, some noisy ones moved away. None of it was troubling, but quite enjoyable. The only noise in my life that is troubling is the dogs!
ReplyDeleteIt was less here as well - but still pretty loud.
DeleteI have dogs all around me - and barking is what they do. They usually bark to either be let in or to warn of something - so I tolerate it fine.
Have a nice day.
Late to the party ... I had jury duty yesterday and did not get online at all, other than email and Facebook from my phone. Across the street from me is a small pond, then our commuter rail tracks, and then a larger lake. On the opposite side of the lake is the community's largest park, where they had a bandstand set up and that's where the fireworks display is shot off. I had 6 friends over for a BBQ and we took lawn chairs across the street and watched the fireworks pond-side. Not crowded at all and we could easily see the display. Neighborhood fireworks continued for about 90 minutes after that, and then the storms rolled in. I'd fallen asleep with the TV on and, between the TV severe weather announcements and the National Weather Service's RedAlert warnings on my phone, I was up and down all night. My FitBit said I'd gottne 3 hours 31 minutes of sleep, with a score of 58. And that's what I took with me to jury duty. They're lucky they didn't put me on a jury, I would have made their life miserable!!!! As for the "other" noise, I've found that I'm keeping quiet more and more, contributing less and less, and have dropped out of several groups where it just gets to be too much. We frequently mention about the lost skills when they quit Home Ec. I have to wonder if this is fall-out from losing Debate, Communication, persuasive writing and the like in our English Language Arts curriculum. I vividly remember having to defend a point of view in a debate, where I was forced to represent the opposite side of my personal viewpoint. It was hard, but so educational as I worked through the research and it taught me to be more open-minded.
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