Good morning to all. I am running a little late this morning. I sure didn't want to get out of the bed this morning, it felt so good. Only got up a few minutes later than normal, but it was a struggle! Bitsy even slept in. We had quite a noisy thunder boomer come through this morning. It rained and there was a lot of lightning and thunder. It didn't last none too long, but it delayed my going out to feed the animals and Licorice. When I went out, Licorice was getting ready to come around the house to wait for me! He saw me and ran back to the deck, awaiting his breakfast! He ate, as I did my chores and then went on a walk-about! He sure is sweet.
There are some pretty nasty sounding storms going through a big part of the mid-section of the country this evening and into the morning. South of me looks to be VERY, VERY bad. There are several of the readers here that are in those areas. I pray you are all safe and have no damage. PLEASE take shelter - yes, it looks that bad.
I would love to sit on that empty chair and have a long chat with that lady. Oh, the things I could learn. I would love to know what she feels about the times. What are her ideas of the future? What is a day like? Probably chores and getting by.Sometimes we really make things a lot more difficult than we need to. Today people are all consumed about money. That really saddens me. I think we just make it so much more difficult that it needs to be. ENOUGH - is my word. There are so many more things that are important, that get put aside for making money, growing money, and spending money. I guess I just think that when my day comes to leave this earth - none of it matters!!!!!!! No amount of money will buy my salvation or my eternity.
Sure you need enough to pay your bills and get by. Sometimes it does take making so changes in your lifestyle. It really is about knowing about wants and needs.
All the worry and fretting and complaining does nothing. It just makes you sick and anxious. That is not good.
I know there are many people out there, that think I oversimplify things. They don't want to hear it.
I am a very simple person, always have been. Don't need to impress a soul on this earth. You don't like me - that is on you. I don't really care.
I believe in hard work and being a good steward of what you have. Limiting yourself when you feel it necessary. Learn how to stretch things, money and time. SURE, you may have to learn some new things! That is a good thing. Learning is always a good thing.
The things that are so important in life all have expiration dates! Make those things your priority.
Stop worrying so much and start enjoying.
Am I where I thought I would be at this point in life? NOPE. I sure never wanted to think about life as it is now - but things happen that we can't control. They happen to all of us. So many gals here know exactly what I am talking about. It sucks - there I said it.
BUT saying that - doesn't mean I should give up on life. My love would never have wanted that for me. I bet yours wouldn't either. I do believe they would want us to go forward and live the best we can and make them and the world proud. That is all we can do.
Money is a tool. That is it. As long as you have enough to cover your daily life, you are doing good.
Do your best and be your best. Stop and enjoy life a bit and stop the worry and obsessing.
Try smiling more (even if you don't feel like it) it becomes a habit! Smile and laugh and just enjoy each day you are gifted. Don't waste them.
I know many think I ramble on, but I have learned some hard lessons and just want to share.
Have a great day.
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If you are so inclined, please pray for the safety of those in path of the nasty, nasty storms going through tonight.
I repeat TAKE SHELTER in those areas, don't be brave.
Right now it's already 70 degrees and very windy. Our county is split between the level 4 and 5 (5 being the highest) for severe storms between 3-10pm. NOT looking forward to it but we're as prepared as we can be. Then to top it off they've predicted up to a foot of rain between today and Sunday morning. Our ground is already really saturated. Fun times.
ReplyDeleteI love your outlook on life.
Stay safe Cheryl!! Prayers for all!!
It sure is going to get nasty down in that area. I hate that. Please, please stay safe. The rain is going to be phenomenal. So many flood warnings and like you said more to come almost every day!
DeleteThank you dear.
Prayers for your safety.
Cheryl,
ReplyDeleteWe are also bracing for the storms, that was quite a storm show this morning, I just stayed in bed. I didn't want to hover around and upset the pup. So far he doesn't get anxious in storms and I don't want to subtlety teach him to be anxious by hovering.
The good part of all of this, the grass is greening up and some plants are showing. Storms predicted thru Sunday, I guess I will bake....LOL
JC
There sure was a lot of lightning this morning. Quite the light show. Good idea, to not cause him to be anxious.
DeleteI noticed that this morning - the grass is such a bright green and the horizon changes every day - so many shades of color.
Be safe tonight!
Two years ago I almost died so I thank God every night for my second life. I have always been frugal and a real saver and I now have more than “enough.” I am still frugal but I don’t go overboard and now treat myself. I am very troubled by these times but I am going to focus on enjoying the rest of my life as best I can. Two hurricanes, Helene and Milton, hit my area hard last year and I was blessed to not have flooding or a tree through my roof. I’m leaving for London today and I’m going to enjoy every minute of my trip - even though I still write down everything I spend each day. Old habits never change.
ReplyDeleteBarbara - Every second is a gift for sure. I have always been frugal too -- now I can afford most of what I want. Just don't want a bunch! We save so we can do things later.
DeleteYou were blessed indeed through those storms.
Wishing you a wonderful and safe trip!!! Enjoy your travels.
I agree - old habits die hard!
Outstanding post! We need to be simple, without any thought of impressing anyone. My only thought is that they see the Messiah in me. Yes, work hard and be a good steward of the bounty the Father gives us. And, you DO NOT ramble! It would be a blessing for the two of us to sit in front of that little store and share our thoughts. I remember stores like that one. My mom and I used to go to a little general store in Gadson, which was not too far from the farm where we lived. We would buy ring bologna and Colby cheese and made charcuterie plates (that was way before charcuterie became a thing! ha!) There was also an orchard and greenhouse there. You are so right - "every second is a gift for sure".
ReplyDeleteThe booms didn't last long this morning, very odd storm pattern. I feel for the folks who will be hit by more severe weather later today.
Off to run errands while the rain holds off. Enjoy your day.
Thank you. We just tend to complicate everything in life, and really it is all quite simple. I know many don't believe that - but it is so true. I would love to sit with many of you gals and have a long chat. What fun that would be.
DeleteWe had a little family market a few blocks from where I grew up and it was such a neat place. I wish it still existed.
Yeah, it came through fast. We are a level 3 tonight, I sure hope it doesn't do damage. Some are not as lucky.
Cheryl, You are also very wise and I am grateful for your advice.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind words. Just life experiences that I am sharing.
DeleteI second that! Every post has something I take away.
DeleteThank you!!!!!
DeletePrayers for those looking at big storms. Been there, no fun at all.
ReplyDeleteWe had a little store like that where I grew up - built of concrete block. The nicest people ran it. Gasoline and big bags of cracked rice were our main purchases there. That cracked rice had the best flavor! Because it was long ago and country, sometimes the school bus (a small van) would stop there so we kids could run in and buy a soda or candy. Can't imagine a bus doing that nowadays. I think it usually happened when the driver wanted to buy cigarettes! :D
MaryB
Those little stores were neat. We used to have a penny candy counter at ours, and go in and look and look. Mrs. Slick was always so patient! Mom would send me there in an emergency for things - she thought they cost more, so didn't get a lot there. Sure are fun and good memories.
DeleteI remember daddy sending me to the pharmacy of all places, to buy him cigarettes when I was little.
First round came through around 5:00 AM, and the second (and more severe weather) has just started. We are under a Level 3, with higher for wind, tornado possibility, and localized flooding. Stay safe everyone! As for simplicity, a farmer friend from high school recently commented to me that the problem today is that no one snaps beans on the front porch with grandma any more. I think there's some real truth to that.
ReplyDeleteStay safe. Level 3 here as well.
DeleteGood way to look at it - those were the days. That was the original 'snap chat', wasn't it? LOL
We just have to make things complicated today. It is everywhere.
Money cannot buy happiness, but it can make being miserable better. I truly believe that. BUT I also know that is money can solve a problem it is not a problem. I learned this the hard way.
ReplyDeleteYep! It sure can't buy happiness. Not sure that I have experienced it making miserable better. Not for me anyway.
DeleteI have been frugal most of my life, and being able to do what I want now, is an offshoot for sure. That is a good benefit.
I will say prayers for those in the way of the storms.
ReplyDeleteGood reminders, Cheryl.
God bless.
Thank you - so many need prayers. This is a powerful storm.
DeleteThanks!
Another wise and well put post! I agree with every bit of it. I too am alone, but I love my little life and my little life. I don’t need fancy trips or clothes or stuff. As long as my family and friends are happy and healthy, that’s all that’ s needed. Lynn, Pecos, NM
ReplyDeleteYep, it is the non-monetary things that mean the most to me as well. Just a simple gal. Glad you are living your best life as well.
DeleteI get so mad at the rampant greed of billionaires. I mean really, when is enough enough???
ReplyDeleteThere is so much greed everywhere. Not just the rich, but stores, gasoline, etc. Someone farts sideways and they increase pricing. Nothing changed, just mention of it - and prices go up. It just isn't cool.
DeleteYou always have such a positive outlook on things, Cheryl. I love that about you.
ReplyDeleteSometimes it takes longer for some people to make things click, get it set in their mind, and do the thing it is they’ve been waiting to do for so long such as losing weight or being frugal. But when the aha moment comes it can be sweet like victory. It’s a peaceful feeling to be in that sweet spot and I wish more people could be in that frame of mind. To me, you’ve always been in the sweet spot and offer such wise and sage advice. I always look forward to your posts. My Sunday is not complete until I’ve read your weekly update. 😊
Thank you so much Belinda. I am glad to see you post, I have been worried about the weather in your area.
DeleteIt does take time to get to peaceful place. It really did take me a lot of years - but once there, I really liked it.
I have been through a lot in my life, things no one even knows about, so I try to pass on things I have learned.
Your words are very kind. I appreciate them.