OK who is singing that quirky little song now??? LOL
Just a small post about just being you. It seems today so many people seem to think they need to empress others. Not me!! I could care less. You like me, fine - you don't, well that is fine too. Life is just too short to be worried about what others think or trying to 'keep up with the Jones'. I may have done that in the past - NO MORE!
I spent a lot of years trying to please others and live like I thought they expected me to (not talking of my hubby). Not any more. It sure did nothing to make me happy. It did nothing for my self confidence. It did nothing for my LOVE of myself. Today - you get what you get. Take it or leave it. I really don't care.
Maybe age has made me a little wiser - I would like to think so.
I have also realized that that everything can change in an instant - and BOOM - the reality you had, just changed. You have to make a new reality (as hard as that is).
IF you are single - well kiddos - things change.
If you want to wear PJ's all day - that is OK
If you want to leave stuff on the counter - that is OK
If you don't want to make the bed - that is OK
If you want to eat junk for dinner - that is OK
If you want to go to bed early or sleep late - that is OK
If you don't feel like cleaning house today - that is OK
If you want to turn up the music crazy loud and dance - that is OK
If you want to keep a stack of books next to your chair - that is OK
If you want to watch stuff nobody else watches - that is OK
If you want to have a cocktail - that is OK
If you want to sing in the car (and really can't!) - that is OK
If you want to splurge now and then - that is OK
If you want to cry and yell - that is OK
If you just want to be YOU - that is 100% A - OK!!!!!!!!!!!
So true - nobody gets out here alive!
Quit worrying about what others think. You have a life to live and you and your creator are the only ones that need to be pleased with your life.
Live a good life. Live a fun life. Live a life of giving. Live a spiritual life. Live a life that does you proud.
Just maybe some day 'they' will say - "She sure knew how to live and gave it her all".
That would be a nice legacy.
STOP THE WORRY