Carpe' Diem

 Hello to all.  Happy Wednesday - midweek is already here.  Hope this finds you all well.

It is a lovely sunny morning here today.  It is in the 50's, going into the 70's today.  Lots of dew around!  Birds are singing, and the squirrels are frolicking.  It is a very pretty morning.

YES IT IS!

Thus, the title to today's post.  Make each day count.

I say these things, as 6 years ago today, my life changed in an instant!  It was a day much like this one - very pretty.  A day with plans made of things to do.  Then it all changed.

I do not write this for "I'm sorry" or for you to feel sorry me.  I am OK.  I write this for YOU!!!

Many here know how an instant can change everything.  It isn't something I would wish on anyone - ever.   But it happens. It isn't easy.  It is very hard.  It is upsetting.  It sucks - but it happens.

Glen used to always tell me, that I would outlive him - as he had medical issues.  I never wanted to hear those things.  But that being said, we did over the years talk about the "what if's".  Our wishes, our thoughts and hopes.  We took care of lots of things early in life together - for the 'just in case'.

We woke that morning and neither of us had a clue, at least I know I didn't.  It was a normal morning. We woke up together, and I went to bed that night alone.  Life CHANGED forever.

You all need to make sure you tell people you love them.  It doesn't matter if they are a spouse, children, grands, or friends.  Live your life well.  Do things and enjoy.

Make the most of it.  Be someone and do things, that people will remember fondly one day. Be a good memory for someone!!!

It took me a good 4 years to break out of a shell I got in - seclusion!  I did things with family, but that was pretty much it.  Slowly I started getting out and reacquainting myself with old friends and even meeting some new ones.  I got to really know neighbors.  I tried to break out of my shell a bit.

I did know the whole time - that I needed to do good wherever I could.  I want to live a good life, one that would make Glen happy and proud.  I still fight with myself about doing things and going places, but I am trying.

I keep him alive always.  That one day was horrible, but that was ONE day.  I want to remember and pass on and share all the days I got to spend with him and love him and have fun with him.  The craziness, the jokes (never ending), the days we 'wondered' Indiana together, the days of camping, just the days filled with laughter and love.  I talk about him and share.  My family still talks about him often.

He was/is a huge part of my life, and yes, I am sad he isn't here - but what a gift I was that day I met him 1985!!!!!

So, whether it is someone or something - enjoy them every day.  Don't wait for a "special day".

Use your things!  If you aren't going to use your things - pass them to someone that might.

Enjoy each and every day you have with your people!!

Do things that would make them proud whether they are here or not.  I am trying.

Make this a WONDERFUL DAY!!!!!!

LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL

Little Things can Help a Lot!

 Good morning all.  I hope this finds everyone well.  First, thank you for all the prayers for my gr. nephew.  He is doing well, and finally home.  Still not out of the woods completely, but if he follows the directions of doctors all should be good.  Again, thank you.

It is a beautiful morning here.  Very damp with a lot of dew.  Sun is shining and it will be warming up today - so all is good.  This week looks to be in the 70's most of the week.  Everything is green and pretty.

Easter turned out dry here - it was cloudy a lot, but it stayed dry.  Saturday was a total wash-out.

Today is Earth Day!

It should be something we think about every day.  There are just so many little things that we can do daily, that helps in so many ways.  This is our home - we need to take care of it as well as we can.

• DON'T use chemicals outside!  Please DON'T.  They are damaging to birds and animals and they kill our bees.  We NEED those bees - they are needed for so many things to pollinate
• Plant flowers for the bees
• Keep a plant or two in the house - Plants help the air stay clean - very important
• Be kind to nature.  Yes, some things are invasive - but it is all important for a reason.  Each thing on this earth is put here to take care of something else
• Cut out chemicals in the HOUSE as well.  You don't need to be breathing in all that stuff.  Stop the chemical cleaners - try to make your own from natural things.  Be careful what you buy, clothes, furniture, rugs, etc. - many contain very dangerous chemicals.  I am sure you have all smelled that smell on new items - that isn't good - it is chemicals
• Stop using plastic as much as possible.  Use glass for storage.  Take your own grocery bags to stores
• Walk around and pick up any trash that you see in your neighborhood (or wherever you may be) - if we all do a little it will help so much
• REDUCE, RECYCLE, REUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!  The best 3 R's ever
• Conserve water.  Turn it off, fix those leaks.  Save rainwater if possible, for plants
• Choose sustainable options of things.  Natural things that when used, can be regenerated by the earth.  

Did you know these little -pain in the bum- whirlies are edible?  Yep, they are.  The bean inside is very edible.  They contain protein, fiber, and healthy fats.  Can be eaten raw or cooked.  Younger ones have a very mild flavor.  Animals love them - my squirrels sit and feast on them!  Use them on cereal or on top of salads.  Just a thought in case you are ever out or lost and need something to eat as well!

• Many plants, leaves, 'weeds' and flowers are edible or usable in many ways.  Jellies can be made from lots of flowers and what may be considered weeds (dandelions, violets, clover).  Tinctures and salves can be made.  Teas.  Many leaves and flowers can even be eaten in salads or cooked
• Walk more if possible - at least take less trips in your vehicles.
• PLANT - weather it is trees, flowers, or veggies.  Grow things - it all helps the air and the soil and our bodies
• Forage - this kind of goes with above - things that are edible.  You can often find berries, grapes, nuts, mushrooms, etc. growing out in nature and they can add to your pantry.  KNOW what you are getting - do the research.  You don't want things that can harm you
• Turn things OFF - lights, heat, water, etc.  If you aren't using it - turn it off
• Don't WASTE - try to use 100% of what you bring in your house in some way
• Eat as natural as you can.  Less junk and processed food - means less health issues and it means less packaging and less spending of $.  If we all stopped that stuff - it really could make a difference.  If it doesn't sale - less will be made

There are so many little things that we can do on a daily basis to not only help the earth, but to help our bodies and to help our pocketbooks!  Just try to be a little more conscientious of things.

Get outside and just chill a little.  Enjoy all the beauty and the nature and sounds.  I know many of us get outside to work - but we also need to relax outside too.  ENJOY what we have.

Take care of things and they will help take care of you.

Have a beautiful day!

Weekly Wrap Up 4/20

 Resurrection Day - Happy Easter to all.  May you all be blessed this day and every day!  I hope everyone takes a moment to count their blessings today.

We have a lovely morning here.  The sun is kind of shining - with some clouds.  It is in the 50's this morning.  Looks like some off and on rain maybe.  Yesterday was pretty much a wash out with rain.

I did enjoy watching the Robins yesterday.  They decided it was bath time - and they were lined up at the birdbath waiting their turn.  I had 6 or 7 lined up for about an hour - They sure did enjoy themselves.

I got a call early this morning that my Gr. Nephew is in the hospital.  He is a young man who was having fun with his friends yesterday on a day off from work.  He fell and hit his head and has a broken vertebrae and some fractures in his neck, and as of last night had bleeding in his head.  He is good spirits this morning and he was sent from southern IN to Methodist Hospital here in my city last evening.  The bleeding has stopped thank goodness.  Of course, my niece is up here with him.  I know God has him in His healing hands, but if you are so inclined, please say a prayer for KJ for complete healing.  Thank you.

My week:

• Baked biscuits one day
• Used leftovers in new ways and tried not to waste - some were frozen as well
• I went out to clear our Pampas grass (3 plants).  Last fall I cut to about waist height - so I cut it way back and cleaned out all the dead stuff.    Must have stirred up something, as Licorice now thinks he needs to roll and roll around back there!  Also cleaned out and cut all wild stuff growing back there
• Did my trash p/u walk
• Moving lots of lumber and also moved a lot of my decorative rocks and fossil rocks around
• Received a beautiful handmade card from Cookie!!!  THANK YOU
• Did run out to get corn and finch feed at the feed store - resisted buying any plants yet!
• Had a broken squirrel feeder - so fixed that
• Mowed and trimmed the whole yard
• Made almost a gallon of frozen 'fruit cream' (it is so good) - using fruit that needed used
• Aired the house several days
• Worked in the garage trying to clean and throw away some stuff - huge job
• Paid everything I had here, except property taxes - which I received this week.  I will pay next week
• Laundered all the warm cat bedding from outside - fresh and ready for next winter!
• NO groceries at all
• Just doing all the normal stuff and eating at home

Meals this past week:

Leftover rice/w beans added and biscuits

Egg salad on biscuits and fresh veggies

"Poor man's" Swiss steak and mashed pots

2 sausage/egg biscuits and fresh veggies

Individual 'cottage pie' - using leftovers

Taco salad

Loaded baked potato and side of Brussel sprouts

SNACKS: PB sandwich, popcorn, fruit cream, nuts, fruit

Just trying to get outside in shape - it is a big job and seems to be never ending.  So much to do. 

How has your week been?  Have you been keeping busy outdoors or spring cleaning?  Any good deals?

I hope you are all safe and well.  I hope you all have a wonderful day today, no matter how you spend it.  I just hope we all take time to be thankful and prayerful of all that we have.  

Wishing you all a wonderful and blessed week.

Blessing to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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Dear Lord, we cannot offer enough thank You's for the gift that we have been given.  We have been given the gift of everlasting life.  May we each go forth and live our best lives possible and do good and thoughtful things for others.  May we protect this earth and all the wonders you have put before us.  It is hard to comprehend such a GIFT, but You gave it so we can all be forgiven of our transgressions and have an eternal life.  Thank You for each moment of each day.  AMEN

Easter and the Weekend

 Hello all.  Hope this is finding you all well.  Here we are approaching the end to another week.  My goodness the time is just flying by.  May starts in 2 weeks!

It is a very nice morning here.  The birds are chirping and singing.  Everything is thriving and growing and greening.  Just about every tree has little leaves now or at least buds.  So much color - it always amazes me how many shades of green there is in this world!

I have my 'old lady farm jeans' on already - to work outside today!  You know those loose fitting old grungy jeans? LOL!   Tomorrow is supposed to get to 80*F as a weather front moves in.  Looks like a lot of rain and wind again (and some storms) for the weekend.  Prayers for everyone's safety.

Tomorrow is Good Friday.  I hope everyone takes some time to reflect on the love and sacrifice that was given to us many, many decades ago.  What love, to be willing to sacrifice your only Son for others, and to be willing to be sacrificed.  I cannot imagine - but I am sure grateful.

Sunday is Easter, and I hope most realize this isn't all about the gifts, candy and the bunny.  It is a glorious day of LIFE ever after!

Easter was the last holiday that Glen and I got to observe together on this earth - how fitting.  A few days later he started his life in heaven with our Lord.  LIFE ever after!  That gives me hope and contentment and faith in daily life.

Along the lines of our frugal living, please know you don't have to go out and spend a fortune to celebrate this day.  Homemade treats and even gifts can be made.  Your meal can be anything you like and have on hand.  It doesn't have to be a ham and all the fixin's - it can be anything.  If you like spaghetti - fix it.  It you want fish, roast, lasagna, grilled burgers or even pizza - fix it.

It is about being with your loved ones and reflecting on the love and life you have been given.

If you are not of a religious nature, take time to reflect on all the beauty that surrounds us each and every day.  All the wonders of nature, that we get to enjoy.  On just waking up each morning and getting to go out and do what you want or need.  Appreciate the beauty of the world.  Spend a day reflecting on positive and not negative.  Go forth and add a little beauty to the world.

Here is a list of many stores that have committed to closing on Easter Sunday, so employees have time to be with family.  I well imagine that there will be many others.  I hope so.

No matter what I may not have or may have forgotten, going out to shop on a holiday is not something I have ever done.  I believe holidays should be spent with family, and when I go into a shop, it tells that retailer it is OK to be open.  

I applaud those that close.

I wish you all a wonderful weekend.  I hope you get to be with someone you love, and that you get time to reflect on all the gifts we are given in this big old world.

If you are getting nice weather, get out and enjoy it a bit.

Have a beautiful weekend.  

Life is glorious!

Stocking - When Money is Tight

 Good morning all.  It is a sunny and chilly morn here.  A little frosty, but not too bad.  Hoping for a pretty day.  It looks like we will have a soggy Easter weekend.

I am still 'mending' after Mondays yard work!  My legs are so sore - getting older is heck.

Let's talk today about stocking up for whatever may happen in life, when you are already short on money.  It can be done.  I keep seeing people say - when you are already strapped at your tightest, it isn't possible.  Well, it really is.

Remember the old saying "How do you eat an elephant?"  "One bite at a time"!  That is kind of how stocking is on a tight budget.

Lots of people don't want to admit, no matter how tight the budget, that little changes can be made.  People DO NOT like change.  They are comfortable in their habits and really don't like changing things up at all.

Can you free up $10 - $20 a month?  Bet you can.

Maybe a couple of lunches not purchased (take your own), or no snacks a few days or drinks out.  Look into to cutting back your cable program or internet service.  Drive less.  No non-essential shopping.  Keep any spare change you may have.  Keep that change and use it to stock.    Lessen power or water usage.  Itty bity, tiny changes do add up.  Save anywhere you can.

Now when you go to the store, buy essentials.  Not everyone knows how or does cook from scratch.  I understand that.  That is something else that takes time to get into.  That should be your goal - to use ingredients to make the foods you eat and like instead of a mix or box.  It will be healthier and cheaper - REALLY!

When you shop, buy 2 instead of one, of some things.  Look at the B1G1 deals - although those aren't often the deal many think they are.  Look for sale prices and clearance.  Think about going to a different type of store.  Maybe stop buying snacks or pop - then buy something nutritious.

When you buy that second item - put it back for a time when the budget is even tighter or an event happens that you can't shop.  

You want things that are good for you - but the important thing MAY BE just having something.  As you get used to stocking - you will see the importance of things.  

You can grow lettuce, tomatoes, radish, carrots, etc.  You can maybe fish or maybe hunt.  You can't grow flour or rice or sugar or salt.  You see where I am going?    

You will start getting the things that are needed that you can't produce yourself.  You will start getting the hang of it.  

Look for clearance and sales - THIS IS ESSENTIAL.  The jars of pasta above, are just for my daily use.  I have lots, and lots of pasta.  I have all shapes and sizes - I get super sales or clearance most often.  I try to keep all pasta in glass jars - it lasts for years truly!  Pasta is one thing I never pay full price for.  Rice is another.  I get it on deals whenever I can.

Both items are things that can stretch absolutely any meal for pennies.

See the jar of dehydrated mushrooms?  I have jars and jars of them.  Anytime I see mushrooms on clearance, I get them and slice and dehydrate.  To me they are one of the easiest things ever to dehydrate.  I keep in glass jars with moisture absorber added and they last and last.  A little hot water or broth and are like fresh sliced to use in cooking!  I use them often.

You can buy cheap frozen veggies (like mixed for soups) and dehydrate those as well.  It takes up so little room in your storage and frees your freezer up for bigger finds.  (you can dehydrate in an oven if no dehydrator)

Cooking from scratch if you don't now?  Ease into it.  Use different sites on the computer to find recipe sites - using what you have to make meals.  It may not be something you do every day, but you can do it now and then and start learning.

Did you know rice can be ground into flour?  Not so great for bread, but it can be used in pancakes and waffles.  Oats can be ground as well. 

Start baking with simple items like biscuits.  They are about the easiest thing to make and it only costs pennies for a filling item.  Pancakes, waffles, are simple as well.  Learn to make gravy - it is a great extender.  Breakfasts of oatmeal and maybe some canned or frozen fruit - if you don't have fresh - sure beats the cost of breakfast out.

Drink water or make tea.  Stop the soda habit - that is so expensive for those without stable funds.

When you get a nice amount of 'regular' food whether canned or frozen - then you can start thinking about other things like powdered milk, baking supplies, etc.  Powdered milk can be handy in baking and cooking and even in a pinch when you need milk to drink!  Throw in a little cocoa if you need to.  Add to the 'ingredient' supplies.

Don't forget TP, shampoo, dish soap, laundry supplies, deodorant, etc.  Every now and then buy an extra.  Don't forget the pets.  It pays to have extras.   You never know what can happen in life to change your situation.

So, start taking notes on everything you spend money on - everything.  Look at the things you can stop spending on or cut back on.  Use those dollars, no matter how few they are to add some extra stock to your home.  It is your job to take care of your family - no one else's.  

Start taking bites of the elephant!!!!!!

Soon you will see a nice stockpile and you will feel the comfort of knowing your family will be ok.

Start now.  Baby steps.  Learn and follow along with people that can give advice or help.  Make changes.

YES, you can stock even when you think the budget says different. 

You got this - just get started.  It is addictive!!!!!

Have a wonderful day!!!!

Looking for Bargains - They are Still Around

 Hello to all.  Happy Tuesday.  Hoping you are all well and safe.  It is cooler here this morning than yesterday for sure!  Yesterday was a lovely day - it got to 73* at my house.  I worked outside a lot yesterday, and boy can I feel it this morning.  LOL!  I did sleep well, as I was just plain old tired.

Today is going to be much cooler and windy again!  It started out sunny, now it is very cloudy and overcast.  The wind is nuts already!!!

Just a peek of my perennial bed.  It is really popping up.  Looks like there will be a lot of poppies this year!  They have burst out of the bed!

Well, as promised, and little about still finding bargains at the grocery.  I ran into Kroger Friday for just a couple of fresh items.  I wanted potatoes, radish, and mini peppers.  I went on Friday as well, so that whatever I purchased gave me 4X my points for gas. I got what I went in for.

Of course I walk the store, JUST IN CASE!

Milk was reduced to .98 a half gallon - dated 4/21.  Pretty darn cheap in my book.  Milk can be frozen too if you find a great deal.

I found this.  I really didn't need ground beef but figured I would add to the freezer.  This is 85/15 organic - 3 pack deal (3 lbs.) was 10.53 = 3.51 per pound.  They had regular 80/20 on sale for 3.99/lb.  I hate paying over $3 but, that is a thing now.  Once in a great while I will find cheaper, but not often.  I got 6 lbs. of this.  So, it will easily be 12+ meals (soups, casseroles).  If making a burger only, it would be it would make 24 meals for me. (1/4 lb. burger)

Pretty cheap protein.

Rice was 5 lbs. for 1.88 and lentils were ,67 lb.  Adding to my stock

I also got a 1 lb. canister of Coffee Mate (powder) on clearance for 1.68 (no pic).  I am not a coffee drinker, but it can be used in hot chocolate or in something that I need a dairy flavor in (mixed with water).  It is dated (sell by) 11/25 - but I will keep it in the freezer for long term use.

Bread was FREE - for stopping in the thrift store.  This is expensive bread.  Found a .50 new coloring book for a gr. niece.

There were so many things this week in the clearance section - but most were things I wouldn't use.

Kroger regularly has deals on meat.  Every time I have gone in during the past couple months there are deals.  

It is a regular at my stores to have multi-packs of pork chops for $5 - it includes 10-12 chops.  Same with chicken legs and thighs.  I bought chicken legs a while back that had 14 huge legs in it, and it was on discount for 2.59.  Super deal.  They have also had fresh salmon, catfish and shrimp in the $5 packs.  Those are pretty darn good prices today.  You just have to pay attention and look around.  Deals can still be found.

We have a discount store that also provides many deals in all things.  They have things from yard equipment, clothes, toys, furniture and food.

Here is a look at a couple of their FB ads showing deals.  It changes up every week.  Some are great and I have purchased there before, and the produce is always good.

There is always a deal.  For anyone close to me this is Circle City Bargains on US 31 south, just north of Greenwood (they are on FB).  This is also where I got my mower and pressure washer.

If you click on the bottom picture, you can see the pricing better.

You just have to look for options and really look around the stores.  I recently saw someone post that Aldi had tomato soup for .29 can!  I saw an Aldi post on FB yesterday with small mushroom pizzas (frozen) having an unadvertised special for .49 each!!  Sign up to get advertisements or FB ads for your favorite stores.  Many send emails to you as well, if you choose.

I have never done any of the apps for groceries.  I do not have that type of phone - but I can sure find a deal by looking around!

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Just a side note- I make my own dressing, and I use an old store-bought bottle to keep it in.  A couple weeks ago, my ranch looked empty, but I turned it upside down in the frig - and I got an additional 5 uses on side salads out of it!!  Empty doesn't really mean empty.  You can always add a bit of milk and shake it up to stretch.  Italian can add vinegar and/or a bit of oil to extend. 

Of course, shampoo, dish soap and laundry soap - add water and shake.  You will be amazed how much is left and how well it works.  Cut things open like lotion and toothpaste - many more uses.

Just stop and think!!  There are lots of ways to extend your pantry and freezer and the items you have.  Use lentils with or to replace meat in soups and casseroles - they are the great extender!  Use less meat.  I can have meals with no meat and still get protein, and I get full.  

Like my Coffee Mate buy - think about other uses than the normal one!

Deals are still out there.  It may not always be 'what you went in for', but maybe you can change up your idea of need.  Be open to going with the deals to help in the menus.  Be observant!!!  It can pay off big time.

Have a super day to all!

Faith over Fear

Weekly Wrap Up 4/13

 Happy Sunday to all.  Happy Palm Sunday!  I hope this finds everyone well, safe and blessed.

It is a decent morning here.  In the 40's and a bit overcast.  Still kind of bright and it isn't raining!  It looks like this coming week will be very near seasonal temps for this time of the year.  That is good.

It is just getting so pretty out.  The grass is vivid green, all the trees are budding and leafing and the flowering trees are magnificent.

The birdies are singing this morning, Licorice has been fed, and the squirrels are scampering all around.  I always have finches, all year long, but the first "bright yellow" gold finches have shown up in the past couple days.  Oh goodness, they are pretty.  Bitsy is curled up next to me and being a cutey!  It is a great morning.

Just a lot of this and that this week!

• Worked on getting the basement floor all dry - that took a couple days.  So happy to have a dehumidifier, shop vac and a fan - they helped a lot
• Picked up lots of sticks after the storms
• Had landscape timbers (8' - 4x4) actually float many feet from all the water in the yard out back!  Got those back where they should be.  They have never floated like that in all these years.  We had a lot of rain to say the least.
• Spent a half day with sis.  That was fun
• Dug out the front street storm drain (2 doors down).  It was packed with dirt, leaves and sweetgum balls and almost couldn't see it.  No wonder we had so much flooding on my street.  I dug it out and removed all the gunk.  It is free and clear now!
• Got to air the house some on a few days
• Recorded some very old classics to watch at a later date (from 40's)
• Mowed front to back and trimmed everything
• Did laundry and used dehumidifier water in the laundry
• Cooking meals at home and using up leftovers in new ways
• I did go to the store Friday to get a few fresh goods.  I found a bunch of really good clearance items and will share those on Tuesday.  Want to post about ways to still get deals!  Also got 4X points on Friday to help with gas later on.
• Just doing all the normal things

Meals this past week:

Made a chili/cheese spread/dip and had with crusty bread - fresh veggies

Deconstructed cabbage roll skillet (used leftover fried cabbage)

Chili/cheese fries and a side salad - (leftover spread)

Chicken breast, fried corn and asparagus

Chicken/mushroom spaghetti, fresh veggies (leftover chicken)

Cheeseburger and fruit

Spicey rice, sausage, cherry toms

There you have it - just a lot of odds and ends.  How was your week?  Has everyone gotten things taken care of after all the storms?   We still have 18 counties under declared emergency!  There is still just so much flooding in the southern part of the state, as it is in many places.

What have you all been up to this week?  Any good deals?  I hope it is getting warmer for those in the great up north.

I hope you all have a lovely and safe and healthy week.  May your week be filled with blessings of all sorts.  Enjoy as the weather warms and sun and fresh air abound.

Blessings to you and yours from me at my humble little home.

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Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me.

Psalms 51:10

Dear Lord, again we send up thanks for all the many, many blessings that we have received.  May we all try to live our best life and be kind and good to others.  May our words and deeds be kind to all.  Help us to improve ourselves each and every day and to improve our attitudes and reactions to others and to things we cannot control.  May we all exemplify the life Christ lived.  In His name we pray, AMEN

Faith over Fear